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What makes people untrustworthy?

 
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10/26/2019 07:53 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Probably deep insecurity and jealousy. Lack of confidence and self respect. They are pitiful but can be dangerous.
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Not knowing right from wrong.

Placing themselves above others.

Feeling entitled to that which they are not and acting to acquire it regardless of the effect upon others.

There are many reasons for it, but I believe they all come from a lack of morality [no moral compass], damned souls by their actions in life.
 Quoting: Louis in Richmond


this makes me feel sad for them.
 Quoting: chasity


It’s sad.
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Probably deep insecurity and jealousy. Lack of confidence and self respect. They are pitiful but can be dangerous.
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10/26/2019 07:59 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Bad with finances, can't delay gratification, inconsistency, serial behavior (i.e. addiction, cheating, social media, etc.), lack of empathy, lying to themselves, & breaching confidentiality.
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10/26/2019 08:02 PM

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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Trustworthy person:

doesn't ask you for money, picks up the check when appropriate, has your back, doesn't gossip, is on time, can carry on a conversation honestly, shows that they care by making sure you are safe and secure.

is empathetic and understands when you are upset, and offers to make you feel comfortable, cheers you up, will go out of their way for you, will let you sleep.
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Not knowing right from wrong.

Placing themselves above others.

Feeling entitled to that which they are not and acting to acquire it regardless of the effect upon others.

There are many reasons for it, but I believe they all come from a lack of morality [no moral compass], damned souls by their actions in life.
 Quoting: Louis in Richmond


this makes me feel sad for them.
 Quoting: chasity


Why? A sorry and thank you goes a long way. They can't even do that. Like, gawd forbid.

No, they expect things to be given to them at no recourse.

I don't understand it.
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10/26/2019 08:03 PM

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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Virtue is a choice.

Most people have negative behavior and coping skills.

We can only control ourselves. Dump people who don't meet your standards.
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10/26/2019 08:03 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
we were born into a sin filled world.
you have to seek christ.
want to overcome.

most don't
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10/26/2019 08:06 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
If they do not believe that they will be held accountable to God

they are not likely to be much concerned about being accountable to people.
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10/26/2019 08:09 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Trustworthy person:

doesn't ask you for money, picks up the check when appropriate, has your back, doesn't gossip, is on time, can carry on a conversation honestly, shows that they care by making sure you are safe and secure.

is empathetic and understands when you are upset, and offers to make you feel comfortable, cheers you up, will go out of their way for you, will let you sleep.
 Quoting: MissCleo




You sound like the Xs ...

God Love 'em!
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10/26/2019 08:15 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Do they have confidence issues? What makes people liars?
 Quoting: chasity


they have their own selfish thoughts which leads to act in different direction. They don't understand it, but the core of selfishness is fear.

they also immediately can justify going against their word in a hundred different ways. It would take a book to detail this.

in an even more simple way: Their desires conflict with yours and they choose theirs over yours.

Their moral compass which would steer them to keep their word is not as strong as their own selfishness or fears.
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10/26/2019 08:18 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Many people are simply not intelligent enough to realize the benefits of being an honest , hard working , compassionate human.

This is mainly just an IQ problem .
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78101920


This is not the case. My ex was smart and hardworking, but she was a damn liar. I’m not sure what the underlying issue is. Confidence? When trust is broken in a relationship, it’s basically all destroyed in my opinion.
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10/26/2019 08:18 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Many times I thought I knew some one, people I knew all their lives, people I knew for 30 years, people from my church, pastors, police force, friends and neighbors only to find out one day I never did know them, they were living very evil double lives and did bad things I could never have dreamed possible.
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10/26/2019 08:19 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Many people are simply not intelligent enough to realize the benefits of being an honest , hard working , compassionate human.

This is mainly just an IQ problem .
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Good post. Even more proof that educated does not necessarily equate to intelligent.
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10/26/2019 08:20 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Virtue is a choice.

Most people have negative behavior and coping skills.

We can only control ourselves. Dump people who don't meet your standards.
 Quoting: MissCleo


I have thought as you do most of my life. My attitude has been, "You're messed up, and I'm not, stay away from me"

I was reminded of the work that lays in front of me when I read this from Lao Tzu, The book of the Tao. The work of the weak is to become strong. The work of the strong is thus:

"What is a good man but a bad man’s teacher?
What is a bad man but a good man’s job?
If you don’t understand this, you will get lost,
however intelligent you are.
It is the great secret."
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Not knowing right from wrong.

Placing themselves above others.

Feeling entitled to that which they are not and acting to acquire it regardless of the effect upon others.

There are many reasons for it, but I believe they all come from a lack of morality [no moral compass], damned souls by their actions in life.
 Quoting: Louis in Richmond


this makes me feel sad for them.
 Quoting: chasity


Treated badly as children. Probably learned lying kept them safe or bought them time. Or maybe they learned it got them rewards so the did it for that reason. I really think its a "childish spirit" and I mean that in the immature bad way, little selfish stunted childish spirit that wants what it wants.
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10/26/2019 08:27 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Not knowing right from wrong.

Placing themselves above others.

Feeling entitled to that which they are not and acting to acquire it regardless of the effect upon others.

There are many reasons for it, but I believe they all come from a lack of morality [no moral compass], damned souls by their actions in life.
 Quoting: Louis in Richmond


this makes me feel sad for them.
 Quoting: chasity


Treated badly as children. Probably learned lying kept them safe or bought them time. Or maybe they learned it got them rewards so the did it for that reason. I really think its a "childish spirit" and I mean that in the immature bad way, little selfish stunted childish spirit that wants what it wants.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77983873


I have to disagree. People who have had it hard tend to be the most honest and good to others. Spoiled people who had all they every wanted tend to be more selfish and less kind to others.
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10/26/2019 08:30 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Being a GAYCUNT

I notice that most POOFY POOFTER HOMOFAGULAR GAYCUNTS can NOT be trusted, ESPECIALLY around CHILDREN

This includes the mentally ill TRANSTESTICLES
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10/26/2019 08:30 PM

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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
It's not what makes people liars, Ya know... it's the perception of the lie nad the lie itself.... What makes my truth better then yours? Feed the MATRIX,TBC-stoked
On the other hand, I have different fingers.
Miss Bunny Swan

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10/26/2019 08:31 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Astrological sign Cancer makes them like that
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10/26/2019 08:32 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
If people do NOT believe in the Creator, then why would it matter???

I find it ironic that even atheists, pagans, and outright haters of the Creator, don't like to be murdered or lied to.

hiding
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10/26/2019 08:34 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
I don't like it when people make promises and don't keep them.

My husband and I never make promises, especially never make a promise when you are in a good mood.
 Quoting: chasity


You must have shit jobs.
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10/26/2019 08:35 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
If people do NOT believe in the Creator, then why would it matter???

I find it ironic that even atheists, pagans, and outright haters of the Creator, don't like to be murdered or lied to.

hiding
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78113948


They might not like to be lied to or murdered, but they often don't seem to mind doing the lying or murdering.

That's my definition of evil.

Being willing to perpetrate upon others what you would be OUTRAGED at, if done to you.

If a person does not believe in God, then ALL BETS ARE OFF.

It means THEY decide what is "right" or wrong. It means they have NOBODY to answer to, except their own personal sense of "justice".
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10/26/2019 08:37 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
it's nothing personal, dude...but your ideas suck and will certainly fail.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78105526


There's one ^^^ right there ^^^.

Wouldn't trust that punk to shine my shoes.
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10/26/2019 08:37 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
People who can not admit to their mistakes.
Anyone who can not grow the seeds I mailed to them (zero fail there).
People with shitty recipes. Dependent upon taste for sure.
People who can not grow out the clones they got...zero fail here.
People who refuse to to admit they are human and fallible?
People who talk over other people with gibberish.
People who use use feelings rather then facts as a discussion point.

I could go on and on but won't.
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
It's about the parents. If the parents are liars, the children will be too. Monkey see, monkey do. If at least one parent exemplifies honesty in their life & takes the time to sit the child down & preach the need for always being truthful, then the seed is planted.

It's a message that needs a lifetime of reinforcement.
 Quoting: XeroGravity



I get the sentiment here, but I don't agree because sometimes in life it's better to lie, and not just for selfish reasons either. To protect someone else for example, or to be diplomatic? Knowing and understanding when it's appropriate, and only using it as a last resort differenients between an actual liar and relatively normal person. If everyone is completely honest all the time it would be like living in a world where everyone has is mentally ill.
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10/26/2019 08:40 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Not knowing right from wrong.

Placing themselves above others.

Feeling entitled to that which they are not and acting to acquire it regardless of the effect upon others.

There are many reasons for it, but I believe they all come from a lack of morality [no moral compass], damned souls by their actions in life.
 Quoting: Louis in Richmond


this makes me feel sad for them.
 Quoting: chasity


Treated badly as children. Probably learned lying kept them safe or bought them time. Or maybe they learned it got them rewards so the did it for that reason. I really think its a "childish spirit" and I mean that in the immature bad way, little selfish stunted childish spirit that wants what it wants.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77983873


I have to disagree. People who have had it hard tend to be the most honest and good to others. Spoiled people who had all they every wanted tend to be more selfish and less kind to others.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78113724



yep. this. And always winning. Like, wtf. So, hope it bites them in the arse.
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Many people are simply not intelligent enough to realize the benefits of being an honest , hard working , compassionate human.

This is mainly just an IQ problem .
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78101920


I'll be damned; that is a nearly perfect explanation. Spend more than 5 minutes on the road or attempt to negotiate a simple trip through the grocery store, and you'll see those fucking morons that obviously had help tying their shoes just to get out of the house. They are ignorant, unaware, basically walking retarded, and don't even know that they're lying. They are THAT fucking stupid. I honestly think that they are too stupid to even recognize the difference between a lie and the truth.
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
when they say shit they have no intention of doing or allowing
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10/26/2019 08:58 PM
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Re: What makes people untrustworthy?
Primarily, selfishness and self-centeredness. Not giving a fuck about the well-being of others.

And then, there's people who get great delight in seeing others destroyed. If they have a hand in getting the ball rolling, or an opportunity to kick someone when they're down, then its all the more delightful to them.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 51084153



That snide evil smile when they say something hurtful. It really is a look of pure evil delight.





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