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Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex

 
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
What's her family history?

Divorced parents? No role models for a successful relationship?
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
Soooo ..... her puny, Spanish, Midget ex can outgame you???

Not good, OP. Not good.

OP:

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Lol ^THIS!!!
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12/01/2019 09:21 PM
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
His name is El Tripodo is why.
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12/01/2019 09:22 PM
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
What's her family history?

Divorced parents? No role models for a successful relationship?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77999704


Yes, mother (now deceased) had kids to different dads. Her own dad was absent. Umm, also mentioned something about some woman molesting her when she was a young girl.

Maybe this could explain a few things? I’m not sure.
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
What's her family history?

Divorced parents? No role models for a successful relationship?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77999704


Yes, mother (now deceased) had kids to different dads. Her own dad was absent. Umm, also mentioned something about some woman molesting her when she was a young girl.

Maybe this could explain a few things? I’m not sure.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


Oh, she also did mention that she thinks she could be a narcissist but not totally sure as she said she also has capacity for empathy. Who knows? Maybe if I got to really know her, I’d see these things start to surface.
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12/01/2019 09:26 PM
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
Because she told me this directly. I know her quite well, as we meet up in a group now and then for drinks. I never pursued anything in the past because I was in a committed relationship. However, I suppose I’m just quite baffled - she’s stunningly beautiful model looking girl, and also well educated and cool to be around, yet she is still pining over this guy - a guy who said those things about her, and told her directly he wanted someone else so dumped her (if you can call a long distance date an ex). She seems to always go for long distance relationships with guys who are penniless students. A few turned out to be clinically diagnosed with mental problems. She could probably get any guy she wants, but always picks losers who dump her. I guess I’ll just have to let this one go.
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If that's the case, then maybe your chances are quite good! It's not a 'love affair' with that guy she 'can't get over,' but the insults and blow to her pride instead! If she'd only beaten him up thoroughly for all the insults, she'd have 'got closure,' (don't you love these stupid modern terms?) and would be feeling much better now. If a good beat-down or other satisfying form of revenge is not practical to arrange, you can now get to work soothing her wounded ego and affirming her worthiness for something much better - i.e.: you. Don't give up too soon.
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12/01/2019 09:29 PM

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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
Soooo ..... her puny, Spanish, Midget ex can outgame you???

Not good, OP. Not good.

OP:

BasementTard
 Quoting: Lady Jayne Smith


chuckle
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12/01/2019 09:31 PM
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
Sounds more like OP can't get over this girl....lol....
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
What's her family history?

Divorced parents? No role models for a successful relationship?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77999704


Yes, mother (now deceased) had kids to different dads. Her own dad was absent. Umm, also mentioned something about some woman molesting her when she was a young girl.

Maybe this could explain a few things? I’m not sure.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


Oh, she also did mention that she thinks she could be a narcissist but not totally sure as she said she also has capacity for empathy. Who knows? Maybe if I got to really know her, I’d see these things start to surface.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


Well, you’re too good for her, Opie!
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12/01/2019 09:34 PM
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
She was in a long distance relationship with him for a few months, and only saw him a few times (because of distance). He dumped her and pursued some Spanish teacher. This was Summer last year he dumped her, yet she still pines for this guy day and night. He’s painfully skinny, 5ft5, penniless student and no confidence. WTF?! I’m 6ft2, better looking, decent job, yet she can’t get over this guy after, literally, long distance dating him for a few months.

What gives? How can she not get over a long distance date after, like, 19 months?
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The guy is obviously hung like a horse.

He probably showed her over Skype or something, and now she can't get over him.
 Quoting: Love_Goddess


Can confirm- midget was prolly hung like a mule, she dotes evermore for his length & girth.
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12/01/2019 09:37 PM
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
It seems the problem here is not with her but with your ego

You seem concerned that a woman can want a man that you believe is not as good as you

Goes to show that women are turned on by things that you do not provide and it worries you
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12/01/2019 09:42 PM
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
She was in a long distance relationship with him for a few months, and only saw him a few times (because of distance). He dumped her and pursued some Spanish teacher. This was Summer last year he dumped her, yet she still pines for this guy day and night. He’s painfully skinny, 5ft5, penniless student and no confidence. WTF?! I’m 6ft2, better looking, decent job, yet she can’t get over this guy after, literally, long distance dating him for a few months.

What gives? How can she not get over a long distance date after, like, 19 months?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


The guy is obviously hung like a horse.

He probably showed her over Skype or something, and now she can't get over him.
 Quoting: Love_Goddess


Can confirm- midget was prolly hung like a mule, she dotes evermore for his length & girth.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76842482


It's fairly obvious, right?

There is no other reason for a woman to be enamoured if the Spanish dude is as physically awful looking as OP is descrining.
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12/01/2019 09:46 PM
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
She was in a long distance relationship with him for a few months, and only saw him a few times (because of distance). He dumped her and pursued some Spanish teacher. This was Summer last year he dumped her, yet she still pines for this guy day and night. He’s painfully skinny, 5ft5, penniless student and no confidence. WTF?! I’m 6ft2, better looking, decent job, yet she can’t get over this guy after, literally, long distance dating him for a few months.

What gives? How can she not get over a long distance date after, like, 19 months?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


The guy is obviously hung like a horse.

He probably showed her over Skype or something, and now she can't get over him.
 Quoting: Love_Goddess


Can confirm- midget was prolly hung like a mule, she dotes evermore for his length & girth.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76842482


It's fairly obvious, right?

There is no other reason for a woman to be enamoured if the Spanish dude is as physically awful looking as OP is descrining.
 Quoting: Love_Goddess


Let us toast to this unsung heroe, and no finer a schlong has been dealt to this woman. Even if he is one of the sausage finger varietal midget. Whatever. He's cool with us, we're cool with him.
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
Because she told me this directly. I know her quite well, as we meet up in a group now and then for drinks. I never pursued anything in the past because I was in a committed relationship. However, I suppose I’m just quite baffled - she’s stunningly beautiful model looking girl, and also well educated and cool to be around, yet she is still pining over this guy - a guy who said those things about her, and told her directly he wanted someone else so dumped her (if you can call a long distance date an ex). She seems to always go for long distance relationships with guys who are penniless students. A few turned out to be clinically diagnosed with mental problems. She could probably get any guy she wants, but always picks losers who dump her. I guess I’ll just have to let this one go.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


If that's the case, then maybe your chances are quite good! It's not a 'love affair' with that guy she 'can't get over,' but the insults and blow to her pride instead! If she'd only beaten him up thoroughly for all the insults, she'd have 'got closure,' (don't you love these stupid modern terms?) and would be feeling much better now. If a good beat-down or other satisfying form of revenge is not practical to arrange, you can now get to work soothing her wounded ego and affirming her worthiness for something much better - i.e.: you. Don't give up too soon.
 Quoting: whispering leaves


Yes, she did mention this - that she doesn’t want him back, but to get closure. But it’s been 19 months, and still posting love songs with lyrics that pertain to her love for him.

I just didn’t want to get pushy, so decided to just severe ties with her, and told her to maybe contact me sometime when she feels ready. That was that, and haven’t heard from her in three or so weeks. Shame... she does seem like she has many good qualities too, but perhaps she might be a narcissist who has attachment issues + a fragile ego, hence still feeling damaged 19 months on.
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12/01/2019 09:49 PM
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
Quit posting here. No one cares.
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
It seems the problem here is not with her but with your ego

You seem concerned that a woman can want a man that you believe is not as good as you

Goes to show that women are turned on by things that you do not provide and it worries you
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74280598


Why are you making me the villain here? It wasn’t me who made all of those insults to her, it was the guy she was dating for a couple of months - the guy who cut her off for another girl.
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12/01/2019 09:50 PM
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
Quit posting here. No one cares.
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If you didn’t care, you wouldn’t have clicked on the thread and wasted your “previous” time to read and post.
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
Yes, she did mention this - that she doesn’t want him back, but to get closure. But it’s been 19 months, and still posting love songs with lyrics that pertain to her love for him.

I just didn’t want to get pushy, so decided to just severe ties with her, and told her to maybe contact me sometime when she feels ready. That was that, and haven’t heard from her in three or so weeks. Shame... she does seem like she has many good qualities too, but perhaps she might be a narcissist who has attachment issues + a fragile ego, hence still feeling damaged 19 months on.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


I'm willing to bet the 'Spanish midget' was a pushy little bastard! Little guys quite often are, they get that Napoleon complex to make up for being a shrimp. Stop worrying about that crap and show your feelings! That and only that will get her attention. Stop trying to talk yourself out of this with a 'sour grapes' litany; you don't mean any of it and you know it. Over-analyzing all by yourself doesn't get you anywhere nearer the truth of things; if you want answers, ask for them outright.
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
What's her family history?

Divorced parents? No role models for a successful relationship?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77999704


Yes, mother (now deceased) had kids to different dads. Her own dad was absent. Umm, also mentioned something about some woman molesting her when she was a young girl.

Maybe this could explain a few things? I’m not sure.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


Oh, she also did mention that she thinks she could be a narcissist but not totally sure as she said she also has capacity for empathy. Who knows? Maybe if I got to really know her, I’d see these things start to surface.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


Narcissists will never admit to any mental illness. They consider themselves to be models of perfection, and all others lacking.

Seriously, OP, it sounds like she has serious self esteem issues, and tries to prove her worth through academic/professional accomplishment, BUT -- she only feels "loved" when she is mistreated. Something happened early on to imprint on her brain that abuse = love.

She is a fragile heart, but she does not realize this -- yet.
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
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The guy is obviously hung like a horse.

He probably showed her over Skype or something, and now she can't get over him.
 Quoting: Love_Goddess


Can confirm- midget was prolly hung like a mule, she dotes evermore for his length & girth.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76842482


It's fairly obvious, right?

There is no other reason for a woman to be enamoured if the Spanish dude is as physically awful looking as OP is describing.
 Quoting: Love_Goddess


Let us toast to this unsung heroe, and no finer a schlong has been dealt to this woman. Even if he is one of the sausage finger varietal midget. Whatever. He's cool with us, we're cool with him.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76842482


Hahahaha, youre funny

A toast to the unsung hero cheers
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
What's her family history?

Divorced parents? No role models for a successful relationship?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77999704


Yes, mother (now deceased) had kids to different dads. Her own dad was absent. Umm, also mentioned something about some woman molesting her when she was a young girl.

Maybe this could explain a few things? I’m not sure.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


Oh, she also did mention that she thinks she could be a narcissist but not totally sure as she said she also has capacity for empathy. Who knows? Maybe if I got to really know her, I’d see these things start to surface.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41464541


Narcissists will never admit to any mental illness. They consider themselves to be models of perfection, and all others lacking.

Seriously, OP, it sounds like she has serious self esteem issues, and tries to prove her worth through academic/professional accomplishment, BUT -- she only feels "loved" when she is mistreated. Something happened early on to imprint on her brain that abuse = love.

She is a fragile heart, but she does not realize this -- yet.
 Quoting: Lady Jayne Smith


Perhaps you’re right. She seems to have lots of good qualities, but must have self esteem wounds if she’s still hurting over a short term, long distance fling 19 months ago. I guess I’ll just have to let her go and deal with her issues. It sucks, but it is what it is.
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Re: Want to date girl, but she’s hung up on her puny, midget Spanish ex
She’s polluted.





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