why do divorced men who re-marry ALWAYS do so with a woman who is younger than his first wife?

WHen you turn in a leased car , and lease a new one, you get the newest model.

I'll second that, and I'm a guy in my 70's!

Females are not desirable for their sense of self.

They're desirable for their bodies and femininity.

Any women that doesn't know that will get old and die alone.

Baggage, and (at least perceived) lack thereof.

Last thing I wanted after getting my heart broken and divorced was to date someone who was going to blather on about how much of an asshole her ex was/is.

Personally, if I ever did remarry I wouldn't want any grumpy ass old man. Men get mean as they get older and are entirely to much work. Not all but most. That's my female perspective anyway.

This is true to a point...

Older cars are easier to work on and parts are cheaper...

Newer cars today are made like crap and parts are more expensive and they could be harder to work on...

Therefore, older cars may require less money then newer cars to maintain. Older cars were made better...

I had dated a woman 15 years my younger. Too much of a generational problem, but the sex was great...

Now I'm with a woman who is of my age. Problem is we are both getting old and we both can't do things. She has more ailments than me and I help her out more. Still I wish I had help too. So that's what you get when you both grow old...

For me, I would never marry younger. My father did and he was more of a control freak. I'm glad that I'm not like that. So bad experiences growing up helped to mold my thinking of marrying a younger woman...

Why is the car analogy used so much on this posting?

Why not a boat or motorcycle?

All women are unique in their own right. And they
have different values in performance.

(Then again, I think a can of Sea-foam does wonders for an older established engine.)

Are you asking me why I prefer fresh chicken as opposed to
old hen?

I’m 5 years younger than my bf. His ex is the same age as him. It’s kinda nice to imagine her scoffing at all that.......being younger.....prettier.... lol

She dated a guy almost 15 years younger than her. It didn’t last more than a month but she was rubbing it in his face as if it was some thing he’d be jealous at.... it actually creeped us the hell out, a 36 year old looking cow dating and attempting to move in with a 20 year old dude....and she has two young daughters....that’s just a red flag right there

because they can

And some divorced women re-marry men who are younger than their first husbands... it’s a win-win situation!

Mine too as a man, women get older and jaded and not willing to do the freaky things a young one will because they are still mad at all men because of what the previous man did to them. Younger women have less baggage, look better, and are better in bed.

There is, young women are better looking...

Females decay faster and harder and as they age they start turning into old men for all intents and purposes.

If it wasn't for physical beauty and some version of genital play women become at best an expensive annoyance.

Exactly!!!

That and as they get older they start to solidify in their minds what they think a man should be according to all the other hens they listen to at work, on social media, and in magazines, all of which are written and mostly divorced hags who are super bitter so they provide advice from a slanted point of view, ruining the woman's reality of what a partnership should be of what an actual marriage should be and start making demands that are unreasonable or skewed by this view.

So a younger woman besides all the obvious things like a fresh this and that, not used up and decapitated from years of use, multiple kids, and being ruined by multiple lovers behind the husbands back (we are talking about a divorce so Im sure that's in there most of the time).

you want science, well... if you've driven a wood panel sided station wagon your whole life because life and what everyone else thought you should be driving told you to, and then you all of the sudden get to choose based on what you have missed out on all these years watching them speed by, well of course your going to want the Ferrari.

you can customize them to your liking and if it doesn't work out the resale value is still high and the next user is going to get a customized ride that still has years of life left in it.

you may not like what I had to say you may not agree with it and you may think that's not how it is, as a divorced man who happens to have a new girl 2 years older then myself, I did date younger in between and no matter what you think, I was living my best life, it was like eating left over pizza that just kept getting more and more stale, then all of the sudden I got to have a Vegas buffet, all fresh and ripe, ready to enjoy how I wished, colorful and exciting, you bet I did and have zero regrets.

I can make this analogy with almost anything, which goes to show it applies to everything, so there you have it, take it or leave it but i'm sure 90% of men who think for themselves will agree, maybe not be into it but agree none the less.

Keanu Reeves is dating a lady that's 52. He's 45. Says he is getting married for the first time in his life. She's just unique.

Why not?

Keanu is 55, my dude...

:keanuthumbsup:

Because the best an most for sure way to piss off a woman is to date her younger sister.

Actually, I think there are a lot of good men and women out there. But, you often can't tell a bad one when you are dating them. You have to give it a good long while for some to show their colors. People get too hung up on tying the knot quickly - they are too desperate to match up. My point is that if you do not need to, why do it? Men and women, if you can take care of yourself, if you are not wanting kids or already have had them, why marry? One should never look to others to provide emotional support and entertainment. You have to love yourself and know how to entertain yourself or you will never be happy, even when you are in a crowd or married.

I was lonely during my marriage. My ex hated me having friends and he was away non-stop travelling with his job. I've been pretty open about having married a narcissist - gilded cage kind of thing. Now I ditched the ex and am single and a whole lot happier and more socially active. But marriage, why?

Women are born with a limited supply of eggs and by 40 bled about 90% of them away.

I think she’s 45.

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do you trade in an old wreck on an older wreck

LOL! But that also goes for men. Most men aren't prizes these days, either. Man, the stories I hear today - our population is in trouble! People screwing cousins, sibling's spouses, men having 10 children by six mothers and not supporting any of them. Alcohol, drugs, old men screwing teens. Working at jobs that pay squat and so ignorant they cannot get a better one. Most men and women today cannot even seem to utter a simple sentence without a bunch of curse words in it and poor grammar. Their bodies are full of gross tattoos. Household income is now something like $61k, but they are such poor money managers they cannot even come up with $10k. They get kicked out of their houses for non-payment of mortgage or rent. Multiple divorces. They have no idea of proper diet and they end up big as barns. They let their kids run wild. BOTH men and women today have some serious issues.

I work with at-risk kids, but also some regular ones. They absolutely cannot believe that I have never been in trouble with the law - never arrested, and that no one in my family has ever been arrested. Really? Whatever happened to protecting your family name/reputation by doing the right thing? That's gone straight out the window.

Tighter, better, faster dumber.

Wow. What a broad oversimplified brush you use. When I remarried my new wife is years older then previous wife so no, it is not ALWAYS.