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Being single man and being happy.. i this possible? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78217031  United States12/05/2019 03:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Even if you are not into religion. I recommend that you read 1 chapter in the bible. Specifically, read 1st Corinthians, chapter 13 This is a good place to see what being mature looks like. For example. Forgiving, without being asked. Not keeping score of wrongs. Take care R65 |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78215165  Poland12/05/2019 04:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78217031 Even if you are not into religion. I recommend that you read 1 chapter in the bible. Specifically, read 1st Corinthians, chapter 13 This is a good place to see what being mature looks like. For example. Forgiving, without being asked. Not keeping score of wrongs. Take care R65 Into religion not really because religion was made up by people. I am into Faith in Jesus Christ and I am Bible follower. I take Bible exactly the way it was written. I will read chapter you recommend! |
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| Accidental Stoner User ID: 77022301  Finland12/05/2019 05:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Totally possible. :) The mere thought of living together with a woman gives me angst, these days  ...and as soon as I quit feeling sorry for myself and stopped dreading loneliness, the gods sent along a beautiful, smart, sexy and non-libtarded lady, who agrees to meeting up once every sixth week or so. Hahahahaha - the patterns of existence. Gotta lol.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 66510547  Canada12/05/2019 05:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am 35 and I am single again after relationship with girl. We ended relationship because I wasnt mature enough and I know this. I wasnt thinking about future regarding finances, health and many more. I was great guy when it comes to dating. Bu no husband material... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78215165 Almost all my adult life I was in relationship. And always after 3-5 years it was ending. I know why - being mature. I didnt propose to any girl and arguing started. And know I know the truth, my fault, no mature enough. Anyway. I am single now. Few weeks ago I was thinking that all my girlfriends were bad or something. Now I can see that it was my fault. I think now that I wont date anyone for a long time... year? Maybe year. I want to stay single and work on myself. I want to be better man and eventually the best version of myself. Is someone here single on purpose and still happy? Any advice? Ive been single for 17 years now. Best damned decision I ever made. So much peace...quiet...able to focus on what YOU want instead of what someone else wants...who never even KNOW what they want. Women are only TRULY HAPPY..if they are NOT happy. And man is only TRULY HAPPY...if he does NOT have a woman in his life. Hormones can be ignored. Lonliness can be turned into CREATIVNESS. DOO SOMETHING..INVENT SOMETHING...BUILD SOMETHING. Cause thats what MEN DO. So stop trying to please an unpleasable pussy...and PLEASE YOURSELF. You were born alone. And alone is how you will die. Accept.that...and LIVE LIFE TO THE FULL. Man that was a really good post.  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78021854 12/05/2019 06:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm on the couch now cause my wife won't stop nagging,yelling and belittling me. I'd rather be in bed sleeping. I spent all my money trying to make her happy now I'm broke and dealing with a deep depression. Depression so deep it's hard to work to get money. A very dangerous cycle to be trapped in. Sir, the grass is not greener on the other side. I was single 4 years ago and thought I wanted a woman. The universe spites me and now has the last laugh. Enjoy what you have control over now and don't take it for granted. |
jkm1864
 User ID: 77810344 United States12/05/2019 06:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This girl told me that she would stay with me if I had good job when I didnt have one and I was depressed and I had suicide thoughts. And she left me Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78215165 So whats a good job? I have a good paying job but it requires travel which is hard on relationships so it sucks. Pussy Grabber Extraordinaire |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 69683587 United States12/05/2019 06:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| jkm1864
User ID: 77810344 United States12/05/2019 06:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Totally possible. :) Quoting: Accidental Stoner 77022301 The mere thought of living together with a woman gives me angst, these days ...and as soon as I quit feeling sorry for myself and stopped dreading loneliness, the gods sent along a beautiful, smart, sexy and non-libtarded lady, who agrees to meeting up once every sixth week or so. Hahahahaha - the patterns of existence. Gotta lol. Yeah that kind of happens when You no longer give a fuck because that's the point you love yourself again. The thing that's fucked up is it either takes another relationship to get to that point or many many years to get back to that point for men. Women on the other hand just need another swinging dick which is quite easy for them. Men on the other hand can't attract another mate when they are heart broken because they lack the personality traits that women desire. Pussy Grabber Extraordinaire |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 77590365 United States12/05/2019 06:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am 35 and I am single again after relationship with girl. We ended relationship because I wasnt mature enough and I know this. I wasnt thinking about future regarding finances, health and many more. I was great guy when it comes to dating. Bu no husband material... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78215165 Almost all my adult life I was in relationship. And always after 3-5 years it was ending. I know why - being mature. I didnt propose to any girl and arguing started. And know I know the truth, my fault, no mature enough. Anyway. I am single now. Few weeks ago I was thinking that all my girlfriends were bad or something. Now I can see that it was my fault. I think now that I wont date anyone for a long time... year? Maybe year. I want to stay single and work on myself. I want to be better man and eventually the best version of myself. Is someone here single on purpose and still happy? Any advice? Go tell her this she may give you another chance |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 76905129 United States12/05/2019 06:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This girl told me that she would stay with me if I had good job when I didnt have one and I was depressed and I had suicide thoughts. And she left me Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78215165 So whats a good job? I have a good paying job but it requires travel which is hard on relationships so it sucks. Fuck her then ! She should have been there for you through good and bad times |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78215165 Poland12/05/2019 07:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This girl told me that she would stay with me if I had good job when I didnt have one and I was depressed and I had suicide thoughts. And she left me Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78215165 So whats a good job? I have a good paying job but it requires travel which is hard on relationships so it sucks. Fuck her then ! She should have been there for you through good and bad times This. Thanks. Fuck her. I deleted all contacts to her. I wont be answering phone anymore. I want to be happy again and with her I wasnt. So I will try to do the opposite |
| Lance Roseman From BC
User ID: 45329550 Canada12/05/2019 07:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I love being single. Granted I have 2 grown children, and I get along with all my ex's, and I like hanging out with my true loves baby as a Godfather and her hubby. JUst make everything work and then it seemingly does. If you are not busy weaving your own magick, you are trapped in anothers spell. “It’s time you realized that you have something in you more powerful and miraculous than the things that affect you and make you dance like a puppet.” – Marcus Aurelius |
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| SeoKungFu
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78128835 United States12/05/2019 07:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am 35 and I am single again after relationship with girl. We ended relationship because I wasnt mature enough and I know this. I wasnt thinking about future regarding finances, health and many more. I was great guy when it comes to dating. Bu no husband material... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78215165 Almost all my adult life I was in relationship. And always after 3-5 years it was ending. I know why - being mature. I didnt propose to any girl and arguing started. And know I know the truth, my fault, no mature enough. Anyway. I am single now. Few weeks ago I was thinking that all my girlfriends were bad or something. Now I can see that it was my fault. I think now that I wont date anyone for a long time... year? Maybe year. I want to stay single and work on myself. I want to be better man and eventually the best version of myself. Is someone here single on purpose and still happy? Any advice? they have done several studies on it that show married men live longer. I suspect it is the delight of the grandchildren that does it. All grand Pops seem to awaken to their grandchildren ! ! ! ! ! !  |
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| LittleMe
I don’t want flowers when I die… User ID: 75624423  Tonga12/05/2019 10:08 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Being married or single doesn’t bring you happiness... you bring happiness to your life having a joyful heart, just saying. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78131500 Canada12/05/2019 10:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If she straight up told you she'd stay if you had a good job then she straight up told you it was a conditional arrangement and you failed to meet your condition. If that's not exactly what happened then apologies but that sort of sounds like what happened. I couldn't fathom ever being ok with that kind of arrangement. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78226245 United States12/05/2019 10:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm 43 and I've been single for almost 15 years. The first few years were not pleasant. After that, I grew to understand I wasn't missing out on anything by being single. Eventually, I could not imagine my life any other way. I love being single. I'm accountable only to me. That's very liberating. |
| Red John
User ID: 41898299 Canada12/05/2019 10:42 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | nope Genesis 2 ... It is not good for the man to be alone ... 1 Corinthians 7 ... nevertheless, to avoid fornication, each man should have his own wife and each woman should have her own husband... being capable of remaining alone is classified as a spiritual gift on the same level as being an apostle, prophet, etc. anyone who doesn't have it will burn alive from their desires to be with someone and for the  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78131500 Canada12/05/2019 11:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | nope Quoting: Red John Genesis 2 ... It is not good for the man to be alone ... 1 Corinthians 7 ... nevertheless, to avoid fornication, each man should have his own wife and each woman should have her own husband... being capable of remaining alone is classified as a spiritual gift on the same level as being an apostle, prophet, etc. anyone who doesn't have it will burn alive from their desires to be with someone and for the This isn't bad advice but certainly the man should be cautioned to exercise exceedingly more discernment then he has, since he apparently agreed to a consensual conditional arrangement where the woman could leave if things go bad. Why even bother? If that's where her head's at she's already hedging anyway and will leave at the first chance of leveling up whether the job situation remains the same or not. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78203179 United States12/05/2019 11:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78203179 United States12/05/2019 11:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | nope Quoting: Red John Genesis 2 ... It is not good for the man to be alone ... 1 Corinthians 7 ... nevertheless, to avoid fornication, each man should have his own wife and each woman should have her own husband... being capable of remaining alone is classified as a spiritual gift on the same level as being an apostle, prophet, etc. anyone who doesn't have it will burn alive from their desires to be with someone and for the So true! I'll do what's necessary to have sex with a women, and if a decent one was available, I'd marry her. It gets really difficult past the age of 70. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75716984 United States12/05/2019 11:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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