I'm a 40 year old man and a 20 year year old woman asked me out for coffee.

You should leave a hand full of pubes in the pocket of his robe.

i see crippling negativity in your present .

She's an adult.

Yes, she is.

girls are like cats they love the chase.
when you were flirting there was the possibility.
when you accepted, the chase was over.

she's lost interest and moved on.

You are either gonna get laid or Its a trap.

How racist are you?

Are you sure she dates women?

Hey now...Jay Z and Beyonce have 14 year age difference.

Of course they are rich...

Go get her tiger...

Just try to keep God involved in both your lives, then anything is possible!!

We need more info

Would you say she was a ratchet girl or an educated girl?

That's the key here


And one thing to remember op

There is a 99.9% chance that when she hits 39 she will be extremely fat and aggressive.


But your old enough to know this.


Have a bit of fun.

especially in canaduhstan
the family courts up here are brutal

they will

you for the rest of your life

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Yeah are you single and like her too???

DOIYO!!!

UPDATE: She texted me this morning apologizing that she hadn't gotten back to me as she became busy with work. She asked if I still wanted to go out this evening. I explained I'd since made plans to go to the football game with my son, but am available tomorrow.

I'm picking her up tomorrow afternoon and we're going for sushi.

nice

She's from a good family. She's educated and intelligent. She's not some bimbo from the ghetto as some have seem to implied. She's a confident, beautiful young woman.

hit it and quit it

Hello BLACK WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO GO OUT FOR FUCKING SUSHI!

Her no reply for Saturday was a test.

You passed.

You. Are. About. To. Receive. Young. Poontang.

Ok, she is nice and young and all, but you are not.
You are an old guy, she wants some kind of protection from you, not romantic evenings eating sushi.
She could be your daughter, there can´t be any healthy or normal relations between those age groups.
Do yourself a favour and don´t try to get naked with her.

Let's hope that's all he receives...


Gonorrhea

In 2014, 55.4% of all reported cases of gonorrhea occurred among blacks. The rate of gonorrhea among blacks in 2014 was 405.4 cases per 100,000 population, which was 10.6 times the rate among whites (38.3).

Chlamydia

In 2014, the overall rate among blacks in the United States was 1,117.9 cases per 100,000, a 6.2% decrease from the 2010 rate of 1,167.5 cases per 100,000. The rate of chlamydia among black women was 5.7 times the rate among white women (1,432.6 and 253.3 per 100,000 women, respectively).

Syphillis

During 2010–2014, the rate of primary and secondary (P&S) syphilis among blacks increased 7.8% (from 17.8 to 119.2 cases per 100,000 population). In 2014, 38.1% of all cases reported to CDC were among blacks.

The overall 2014 rate for blacks was 5.4 times the rate for whites, while the 2013 rate was 5.6 times the rate for whites.

HIV / AIDS

In 2014, the estimated diagnosis rate for HIV cases in the United States was 13.8 per 100,000 population and 49.4 among blacks/African Americans. Of 222,185 estimated diagnoses of HIV infection in the United States and six dependent areas from 2010 to 2014, African Americans accounted for the following:

45% of the total
62% of women
64% of infections attributed to heterosexual contact

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OP: Ugh I should avoid these threads but I read through it anyhow. Lots of shit advice.

I'm 48, & I get women in their 20s throwing themselves at me all the time. Don't pay no mind to what anyone else here says. If you want to hit that thang, have at it. BUT - be careful.. these younger women get attached real easy & can go full psycho. Like Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction kind of psycho.

I know some people will go apeshit & call me racist but be EXTRA careful with black women. I've had some go full stalker on me & just from my paying them some friendly attention, no romance or sexy sex-talk. Nada. I'm on hiatus from women for the forseeable future due to that kind of weirdness (my sanity needs a break). Here's my suggestion:

Don't lead her on. Be upfront that there's no future between you two due to the age difference. Show her a good time but be emotionally unavailable. Cut her loose if she gets clingy. Even if you only faintly suspect it. Not sure? When in doubt, bail out. Do what makes you happy, but don't go getting no stupid ideas about having anything serious.

Alright, sounds good. Don't forget to come back and let us know how it goes.

Football game!

Love it but "coffee dates" and "sushi" and "movies" are so CLICHE and LAME. RED FLAGS waving when I read that.

Why do you all ask each other "what do you like (to do) and instead go do THAT?????????

Ideas: Rock Climbing, Ice/Roller Skating, Scuba Diving, Sculpting class...etc

People who go on "coffee dates" are typically uncreative and 99% POOR.
When men ask a woman out on those kinds of dates (or vice versa) it's a tell tale sign that doom is coming.

It's a first date. All those things you mentioned are way too much commitment/time together for a first date.

Don't do that and make this a RACE thing.....

If you are a casual dater and into the hookup cuilture b.s., your odds of contracting an STD are high regardless.....Hispanic, Asian, Black or White.....so stfu

Avoid SEX with people you DON'T KNOW and try to actually get to know them first.....because SEX clouds your ability to think rationally. Remove SEX from the equation and you'll find out that MOST PEOPLE don't have anything in common....like nothing.

Bullshit.....when I get asked out and a "coffee date" is the only option, I bounce and block. I am not here on this earth to waste time.

I am upfront....."I LIKE TO DO ____________......let's go do that"
We can talk and chit chat while doing and activity.
I am not about to head to a fucking Starbucks to waste air WHEN I DON'T EVEN DRINK COFFEE......

You are scary. I hope you're just role playing on GLP and aren't this seriously messed up.

Who said anything about coffee? Calm down.


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