Younger me would laugh at that number, now that I’m married I feel like shit I have no clue how many I have slept with. She changed my life and my outlook, she had only been with one other person for a long time, when we talked about this I felt like scum telling her I had no clue about mine. So thankful I found her and she is 6 years older than myself. Just look for the right ones in the right places Op, they are still out there.