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My ex-girlfriend is dating someone new and she told me about this today.. | |
Centurionx
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| Lozo User ID: 78087153 United States12/02/2019 10:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Bro dont worry about it. Its hard now and easy to say but the same happened to me. And sometimes living and arguing is a representation of things you need to get in order inside yourself without her and find peace. Then this can lead you to being happy alone and finding love that is beyond what you once had. Things dont end. And neither for you. Relax. One day at a time. And i underatand your loyal but it truly isnt your fault and the fact she moved on or made bad choices means you need to get your act together too. But we all have freedom and now its your turn to make your choice. But dont be naive or a fool. Take care of yourself and love yourself. And continue your path on growth and living your life. |
| ~Natalie~
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| JesseDart
User ID: 74853834 United States12/02/2019 10:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Keep steppin dude. When you danced for her, she lost respect for you. You would have been better off telling her to gtfo and make the changes YOU want. Lesson learned... never dance for a bitch. You are the prize, don’t ever forget that. Fine wine vs. old milk... their shelf life is very limited. Move on and someday as she gets closer to that undefeated wall, if she doesnt find some simp, she will sniff around again. In the meantime, go slay as you will. Most of them ain’t worth a squirt of piss anyways. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 77752946 United States12/02/2019 10:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like this girl had BPD, with everything... the fighting, too. Hang in there, it's some brutal shit when the woman you love does this to a man... but in the end, like many have said here... you will be much better off. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 76791141 United States12/02/2019 10:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We were together 5 years, we were living under one roof for 3 years, planning wedding. But we were fighting a lot, both of us have tough characters. Anyway, we decided to split and not live together. It was 5 months ago. During this time we met sometimes to make love.. she was texting me almost everday, we were talking via phone. Sending nude photos... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78217652 I seriously thought that things are going good.. we weren't fighting anymore, we were kind to each other, both of us straighten out all things... And seriously... I was just about to ask her for a date, to start again, because I love her and today she told me that for 2 weeks she's dating someone... ........ ........... .............. REALLY? Oh My God, for 5 months I was doing everything to repair all bad things in me, to becaome better man. I was working out, I changed my job, I seriously did everything and she decided to date someone. We were talking today 3 hours via phone. This was the weirdest talk ever. We were blaming each other,apologizing, blaming. Fuck this shit. I am loyal. I am the most loyal man in the world, I never cheated on anyone, I never broken my word. And she decided to throw our love and date someone. My heart doesn't exist anymore. It's like I don't feel anything right now. I feel that she cheated on me. That she deleted our love. Our relationship. God help me, please, just help me!! females are safety and resource confirming first always having another penis in position to squat atop before making a move |
| Michibama
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| ifSHTF
User ID: 75832973 United States12/02/2019 11:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Move on. She wants to just be friends, and/or keep you as a safety net. You're good enough to keep as a friend with benefits, but not good enough to be "attached" to her. Let the new guy own that walking disaster. Look - if you *really* like her personality as a friend and she is someone you have to keep in your life, let her know that you need some distance for a while. You're venting on GLP - you need distance. Wish her well in her new relationship. Walk away. First - it will drive her nuts that she no longer has power over you. Second - it gives you a chance to focus on you. Keep working out, keep making your own life happier. Own it, and join some activity groups to make new friends. |
| riobario
User ID: 73675028  Mexico12/02/2019 11:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Similar story over here. Thought I was gonna die. 7 years later, now just married to the most awesome girl in the world (not my ex). Chin up man, things get better when you're a good guy. You'll look back and be grateful to have missed that bullet, girls like your ex(and mine) are worthless. Just let time do its thing. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 54889240  Canada12/02/2019 11:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We were together 5 years, we were living under one roof for 3 years, planning wedding. But we were fighting a lot, both of us have tough characters. Anyway, we decided to split and not live together. It was 5 months ago. During this time we met sometimes to make love.. she was texting me almost everday, we were talking via phone. Sending nude photos... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78217652 I seriously thought that things are going good.. we weren't fighting anymore, we were kind to each other, both of us straighten out all things... And seriously... I was just about to ask her for a date, to start again, because I love her and today she told me that for 2 weeks she's dating someone... ........ ........... .............. REALLY? Oh My God, for 5 months I was doing everything to repair all bad things in me, to becaome better man. I was working out, I changed my job, I seriously did everything and she decided to date someone. We were talking today 3 hours via phone. This was the weirdest talk ever. We were blaming each other,apologizing, blaming. Fuck this shit. I am loyal. I am the most loyal man in the world, I never cheated on anyone, I never broken my word. And she decided to throw our love and date someone. My heart doesn't exist anymore. It's like I don't feel anything right now. I feel that she cheated on me. That she deleted our love. Our relationship. God help me, please, just help me!! Women will try and change you. That's what they do. They want to take away your freedoms and make you become their lapdog. Fuck it. She's probably a controlling bitch. Best thing to do would be cut off all communication with her, period. Move on. Focus on yourself and work on yourself and let being with a significant other become a secondary project instead of a primary. You have to understand that women are honestly, fucked up in the head. Sure there are some diamonds in the rough out there, but most of them just aren't worth it. Women look at men as a means to an end. They dont actually care about who you are or what tribulations you are going through. They care about themselves. Stop trying to impress them, it just isnt worth it. They are immature, self centered, and bar shit crazy. One day you will see this, most likely when you are older. I'm not even that old but I've gone through my fair share of them. Lust takes over the mind, and you as a man, try to impress them at every whim. They do not use logic, and will never side with you, even if you've told them something to be true, and it doesn't happen till later. Once again, women are not logical creatures. They feed off emotion, period. Alas, not all women are like this but the majority are. Take creed of what I've said, because it is truth. Focus. On. Yourself. Good luck. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78219394 United States12/03/2019 12:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ex's are Ex's for a reason. Don't be friend's, if she valued your relationship, you would still be together. She clearly doesn't have a problem with having sex with you, so being "friends" is a bad idea. Cut her out of your life forevermore. If she comes crawling back to you, just say NO! Scream if you need to scream, cry if you need to cry, but move on. Ignoring her, will be your justice. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 51084153 United States12/03/2019 12:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She did not let go of the OP (texting, calling, sending nudes, whatever), until she was sure she had a firm grip on the next guy. The next guy, of course, being the "bigger better deal" in her eyes. Once it was decided that the next guy was a sure thing, she dropped OP like a hot potato. Again, this is the nature of women. Do you get mad at a bee because it stings you? No, because that's what bees do. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78219993 Poland12/03/2019 01:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We were together 5 years, we were living under one roof for 3 years, planning wedding. But we were fighting a lot, both of us have tough characters. Anyway, we decided to split and not live together. It was 5 months ago. During this time we met sometimes to make love.. she was texting me almost everday, we were talking via phone. Sending nude photos... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78217652 I seriously thought that things are going good.. we weren't fighting anymore, we were kind to each other, both of us straighten out all things... And seriously... I was just about to ask her for a date, to start again, because I love her and today she told me that for 2 weeks she's dating someone... ........ ........... .............. REALLY? Oh My God, for 5 months I was doing everything to repair all bad things in me, to becaome better man. I was working out, I changed my job, I seriously did everything and she decided to date someone. We were talking today 3 hours via phone. This was the weirdest talk ever. We were blaming each other,apologizing, blaming. Fuck this shit. I am loyal. I am the most loyal man in the world, I never cheated on anyone, I never broken my word. And she decided to throw our love and date someone. My heart doesn't exist anymore. It's like I don't feel anything right now. I feel that she cheated on me. That she deleted our love. Our relationship. God help me, please, just help me!! Women will try and change you. That's what they do. They want to take away your freedoms and make you become their lapdog. Fuck it. She's probably a controlling bitch. Best thing to do would be cut off all communication with her, period. Move on. Focus on yourself and work on yourself and let being with a significant other become a secondary project instead of a primary. You have to understand that women are honestly, fucked up in the head. Sure there are some diamonds in the rough out there, but most of them just aren't worth it. Women look at men as a means to an end. They dont actually care about who you are or what tribulations you are going through. They care about themselves. Stop trying to impress them, it just isnt worth it. They are immature, self centered, and bar shit crazy. One day you will see this, most likely when you are older. I'm not even that old but I've gone through my fair share of them. Lust takes over the mind, and you as a man, try to impress them at every whim. They do not use logic, and will never side with you, even if you've told them something to be true, and it doesn't happen till later. Once again, women are not logical creatures. They feed off emotion, period. Alas, not all women are like this but the majority are. Take creed of what I've said, because it is truth. Focus. On. Yourself. Good luck. Some wise words here! |
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| Possum70
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 48024189 United States12/03/2019 01:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP i feel for you having been through similar years ago also I am from a Polish American family so i understand what it means to be stubborn women are strange when it comes to hanging around an ex boyfriend even when they have already started something new with somebody else i have heard women refer to it as playing "monkey bars", figuratively meaning that they want to make sure they have a firm grip on the new man who can support their needs, before completely letting go of the ex women are just strange like that, loyalty does not mean the same to them as it does a man, their loyalty is contextural good luck, keep your head high, and find a woman- any woman- to just go out and have fun with at put this behind you |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 23652761 United States12/03/2019 01:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Man if this is a real thread I have been almost right where you are I know it does not help and it does not seem like that it’s real but I’m telling you right now there is nothing but fish in this sea-if you jump on a plane land in any city Raleigh N Carolina and go and walk in a chilies you’re gonna look around and damned if she’s not gonna be in there not this one another one a better one -that’s going to stick with you for the rest your life you may not have to get on a plane to find her but it ain’t this one so get out there and find her❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ |
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