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Why Women Have Totally Unrealistic Standards for Men, Dating, and Marriage

 
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Then your dating the wrong women. Not saying I have a perfect record, but that is what dating is for. To weed out the crazies.
 Quoting: Upheval


But the crazies can hide.

If you think about it, a womans life and role in society is all about pretend and superficiality.
Makeup and fashion is ingrained and that means living up to external standards and mob control by the media and competition to adhere to impossible standards of consumerism and flawed expectations of marrying a SantaClause or some other giftdaddy figure.
Women have no encouragement learn any actural disciple other than manipulation to catch a provider.
And govt makes it so they dont even have to learn how to keep one since they get paid to trade them in whenever they want.

Its just the way it is and you gals are happy to sit there, fatter dumber but happier that the political world seems to revolve around you.
But it doesnt and the ones creating this matrix of lies and NOT your friends, they are using your lusts to destroy you and all you touch.
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I have 3 daughters, I have been married to their mother for 25 years, I'm a simple country boy and my standards are God, Family and friends. 2 of my girls are married to county boys with strong family instincts. tjey will do well.

My only advice on their wedding day was the words exactly..


Keep his belly full and his balls empty, make him ache to want to come home and see you. Try to look nice for him because we are visual creatures. Don't complain because he's gone working. Be a good mother.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21728709


Have to admit - every happily married couple I have ever known said a variance of what you did there.

Perhaps that is the secret sauce to keep it together.
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I never men a man I liked. They either have drinking problems or anger management problems or controlling problems.
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took you three posts to say that?

hmmmmm... thinking you mayhaps have the 'problem'.. "cough"
 Quoting: CitizenPerth


Don't make fun.

Sometimes women have people-picker problems.
We are groomed as children by alcoholic fathers to be sex objects who fetch beer.

Then we find men that we test our limited skills on and it turns out the same for us as adults.

What women really need is some compassion and understanding and tools like Maslows Hierarchy and Understanding Healthy Relationships:
[link to www.thehotline.org (secure)]
 Quoting: MissCleo


Women pick bad partners and then BLAME THE PARTNER.

This is exactly proof positive of how estrogen toxicity works.
Thanks for being (unintentionally) honest about it.
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I have 3 daughters, I have been married to their mother for 25 years, I'm a simple country boy and my standards are God, Family and friends. 2 of my girls are married to county boys with strong family instincts. tjey will do well.

My only advice on their wedding day was the words exactly..


Keep his belly full and his balls empty, make him ache to want to come home and see you. Try to look nice for him because we are visual creatures. Don't complain because he's gone working. Be a good mother.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21728709


They will do well because you are a good dad.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76984449


Don't get me wrong but there's more to being a woman than taking care of a man who is a grown ass adult who can take care of his belly and balls.
And a man should help her feed her passions, be honest and able to communicate. She's a human. Not a slave and has needs too.

Better to say: A man is a hard worker who will ache for her. Men are visual creatures who like to gaze to fill their pride. Men have feelings that they don't always communicate. Men won't ever have the capacity to be a mother, but as a woman I understand that is the greatest joy there is.
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I never men a man I liked. They either have drinking problems or anger management problems or controlling problems.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72040834


took you three posts to say that?

hmmmmm... thinking you mayhaps have the 'problem'.. "cough"
 Quoting: CitizenPerth


Don't make fun.

Sometimes women have people-picker problems.
We are groomed as children by alcoholic fathers to be sex objects who fetch beer.

Then we find men that we test our limited skills on and it turns out the same for us as adults.

What women really need is some compassion and understanding and tools like Maslows Hierarchy and Understanding Healthy Relationships:
[link to www.thehotline.org (secure)]
 Quoting: MissCleo


Women pick bad partners and then BLAME THE PARTNER.

This is exactly proof positive of how estrogen toxicity works.
Thanks for being (unintentionally) honest about it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77862205


Generalized statement.

Some people blame others because they can't communicate emotions. Here are actions that define toxicity (other than your hate).
[link to www.thehotline.org (secure)]
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I would say that only about 10% of the men under 5'10" get chicks.
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I have 3 daughters, I have been married to their mother for 25 years, I'm a simple country boy and my standards are God, Family and friends. 2 of my girls are married to county boys with strong family instincts. tjey will do well.

My only advice on their wedding day was the words exactly..


Keep his belly full and his balls empty, make him ache to want to come home and see you. Try to look nice for him because we are visual creatures. Don't complain because he's gone working. Be a good mother.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21728709


Have to admit - every happily married couple I have ever known said a variance of what you did there.

Perhaps that is the secret sauce to keep it together.
 Quoting: IJumpInIt


Thats what mine does.

When she crawled on top of me in the am I knew is was to make up for some screwup or needless expenditure but its worth it because in the end its affordable and pointless to fight about it.
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took you three posts to say that?

hmmmmm... thinking you mayhaps have the 'problem'.. "cough"
 Quoting: CitizenPerth


Don't make fun.

Sometimes women have people-picker problems.
We are groomed as children by alcoholic fathers to be sex objects who fetch beer.

Then we find men that we test our limited skills on and it turns out the same for us as adults.

What women really need is some compassion and understanding and tools like Maslows Hierarchy and Understanding Healthy Relationships:
[link to www.thehotline.org (secure)]
 Quoting: MissCleo


Women pick bad partners and then BLAME THE PARTNER.

This is exactly proof positive of how estrogen toxicity works.
Thanks for being (unintentionally) honest about it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77862205


Generalized statement.

Some people blame others because they can't communicate emotions. Here are actions that define toxicity (other than your hate).
[link to www.thehotline.org (secure)]
 Quoting: MissCleo


See?

Seems like there is an epidemic of viral illness that causes selfishness, and lack of communication of emotions.
Not a girls fault, is it?
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I never men a man I liked. They either have drinking problems or anger management problems or controlling problems.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72040834


The life of a provider/protector is not always an easy one however the right match will have a calming/stregthening effect on both of you. Sounds like you never got to experience that. A good conservative man might be the ticket for you hard to say.
 Quoting: IJumpInIt


If youve been paying attention, the steady, reliable responsible white male is THE exact thing being demonized from every direction and sources.

The only acceptable male according to the media is a black rapper with a whole bunch of babymommasand a long history of run ins with the law.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77862205


Look at it this way: the media are filtering out the low caliber women for that steady reliable white male.

The women who get suckered in are the dumber ones anyway. Quality guys can now go look in Facebook and screen out the ones with ink up and down their arms, or the ones being hugged from behind by Tyrone.

Here is what my eligible bachelors like:

Women with no children, especially ones that will not look like them. A single mom has already proven she makes bad decisions and lacks the ability for future planning. No, you are not responsible because you work three jobs to support your two-year-old by some jail bird. The responsible woman does not get knocked up out of wedlock to begin with.

Women who are sober. A few beers or drinks on the weekend is fine, so is wine at dinner, but don't get falling down drunk all the time.

Women who are natural looking. Men prefer when women don't look plastic. They are not looking for perfect women, they are looking for women who are FIT - who don't eat a ton of junk food, and who exercise regularly. They don't care that your nose is too fat, or your eyes are too far apart or you have a spot on your forehead. Just have a nice hair style (natural and long preferred) and wear clothes that fit properly (no muffin tops).

No tattoos. Many respectable men will judge you for them like it or not. They see tattoos as a sign of poor mental health, a bad family upbringing, and a lack of forward thinking. Most of the better men do not have tattoos.

Women who can be wife material. Sure many guys can cook, but men value when women can prepare meals at home rather than go out to eat all the time. The diet is healthier anyway.

Women who are assertive but not aggressive. Again, you are not a man. Say what is on your mind and don't play too many games, but don't act like one of the guys, don't try to best them in everything for the sake of besting them. Be a counterbalance not a competitor.

Women who do not whore around. Men are not expecting virgins. But they prefer that you never lived with a guy previously (platonic room mates excepted), that you do not have children already, that you don't keep around a bunch of male 'friends' you've shagged. Why? Because men want to raise their own children, not someone else's and whores are more likely to sneak in some other guy's genes.

Women who are mentally stable. Men appreciate women who can keep their emotions in check, who aren't going to have a crying fit at the slightest wrong word, or have a meltdown like a toddler if she doesn't get what she wants. Men do not want brats.

Women who are considerate of others. Many men complain so many women are too self-absorbed. All they care about are likes on social media, and spending big, living the high life. They say these women fall for players because they are so clued out and into themselves that they miss obvious signs the guy is bad news. They want women who will raise their children, not just keep them distracted with a iPad all the time or shove them into daycare first chance. Women who can be thoughtful and who have good manners.
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I grew up with a house full of women. It was awful. Ruined me for women forever. I've never gotten married, never even lived with a woman because I know what it is like living with a woman. It is hell. Women are delusional morons. Thank god age & the stress of my successful business have robbed me of my sex drive. Most guys see the loss of sex drive as an issue you gotta head to the doctor for. Fuck that....it's a fucking blessing. Now I'm outside the circle of madness and can focus on things that matter. Women do not matter.
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Sorry you had a bad mom if that was the case. There are good women out there. Good conservative women. But they usually aren’t noticed because they aren’t flashy. And they are homebodies many times. If you are ready to have a good relationship and you are husband material then you will find each other. Just don’t throw out the baby with the bath water. Well unless you are a confirmed bachelor and really hate women.
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I don't hate women and have given plenty a chance but it is always the same old story. They constantly accuse me of cheating because I am an independent man and I don't want a woman to move in with me to be my mommy & take care of me. So they start getting suspicious and accuse me of cheating constantly. Either that or they try to manipulate me by taking themselves away from me and then it just becomes texting buddies because I'm constantly being punished because I refuse to be manipulated. And then there are the ones that make it clear you are at least #5 on their list of priorities behind their kids, their mom/dad/siblings, their job, their friends/social media and their pets.

It's just not worth it. I'd rather masturbate and spend time with my dogs. They don't accuse me of cheating, try manipulate me and I am #1 on their list of priorities.

hf
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Maybe you have a certain type of women you keep picking and it isn’t working. Change tactics. Go for those you wouldn’t think of. Most times people pick partners trying to work out childhood issues. Really do some soul searching. When we change our insides the outside will change with it. There are lots of you tube videos that deal with why we pick the people we do. There is some good advice on them. If you are ever bored watch some. Everything starts with us.
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Don't have tactics anymore....I have completely given up. I do not even look at women anymore. The other day I was walking into the grocery story and a pretty woman in a summer dress was walking out. Not sure if it was intended for me but I think it was because as she came thru the doors, she flipped her hands thru her hair and then walked right at me. I immediately put my head down to avoid looking at her at all and as she went by me, she literally said "Pffft...what the hell?" and seemed angry I did not check her out. I have to admit, it made my day.
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well, usually what their plan is, is: get as much as you can,
and then when it all goes to shit, find a new game.
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This.
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Hoping some ladies chime in on a serious note.

To me anyway this is an area parents used to teach their kids but these days are divided by the feminist movement to -NOT- be that way.

More specifically I am curious if mothers today are teaching their girls to find a man -AFTER- 30, if at all. Seems to be what the millenials are doing - waiting until 30+ to seek out a real marriage.

Of course there are those who hook a guy to get prego and ass-rape his life so they have 'income' to look successful as a single mother, but that is not what this thread is about.
 Quoting: IJumpInIt


My daughter is 29. She married a man when she was 25, he is 20 years older (marriage material, steady job, secure, but had flings with floozies).

She couldn't find any boys her age that weren't fucktoy types. There aren't many 20-30 year old men who are wanting to get married and settle down and have great jobs. Unless they come from wealthy families and graduate into the family business.

Most 20-30 year old men aren't established until they are 30-35. So investing in him at a younger age is a risk.
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Spoken like a true whore.
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I have 3 daughters, I have been married to their mother for 25 years, I'm a simple country boy and my standards are God, Family and friends. 2 of my girls are married to county boys with strong family instincts. tjey will do well.

My only advice on their wedding day was the words exactly..


Keep his belly full and his balls empty, make him ache to want to come home and see you. Try to look nice for him because we are visual creatures. Don't complain because he's gone working. Be a good mother.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21728709


Have to admit - every happily married couple I have ever known said a variance of what you did there.

Perhaps that is the secret sauce to keep it together.
 Quoting: IJumpInIt


The man is the provider.
The woman is the... provider of comfort, children, love, sex, meals, education, housekeeping, joy, has to be beautiful all the time, and fill expectations of being a good mother?

So what are men providing actually? just curious to see answers.
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Hoping some ladies chime in on a serious note.

To me anyway this is an area parents used to teach their kids but these days are divided by the feminist movement to -NOT- be that way.

More specifically I am curious if mothers today are teaching their girls to find a man -AFTER- 30, if at all. Seems to be what the millenials are doing - waiting until 30+ to seek out a real marriage.

Of course there are those who hook a guy to get prego and ass-rape his life so they have 'income' to look successful as a single mother, but that is not what this thread is about.
 Quoting: IJumpInIt


My daughter is 29. She married a man when she was 25, he is 20 years older (marriage material, steady job, secure, but had flings with floozies).

She couldn't find any boys her age that weren't fucktoy types. There aren't many 20-30 year old men who are wanting to get married and settle down and have great jobs. Unless they come from wealthy families and graduate into the family business.

Most 20-30 year old men aren't established until they are 30-35. So investing in him at a younger age is a risk.
 Quoting: MissCleo


Spoken like a true whore.
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Fuck you.
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women are loathsome. zero time for their foolishness. I prefer success to a clogged drain and a nagging/needy/untrustworthy clown who has seen 15k linear miles of cock by her 30th bday.

treat western women like single use plastics and if marriage you must, Asian women are still female and smart.
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I never men a man I liked. They either have drinking problems or anger management problems or controlling problems.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72040834


took you three posts to say that?

hmmmmm... thinking you mayhaps have the 'problem'.. "cough"
 Quoting: CitizenPerth


Don't make fun.

Sometimes women have people-picker problems.
We are groomed as children by alcoholic fathers to be sex objects who fetch beer.

Then we find men that we test our limited skills on and it turns out the same for us as adults.

What women really need is some compassion and understanding and tools like Maslows Hierarchy and Understanding Healthy Relationships:
[link to www.thehotline.org (secure)]
 Quoting: MissCleo


Women pick bad partners and then BLAME THE PARTNER.

This is exactly proof positive of how estrogen toxicity works.
Thanks for being (unintentionally) honest about it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77862205


Men do the same. Humans like to blame others for their failures.
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Don't make fun.

Sometimes women have people-picker problems.
We are groomed as children by alcoholic fathers to be sex objects who fetch beer.

Then we find men that we test our limited skills on and it turns out the same for us as adults.

What women really need is some compassion and understanding and tools like Maslows Hierarchy and Understanding Healthy Relationships:
[link to www.thehotline.org (secure)]
 Quoting: MissCleo


Women pick bad partners and then BLAME THE PARTNER.

This is exactly proof positive of how estrogen toxicity works.
Thanks for being (unintentionally) honest about it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77862205


Generalized statement.

Some people blame others because they can't communicate emotions. Here are actions that define toxicity (other than your hate).
[link to www.thehotline.org (secure)]
 Quoting: MissCleo


See?

Seems like there is an epidemic of viral illness that causes selfishness, and lack of communication of emotions.
Not a girls fault, is it?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77862205


It can be anyone's fault/flaw. We are humans, we aren't perfect. heh.

Read the chart. Be a better person. simple.
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I have 3 daughters, I have been married to their mother for 25 years, I'm a simple country boy and my standards are God, Family and friends. 2 of my girls are married to county boys with strong family instincts. tjey will do well.

My only advice on their wedding day was the words exactly..


Keep his belly full and his balls empty, make him ache to want to come home and see you. Try to look nice for him because we are visual creatures. Don't complain because he's gone working. Be a good mother.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21728709


They will do well because you are a good dad.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76984449


Don't get me wrong but there's more to being a woman than taking care of a man who is a grown ass adult who can take care of his belly and balls.
And a man should help her feed her passions, be honest and able to communicate. She's a human. Not a slave and has needs too.

Better to say: A man is a hard worker who will ache for her. Men are visual creatures who like to gaze to fill their pride. Men have feelings that they don't always communicate. Men won't ever have the capacity to be a mother, but as a woman I understand that is the greatest joy there is.
 Quoting: MissCleo


Another excellent 'variance' on what AC21728709 said.
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I have 3 daughters, I have been married to their mother for 25 years, I'm a simple country boy and my standards are God, Family and friends. 2 of my girls are married to county boys with strong family instincts. tjey will do well.

My only advice on their wedding day was the words exactly..


Keep his belly full and his balls empty, make him ache to want to come home and see you. Try to look nice for him because we are visual creatures. Don't complain because he's gone working. Be a good mother.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21728709


Have to admit - every happily married couple I have ever known said a variance of what you did there.

Perhaps that is the secret sauce to keep it together.
 Quoting: IJumpInIt


Thats what mine does.

When she crawled on top of me in the am I knew is was to make up for some screwup or needless expenditure but its worth it because in the end its affordable and pointless to fight about it.
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No ones perfect.
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Hoping some ladies chime in on a serious note.

To me anyway this is an area parents used to teach their kids but these days are divided by the feminist movement to -NOT- be that way.

More specifically I am curious if mothers today are teaching their girls to find a man -AFTER- 30, if at all. Seems to be what the millenials are doing - waiting until 30+ to seek out a real marriage.

Of course there are those who hook a guy to get prego and ass-rape his life so they have 'income' to look successful as a single mother, but that is not what this thread is about.
 Quoting: IJumpInIt


I’m 28, single . I wish I would’ve found a man earlier in life. Seems like I’m not good enough for the guys I’ve dated because they usually are the ones to break up with me.
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Then your dating the wrong women. Not saying I have a perfect record, but that is what dating is for. To weed out the crazies.
 Quoting: Upheval


But the crazies can hide.
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They don't hide that well.

Observe how they act on a Friday night at the bar around their girlfriends. Watch what they eat (make sure they eat meat and not too many carbs!) and how drunk they get and how they behave. Are they the one screaming, or the one rolling their eyes at the screamer.

Crazies are too into shopping, too into personal grooming (perfect hair and French nails and caked on makeup), too into getting likes on social media.

Want to avoid the crazies? Find women with hobbies. Women who like to sew or make crafts, women who play sports but aren't dykey, women who eat healthy. Avoid those with tattoos. Avoid those with bugged out eyes. Accept that all women are a bit crazy, but find the crazy you can tolerate. Avoid women who watch a lot of television or are always on their phones.

Avoid women who want to get too sexual straight away. They are always nuts, from what guys tell me.
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well, usually what their plan is, is: get as much as you can,
and then when it all goes to shit, find a new game.
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This.
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Oh yeah.

You have to find one that doesnt want to repeat the cycle any more.

If you want to get mud on the turtle into your senior years you better be careful in evaluating the prospect and lucky that they dont hide better than you can detect.

I know lots that had a great relationship for years unwed, and after marriage it all rapidly went to shit.
You can never know all the factors but time is the best measure of honesty and character in a potential partner and evaluation of how that person is congruent to their rap..
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Hoping some ladies chime in on a serious note.

To me anyway this is an area parents used to teach their kids but these days are divided by the feminist movement to -NOT- be that way.

More specifically I am curious if mothers today are teaching their girls to find a man -AFTER- 30, if at all. Seems to be what the millenials are doing - waiting until 30+ to seek out a real marriage.

Of course there are those who hook a guy to get prego and ass-rape his life so they have 'income' to look successful as a single mother, but that is not what this thread is about.
 Quoting: IJumpInIt


My daughter is 29. She married a man when she was 25, he is 20 years older (marriage material, steady job, secure, but had flings with floozies).

She couldn't find any boys her age that weren't fucktoy types. There aren't many 20-30 year old men who are wanting to get married and settle down and have great jobs. Unless they come from wealthy families and graduate into the family business.

Most 20-30 year old men aren't established until they are 30-35. So investing in him at a younger age is a risk.
 Quoting: MissCleo


Exactly. I’m now seeking a guy 30+. I don’t want a man that doesn’t know what he wants. Money doesn’t matter, he just needs to be established and have a good head on his shoulder.
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Western women were conditioned this way by the communist destroyers as progress, not my problem they fell for it and are now old and lonely and waiting for death while they are still into 'empowerment'

chuckle

This shit was neer targeted at the immigrants, they marry and have shit loads of children.

Losers.
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Hoping some ladies chime in on a serious note.

To me anyway this is an area parents used to teach their kids but these days are divided by the feminist movement to -NOT- be that way.

More specifically I am curious if mothers today are teaching their girls to find a man -AFTER- 30, if at all. Seems to be what the millenials are doing - waiting until 30+ to seek out a real marriage.

Of course there are those who hook a guy to get prego and ass-rape his life so they have 'income' to look successful as a single mother, but that is not what this thread is about.
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I’m 28, single . I wish I would’ve found a man earlier in life. Seems like I’m not good enough for the guys I’ve dated because they usually are the ones to break up with me.
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I met my husband at age 32. You still have time. hf

Keep looking and work on being the best you can be as an individual. Many men don't get their act together until they are around your age, but you need to be in an environment where you can meet them. Go to professional networking events, conferences, etc. as many as you can. Or if you go to a bar, find ones with live performances, as they attract a better quality crowd including single men. Scope around and be open to being approached.
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As predicted the following red karma came in from someone clearly triggered.

"You excel in propaganda, nice going. But, what's it to you; no one is asking you to date anyone you don't like. FU"

Not propaganda at all, but we can agree to disagree. And if you disagree with that then FU2!
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Then your dating the wrong women. Not saying I have a perfect record, but that is what dating is for. To weed out the crazies.
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But the crazies can hide.
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They don't hide that well.

Observe how they act on a Friday night at the bar around their girlfriends. Watch what they eat (make sure they eat meat and not too many carbs!) and how drunk they get and how they behave. Are they the one screaming, or the one rolling their eyes at the screamer.

Crazies are too into shopping, too into personal grooming (perfect hair and French nails and caked on makeup), too into getting likes on social media.

Want to avoid the crazies? Find women with hobbies. Women who like to sew or make crafts, women who play sports but aren't dykey, women who eat healthy. Avoid those with tattoos. Avoid those with bugged out eyes. Accept that all women are a bit crazy, but find the crazy you can tolerate. Avoid women who watch a lot of television or are always on their phones.

Avoid women who want to get too sexual straight away. They are always nuts, from what guys tell me.
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Their friends and their parental situation is good clue material

Mine broke all the rules with a HO mother and addict father and string of wastoid boyfriends but she kept her rap straight and supported herself congruent to it more than most by her own initiative and didnt get knocked up.
Yeah still a female with all the issues but toned down from most and managable on a good income and someone who knows shit from shinola.
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Sorry you had a bad mom if that was the case. There are good women out there. Good conservative women. But they usually aren’t noticed because they aren’t flashy. And they are homebodies many times. If you are ready to have a good relationship and you are husband material then you will find each other. Just don’t throw out the baby with the bath water. Well unless you are a confirmed bachelor and really hate women.
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I don't hate women and have given plenty a chance but it is always the same old story. They constantly accuse me of cheating because I am an independent man and I don't want a woman to move in with me to be my mommy & take care of me. So they start getting suspicious and accuse me of cheating constantly. Either that or they try to manipulate me by taking themselves away from me and then it just becomes texting buddies because I'm constantly being punished because I refuse to be manipulated. And then there are the ones that make it clear you are at least #5 on their list of priorities behind their kids, their mom/dad/siblings, their job, their friends/social media and their pets.

It's just not worth it. I'd rather masturbate and spend time with my dogs. They don't accuse me of cheating, try manipulate me and I am #1 on their list of priorities.

hf
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Maybe you have a certain type of women you keep picking and it isn’t working. Change tactics. Go for those you wouldn’t think of. Most times people pick partners trying to work out childhood issues. Really do some soul searching. When we change our insides the outside will change with it. There are lots of you tube videos that deal with why we pick the people we do. There is some good advice on them. If you are ever bored watch some. Everything starts with us.
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Don't have tactics anymore....I have completely given up. I do not even look at women anymore. The other day I was walking into the grocery story and a pretty woman in a summer dress was walking out. Not sure if it was intended for me but I think it was because as she came thru the doors, she flipped her hands thru her hair and then walked right at me. I immediately put my head down to avoid looking at her at all and as she went by me, she literally said "Pffft...what the hell?" and seemed angry I did not check her out. I have to admit, it made my day.
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Wow. Maybe you passed a test there. It is making you a better person and the right woman will show up. You will know it. Honestly we are who we attract. A healthy person will not attract an unhealthy one. Keep working on yourself. Kudos.
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Western women were conditioned this way by the communist destroyers as progress, not my problem they fell for it and are now old and lonely and waiting for death while they are still into 'empowerment'

chuckle

This shit was neer targeted at the immigrants, they marry and have shit loads of children.

Losers.
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Hoping some ladies chime in on a serious note.

To me anyway this is an area parents used to teach their kids but these days are divided by the feminist movement to -NOT- be that way.

More specifically I am curious if mothers today are teaching their girls to find a man -AFTER- 30, if at all. Seems to be what the millenials are doing - waiting until 30+ to seek out a real marriage.

Of course there are those who hook a guy to get prego and ass-rape his life so they have 'income' to look successful as a single mother, but that is not what this thread is about.
 Quoting: IJumpInIt


I’m 28, single . I wish I would’ve found a man earlier in life. Seems like I’m not good enough for the guys I’ve dated because they usually are the ones to break up with me.
 Quoting: CigarTigher


I met my husband at age 32. You still have time. hf

Keep looking and work on being the best you can be as an individual. Many men don't get their act together until they are around your age, but you need to be in an environment where you can meet them. Go to professional networking events, conferences, etc. as many as you can. Or if you go to a bar, find ones with live performances, as they attract a better quality crowd including single men. Scope around and be open to being approached.
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Will do :). I also work a lot (trying to pay off my car). Which doesn’t help. I’m just going to remain patient.
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