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Q33
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77752946 United States 12/01/2019 04:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got out of a relationship with a BPD woman... it was the most heartbreaking/maddening, soul sucking experience of my life... just a roller coaster of insanity... good was heavenly... bad was an exit south of hell. Truly a mind fuck that nothing could have prepared me for. All men should know what BPD is in a woman, and be aware of the signs of it... it's nothing to take lightly... I doubt I will ever be in a serious relationship again. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78215673 Sweden 12/01/2019 04:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got out of a relationship with a BPD woman... it was the most heartbreaking/maddening, soul sucking experience of my life... just a roller coaster of insanity... good was heavenly... bad was an exit south of hell. Truly a mind fuck that nothing could have prepared me for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77752946 All men should know what BPD is in a woman, and be aware of the signs of it... it's nothing to take lightly... I doubt I will ever be in a serious relationship again. |
Red John
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78131355 United States 12/01/2019 05:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got out of a relationship with a BPD woman... it was the most heartbreaking/maddening, soul sucking experience of my life... just a roller coaster of insanity... good was heavenly... bad was an exit south of hell. Truly a mind fuck that nothing could have prepared me for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77752946 All men should know what BPD is in a woman, and be aware of the signs of it... it's nothing to take lightly... I doubt I will ever be in a serious relationship again. Working with at-risk kids and kids with disabilities, I can tell you that the demographics for ADHD, Schizophrenia, Emotional/Behavioral Disorder, high-functioning Autism, etc. is about 80% boys to 20% girls in youth. Now, these numbers change in adulthood, with 1/3 people suffering from some mental illness. Women are more likely to have depression and anxiety while men are more likely to have substance abuse and anti-social behaviors. The numbers tip towards more women having mental illness in adulthood, but women are much more likely to seek help for their issues, so it's not clear that women actually suffer more mental illness. The point I'm making is that people need to be very careful about who they get into relationships with - both men and women - because there is a lot of craziness out there in both sexes. On a side note, women go through hormonal issues during menopause making sleep difficult. It is common to prescribe meds like Trazodone to these women, which is technically an anti-depressant, but is used for sleep issues. So there are many women being misrepresented as having mental illness who actually do not. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78215673 Sweden 12/01/2019 05:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The baggage that women provide: Quoting: Red John 1. Kids from previous relationship. <- so what? (So what? I don't want to take care of another man's trash) 2. Daddy issues <- that's 90+% of the population (She will always be looking for "Daddy" and you ain't it Daddio) 3. Debt <- not my debt, not my problem, (It will be) 4. Needy 24/7 <- define "needy" (100 texts/calls per day, wanted to know where you are, telling you to ditch your friends) 5. BPD/Psychotic <- a lot of dudes are like that too (I'm not interested in dudes, are you?) :urkindofcrzy: Are you kidding me? I added notes for you in Red since you seem like a deer in headlights kind of guy. |
Q33
User ID: 78187044 Canada 12/01/2019 06:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The baggage that women provide: Quoting: Red John 1. Kids from previous relationship. <- so what? (So what? I don't want to take care of another man's trash) 2. Daddy issues <- that's 90+% of the population (She will always be looking for "Daddy" and you ain't it Daddio) 3. Debt <- not my debt, not my problem, (It will be) 4. Needy 24/7 <- define "needy" (100 texts/calls per day, wanted to know where you are, telling you to ditch your friends) 5. BPD/Psychotic <- a lot of dudes are like that too (I'm not interested in dudes, are you?) Are you kidding me? I added notes for you in Red since you seem like a deer in headlights kind of guy. lol |
LittleMe
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78215673 Sweden 12/01/2019 06:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Leave other people's butts alone you butt pervert. Think before you post next time and try your best to be nice. Awwww... you got yourself a white knight! I’m so happy for you! You're an annoying little chore aren't you? |
LittleMe
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I don’t want flowers when I die… User ID: 78112659 Tonga 12/01/2019 06:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77930416 Leave other people's butts alone you butt pervert. Think before you post next time and try your best to be nice. Awwww... you got yourself a white knight! I’m so happy for you! You're an annoying little chore aren't you? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77357100 Poland 12/01/2019 06:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The baggage that women provide: Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78215673 1. Kids from previous relationship. 2. Daddy issues 3. Debt 4. Needy 24/7 5. BPD/Psychotic Who wants to willingly sign up for this? Not me. I had a girl with all of the baggage from above. She looked good on the outside which is how she roped me in to begin with and the sex was good. But everything else was a NIGHTMARE. I was with her for just over 3 years but she is now seeing someone else after our ugly breakup. She's HIS problem now. The poor sucker didn't even get a warning.. Now, every day is a stress free one for me. NO BAGGAGE whatsoever. Do what I want, when I want, with whom I want. It's the only way to live. It's the ultimate truth with regards to relationships. The tragic part in all of this is that humans are always searching for fulfillment, however illogical and detrimental it might be from a rational standpoint. Simply put: this state of happiness we seek is an inexistent farce, or in this case, unconditional love and respect do not exist if those have to come from another human being. Giving total respect or unconditional love entails sacrificing substantial parts of your own integrity. This isn't an issue when the love and respect are in a perfect equilibrium, but as soon as one person takes another's actions for granted or becomes inconsiderate (or is being perceived that way) shit starts rolling and trust erodes. What you have in 99% of relationships, is a dominant figure (either through intelligence, social status, beauty or physical power etc.) and someone who has to go along to get along in way too many situations for there to still be an equilibrium. People want to be in control. This bitch in particular clearly feels and knows she's inferior to you in all aspects and resents you for it, no matter how many times and in different ways you have proven that your love and devotion were unconditional. I've been there myself with a bitch, almost verbatim to what you experienced. It's an eye-opening experience and it isn't pretty. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78215673 Sweden 12/01/2019 06:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The baggage that women provide: Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78215673 1. Kids from previous relationship. 2. Daddy issues 3. Debt 4. Needy 24/7 5. BPD/Psychotic Who wants to willingly sign up for this? Not me. I had a girl with all of the baggage from above. She looked good on the outside which is how she roped me in to begin with and the sex was good. But everything else was a NIGHTMARE. I was with her for just over 3 years but she is now seeing someone else after our ugly breakup. She's HIS problem now. The poor sucker didn't even get a warning.. Now, every day is a stress free one for me. NO BAGGAGE whatsoever. Do what I want, when I want, with whom I want. It's the only way to live. It's the ultimate truth with regards to relationships. The tragic part in all of this is that humans are always searching for fulfillment, however illogical and detrimental it might be from a rational standpoint. Simply put: this state of happiness we seek is an inexistent farce, or in this case, unconditional love and respect do not exist if those have to come from another human being. Giving total respect or unconditional love entails sacrificing substantial parts of your own integrity. This isn't an issue when the love and respect are in a perfect equilibrium, but as soon as one person takes another's actions for granted or becomes inconsiderate (or is being perceived that way) shit starts rolling and trust erodes. What you have in 99% of relationships, is a dominant figure (either through intelligence, social status, beauty or physical power etc.) and someone who has to go along to get along in way too many situations for there to still be an equilibrium. People want to be in control. This bitch in particular clearly feels and knows she's inferior to you in all aspects and resents you for it, no matter how many times and in different ways you have proven that your love and devotion were unconditional. I've been there myself with a bitch, almost verbatim to what you experienced. It's an eye-opening experience and it isn't pretty. Wow..this is one of the most well thought out and profound replies I've ever seen on a thread. And spot on I should add, well done you! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 24517368 United States 12/01/2019 07:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got out of a relationship with a BPD woman... it was the most heartbreaking/maddening, soul sucking experience of my life... just a roller coaster of insanity... good was heavenly... bad was an exit south of hell. Truly a mind fuck that nothing could have prepared me for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77752946 All men should know what BPD is in a woman, and be aware of the signs of it... it's nothing to take lightly... I doubt I will ever be in a serious relationship again. Working with at-risk kids and kids with disabilities, I can tell you that the demographics for ADHD, Schizophrenia, Emotional/Behavioral Disorder, high-functioning Autism, etc. is about 80% boys to 20% girls in youth. Now, these numbers change in adulthood, with 1/3 people suffering from some mental illness. Women are more likely to have depression and anxiety while men are more likely to have substance abuse and anti-social behaviors. The numbers tip towards more women having mental illness in adulthood, but women are much more likely to seek help for their issues, so it's not clear that women actually suffer more mental illness. The point I'm making is that people need to be very careful about who they get into relationships with - both men and women - because there is a lot of craziness out there in both sexes. On a side note, women go through hormonal issues during menopause making sleep difficult. It is common to prescribe meds like Trazodone to these women, which is technically an anti-depressant, but is used for sleep issues. So there are many women being misrepresented as having mental illness who actually do not. "The point I'm making is that people need to be very careful about who they get into relationships with - both men and women - because there is a lot of craziness out there in both sexes." Gee, we could never have learned that without your brilliance and expertise............ADHD is a bunch of made up B.S. you simpleton.I can tell YOU that You cant tell anyone anything of value that they dont know already themselves and likely will tell someone b.s. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78175405 Canada 12/01/2019 07:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The baggage that women provide: Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78215673 1. Kids from previous relationship. 2. Daddy issues 3. Debt 4. Needy 24/7 5. BPD/Psychotic Who wants to willingly sign up for this? Not me. I had a girl with all of the baggage from above. She looked good on the outside which is how she roped me in to begin with and the sex was good. But everything else was a NIGHTMARE. I was with her for just over 3 years but she is now seeing someone else after our ugly breakup. She's HIS problem now. The poor sucker didn't even get a warning.. Now, every day is a stress free one for me. NO BAGGAGE whatsoever. Do what I want, when I want, with whom I want. It's the only way to live. Just? Are you a bit slow or something? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78131355 United States 12/01/2019 07:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got out of a relationship with a BPD woman... it was the most heartbreaking/maddening, soul sucking experience of my life... just a roller coaster of insanity... good was heavenly... bad was an exit south of hell. Truly a mind fuck that nothing could have prepared me for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77752946 All men should know what BPD is in a woman, and be aware of the signs of it... it's nothing to take lightly... I doubt I will ever be in a serious relationship again. Working with at-risk kids and kids with disabilities, I can tell you that the demographics for ADHD, Schizophrenia, Emotional/Behavioral Disorder, high-functioning Autism, etc. is about 80% boys to 20% girls in youth. Now, these numbers change in adulthood, with 1/3 people suffering from some mental illness. Women are more likely to have depression and anxiety while men are more likely to have substance abuse and anti-social behaviors. The numbers tip towards more women having mental illness in adulthood, but women are much more likely to seek help for their issues, so it's not clear that women actually suffer more mental illness. The point I'm making is that people need to be very careful about who they get into relationships with - both men and women - because there is a lot of craziness out there in both sexes. On a side note, women go through hormonal issues during menopause making sleep difficult. It is common to prescribe meds like Trazodone to these women, which is technically an anti-depressant, but is used for sleep issues. So there are many women being misrepresented as having mental illness who actually do not. "The point I'm making is that people need to be very careful about who they get into relationships with - both men and women - because there is a lot of craziness out there in both sexes." Gee, we could never have learned that without your brilliance and expertise............ADHD is a bunch of made up B.S. you simpleton.I can tell YOU that You cant tell anyone anything of value that they dont know already themselves and likely will tell someone b.s. No, ADHD is not made up. Sure, some kids are rambunctious and people might say they have ADHD while they do not, but there is a ton of research on the subject if you would bother to read it. ADHD is often also accompanied by memory processing issues, which is why a lot of kids with ADHD might be normal IQ, but have a learning disability. There are multiple causes of ADHD and ADHD-type of behaviors, including parental drug abuse while pregnant, genetics, allergic reactions, immature and growing brains taking in too much screen time, etc. That aside, I am guessing that YOU are one of those mentally ill people, and do not like my caution to others to be careful about hooking themselves to the wagon of one such as you? |
AdorableLittlepixie
User ID: 78216701 Australia 12/01/2019 09:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I recently got out of a relationship with a BPD woman... it was the most heartbreaking/maddening, soul sucking experience of my life... just a roller coaster of insanity... good was heavenly... bad was an exit south of hell. Truly a mind fuck that nothing could have prepared me for. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77752946 All men should know what BPD is in a woman, and be aware of the signs of it... it's nothing to take lightly... I doubt I will ever be in a serious relationship again. Working with at-risk kids and kids with disabilities, I can tell you that the demographics for ADHD, Schizophrenia, Emotional/Behavioral Disorder, high-functioning Autism, etc. is about 80% boys to 20% girls in youth. Now, these numbers change in adulthood, with 1/3 people suffering from some mental illness. Women are more likely to have depression and anxiety while men are more likely to have substance abuse and anti-social behaviors. The numbers tip towards more women having mental illness in adulthood, but women are much more likely to seek help for their issues, so it's not clear that women actually suffer more mental illness. The point I'm making is that people need to be very careful about who they get into relationships with - both men and women - because there is a lot of craziness out there in both sexes. On a side note, women go through hormonal issues during menopause making sleep difficult. It is common to prescribe meds like Trazodone to these women, which is technically an anti-depressant, but is used for sleep issues. So there are many women being misrepresented as having mental illness who actually do not. "The point I'm making is that people need to be very careful about who they get into relationships with - both men and women - because there is a lot of craziness out there in both sexes." Gee, we could never have learned that without your brilliance and expertise............ADHD is a bunch of made up B.S. you simpleton.I can tell YOU that You cant tell anyone anything of value that they dont know already themselves and likely will tell someone b.s. No, ADHD is not made up. Sure, some kids are rambunctious and people might say they have ADHD while they do not, but there is a ton of research on the subject if you would bother to read it. ADHD is often also accompanied by memory processing issues, which is why a lot of kids with ADHD might be normal IQ, but have a learning disability. There are multiple causes of ADHD and ADHD-type of behaviors, including parental drug abuse while pregnant, genetics, allergic reactions, immature and growing brains taking in too much screen time, etc. That aside, I am guessing that YOU are one of those mentally ill people, and do not like my caution to others to be careful about hooking themselves to the wagon of one such as you? Try putting ADHD into the advanced search option and see what you get. Thread: The original ADHD doctor admitted he made up the disorder to make money on heathly children Thread: How come the Boomer generation isn't afflicted with ADHD, gender dysphoria, and general retardation like the millennials? AdorableLittlepixie I am safe and protected with every step I take with everybody always. |
Red John
User ID: 40141054 Canada 12/01/2019 10:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: GA Girl Working with at-risk kids and kids with disabilities, I can tell you that the demographics for ADHD, Schizophrenia, Emotional/Behavioral Disorder, high-functioning Autism, etc. is about 80% boys to 20% girls in youth. Now, these numbers change in adulthood, with 1/3 people suffering from some mental illness. Women are more likely to have depression and anxiety while men are more likely to have substance abuse and anti-social behaviors. The numbers tip towards more women having mental illness in adulthood, but women are much more likely to seek help for their issues, so it's not clear that women actually suffer more mental illness. The point I'm making is that people need to be very careful about who they get into relationships with - both men and women - because there is a lot of craziness out there in both sexes. On a side note, women go through hormonal issues during menopause making sleep difficult. It is common to prescribe meds like Trazodone to these women, which is technically an anti-depressant, but is used for sleep issues. So there are many women being misrepresented as having mental illness who actually do not. "The point I'm making is that people need to be very careful about who they get into relationships with - both men and women - because there is a lot of craziness out there in both sexes." Gee, we could never have learned that without your brilliance and expertise............ADHD is a bunch of made up B.S. you simpleton.I can tell YOU that You cant tell anyone anything of value that they dont know already themselves and likely will tell someone b.s. No, ADHD is not made up. Sure, some kids are rambunctious and people might say they have ADHD while they do not, but there is a ton of research on the subject if you would bother to read it. ADHD is often also accompanied by memory processing issues, which is why a lot of kids with ADHD might be normal IQ, but have a learning disability. There are multiple causes of ADHD and ADHD-type of behaviors, including parental drug abuse while pregnant, genetics, allergic reactions, immature and growing brains taking in too much screen time, etc. That aside, I am guessing that YOU are one of those mentally ill people, and do not like my caution to others to be careful about hooking themselves to the wagon of one such as you? Try putting ADHD into the advanced search option and see what you get. Thread: The original ADHD doctor admitted he made up the disorder to make money on heathly children Thread: How come the Boomer generation isn't afflicted with ADHD, gender dysphoria, and general retardation like the millennials? lol here's a boomer: :jenner: oh hai! |
Red John
User ID: 40141054 Canada 12/01/2019 10:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The baggage that women provide: Quoting: Red John 1. Kids from previous relationship. <- so what? (So what? I don't want to take care of another man's trash) 2. Daddy issues <- that's 90+% of the population (She will always be looking for "Daddy" and you ain't it Daddio) 3. Debt <- not my debt, not my problem, (It will be) 4. Needy 24/7 <- define "needy" (100 texts/calls per day, wanted to know where you are, telling you to ditch your friends) 5. BPD/Psychotic <- a lot of dudes are like that too (I'm not interested in dudes, are you?) Are you kidding me? I added notes for you in Red since you seem like a deer in headlights kind of guy. 1> not my kids, not my problems 2> daddy issues is a misnomer, they want a dude who takes the lead and leadership seriously 3> not my debt, not my problem, she can work and pay it off, 4> I don't get texts on my phone, call all ya want 5> no I'm not into dudes, the point I was making is baggage that dudes bring also oh hai! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74937931 United States 12/01/2019 10:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wifed cooked dinner tonight, and she has been helping me care for my dad who is 101. We have had to take him from his chair to the toilet four times in the past two hours. I could not have done it without her help. Seems like its just raw mean=spiritedness to say women only provide baggage. You may want to reconsider your opinion as you may have an issue you need to deal with. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78060222 United States 12/01/2019 10:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wifed cooked dinner tonight, and she has been helping me care for my dad who is 101. We have had to take him from his chair to the toilet four times in the past two hours. I could not have done it without her help. Seems like its just raw mean=spiritedness to say women only provide baggage. You may want to reconsider your opinion as you may have an issue you need to deal with. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74937931 Sounds like you have a good woman and you know it. |
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