Belt spankings are child abuse

I got a belt on my backside and I thank my dad, for his forethought.

Spanking and beating are two entirely different things.

Nah...you just lovex squishy things.

They thought it was cute.

Use of a belt constitutes a beating. If you hit an adult with a belt, you would be prosecuted for assault and battery. Yet, somehow, it’s ok to beat a small child with a belt.

I think worse than the belt was the boxwood branch stripped of leaves- the switch.

I remember when I was 5or6 and I wanted to stay with my great great uncle and aunt and cried to go home, my mom ran me down the road screaming hitting me with a fist full of those.

My aunt though..she braided them and flayed my cousin-same age as me at 8 or so- with it until he bled everywhere. It was actually more damaging for me to be made to sit and witness his abuse from that religi-tard crazy woman though. After he was broken and bleeding she went to the kitchen and got a box of salt to rub in it so it wouldn't get infected.

At least when my mom was hitting me I could run and scream. The powerlessness of having to be still and quiet and not move or it would happen to me too was too much for me.

This is what on-the-clock-to-keep-us-on-task looks like, lol.

My father was in WW2 and was a boxer in the army. His hands were lethal therefore, he never used his hands on us kids. My mom did the majority of the beatings. If you were close enough, it was the broom. If you were further away, it was a shoe. One day, I was old enough to catch and stop the broom from hitting me. That was the first and only day I say my mom have a conniption...

Once I became a teenager, the beatings stopped and then reasoning, as a learning tool, took it's place.

Beatings did not hurt me. They molded me and taught me right from wrong. Without it, I would have been a very wild child.

It's child abuse. Period. No room for debate. The people on here defending it most likely abuse their own kids and feel the need to justify it instead of admitting they are in the wrong. Fucking douchebags.

Most I ever gave was a quick swat on the butt with a open palm. That was mostly if they did something LIFE threatening. AFTER I warned them NOT TO.
Some kids need a physical reminder to keep them alive.

A swat on the butt hurts less than
Jumping out of a moving car.
Running into the middle of the road.
Going into that nice pitbulls yard.
Sticking a fork into a toaster.

But yes a belt is a extreme and no, I would never use one.

It might vary kid to kid, but I yelled at my son, usually in the car, lol, and it was enough to really upset him. He is a good, good person. He never was beat. I just berated him a few times, told him I expected better out of him, got on to him for not thinking, being more considerate, ect. It worked or something. He is better than I ever was and I was definitely beat.

Again........two different things.

You do need your ass beat by another adult though. I can agree with that. You are dumb as rocks and need the stupid beat out of you.

Look you dolt.

It is sad to hear that your dad was a piece of shit and actually BEAT you.

That does not equate to my dad beating me.

My dad disciplined me because he loves me. I don't know what your dads malfunction is or was, but it does not equate to my dad being a child abuser you cuck.

I deserved every spanking I received, and several I didn't at the behest of my lying siblings.

You better believe my dad got the truth out of us and taught us that manipulation of the social setup of our family wasn't going to fly.

The six hour sit down sessions I was forced to listen to among my siblings and cousins were far worse than the spanking ever was.

BUT I ALL MEAN THAT WE ALL CAME OUT BETTER PEOPLE ON THE OTHER SIDE FOR IT.

Are you the same P that posts stuff about fireworks and having PTSD because you heard artillery popping off 10 miles away but never were actually under fire?

The reverse is actually true. If parents don't properly discipline their children, including spanking them for disobedience, then they don't love their children. They are being willing parties unto their death.

Since they refuse to discipline, the child grows up without respecting boundaries, rules, and authority, which eventually leads to him receiving the discipline that the world can and will inflict on a person it does not love. This includes beatings from others, jail time, and even death, as well as a whole host of other bad things.

I love my kids enough to prepare them for the world so that the world doesn't wind up becoming the disciplinarian to them when they're older.

Oh and by the way. If I hit an adult, it is because they obviously deserve it and instigated the resulting clash.

They should not be causing trouble and apparently never learned that as a child.

My parents were fucking miserable ass holes who spent most of their life hating people who were successful without religion, people who were educated, people who didn't believe in physical abuse for discipline. Now they hate me.

Sometimes parents are.

Sorry your parents didn't care for you, like mine did and still do for me.

Thank you for such kind thoughts. My kids and friends love me and that's plenty of care for me.

Like I said you abuse your children and try and justify it. Rot in hell.

You welcome.

Some kids don't need physical discipline.

They just naturally do what is right 99/100.

Some are like a squeaky wheel that needs a little grease, so the axle doesn't become broken and upset the whole cart.

Then you have the ones that are broken and intrinsically flawed to begin with and no amount of discipline can fix them.

Those ones usually grow up interfering with the smooth flow of life everyone else is trying to enjoy at others expense because they feel entitled to do so........AND THEY BEAT OTHER PEOPLE FOR THIS CAUSE.

Not disciplining a child is WRONG punk, YOU ARE FILTH and probably have a filthy crap ridden cock plus a panty set and host tranny story time.

So there is going to be a huge push now to get ALL the kids bum screwing and spanking is standing in the way? ROT IN HELL.

Can't you tell right from the first three words: "My cowardly father" that this response is coming from a poster that is reading lines and not actually talking about his real life? No one talks like that about a parent, NO ONE.

This was dreamed up by an infected liberal think tank hell bent on destroying society with trigger phrases. Don't play the game. Take action to stop it and

WAKE UP.

Yeah. That sounds about right.

Even if you don't believe in God, the bible is still an instruction book for righteousness.

Those who pick it up and learn from the lessons written within are always better for doing so.

You're an angry person. My advice to you, take it or leave it, is to Google "What the Bible says about Anger."

Festering anger will make you physically sick, eventually.

Children understand one thing, PAIN.

Beat their asses when they need it.

My children are already adults, but I do own a gun in the event I encounter some other adult who didn't receive the discipline needed as a child and believe I won't stand my ground when they come at me to inflict harm on myself or others.

So yeah. I am still doing my part to uphold the law and make society a better place.

One time my dad caught me sneaking into his bedroom and playing with the gun he had in the nightstand. He whipped my bare ass with a belt until his arm was so tired he couldn't swing it anymore.

Guess what? I never went near the gun again.

jumper cables can sure set a mind right.

mines hug me right after the ass wooping, got my medals.