Young Single Women w/ Children

What do you offer and bring to a relationship? Are you pulling your weight? Most men don't.

What do you teach others about proper roles in sex and relationships?

People who are sexualized and jump in and out of bed aren't necessarily free or expressing freedom, are they?

He had an illness that left him impotent.
It's still a loving relationship, but there is no sex due to the aforementioned circumstances.
I thought a man might know things that an older man might want but be hesitant to ask for. I have no idea what, that's why I asked.

You're grossly generalizing.

I make 6x more money than she does.

I pay 100% of the housing/utilities/food.

I pay 100% every time we go out (to eat, movies, road trips, etc.)

I taught her to save and invest. When I met her she had no savings, no retirement investments, and lived paycheck to paycheck.

Now she has > $63K in savings, a Roth IRA >$84K, a brokerage account with >$110K in it, a paid for car, and plenty of fun money.

You come off as critical of every guy, the same thing women on GLP hate when men on GLP generalize women.

There are plenty of good guys out there (and women also), but people are programmed to thrill seek with the edgy men and women, and they usually end up paying the price.

and what about your own words. Is this how you talk to women?

are you setting an example of being a gentleman? of being a guardian and champion for women?

I only tolerate you because I feel sorry for you.

You're grossly generalizing.

I make 6x more money than she does.

I pay 100% of the housing/utilities/food.

I pay 100% every time we go out (to eat, movies, road trips, etc.)

I taught her to save and invest. When I met her she had no savings, no retirement investments, and lived paycheck to paycheck.

Now she has > $63K in savings, a Roth IRA >$84K, a brokerage account with >$110K in it, a paid for car, and plenty of fun money.

You come off as critical of every guy, the same thing women on GLP hate when men on GLP generalize women.

There are plenty of good guys out there (and women also), but people are programmed to thrill seek with the edgy men and women, and they usually end up paying the price.

What? That doesn't make any sense.

I'm a woman and I think women misunderstand the nature of locker room talk (which women shouldn't even be privy too and we were protected from this in the past). Just as we women talk in certain ways among ourselves that is unique to being women, men do the same thing among themselves. I think the nature of men is a combination of having to be competitive with other men, which IS the biological nature of men, so they try to top each other with their exploits, some of which are sexual. Another aspect is that being a man involves developing more confidence than women need. It's hard to explain. Women never have to prove anything as women, we just are. We're receptive, men insert themselves into us and they have to be physically prepared to do that. We CAN just lay there. I think men have to talk themselves up to develop confidence to approach women and to have sex, etc. It seems vulgar and demeaning to us when we hear it, but it's not about US....it's about what they do to build themselves up.

Anyway, I think women really misinterpret this aspect of men and we should not pay attention to it. We should pay attention to their ACTIONS.

I'm a woman and I think women misunderstand the nature of locker room talk (which women shouldn't even be privy too and we were protected from this in the past). Just as we women talk in certain ways among ourselves that is unique to being women, men do the same thing among themselves. I think the nature of men is a combination of having to be competitive with other men, which IS the biological nature of men, so they try to top each other with their exploits, some of which are sexual. Another aspect is that being a man involves developing more confidence than women need. It's hard to explain. Women never have to prove anything as women, we just are. We're receptive, men insert themselves into us and they have to be physically prepared to do that. We CAN just lay there. I think men have to talk themselves up to develop confidence to approach women and to have sex, etc. It seems vulgar and demeaning to us when we hear it, but it's not about US....it's about what they do to build themselves up.

Anyway, I think women really misinterpret this aspect of men and we should not pay attention to it. We should pay attention to their ACTIONS.

Thank you. Please change your tone.

Understand that women are hit on 24/7. In school, at work, in the store. I had a guy following me in the grocery store to look up my dress in the reflection of the dairy section refrigerator. Women are held back from promotions. I had a couple bosses who would like to punish me for their sexual arousal. I was called in to work so a boss could corner me in an empty office. This is constant. Men expect sex. Without understanding that women are people.

My answer was to Chip who suggested my actions without knowing my life or anything about me.

But I agree there are good and bad people. What I've noticed in general is that men enable each other when it comes to sex. They lockerroom talk and share the sexualization of women. If any men participate in this they should understand that is a reflection of their immaturity and should discourage other men from doing so... (will never happen).

But see all the comments against me on this thread, perfect example of the male culture who... disrespect women.

I'm a woman and I think women misunderstand the nature of locker room talk (which women shouldn't even be privy too and we were protected from this in the past). Just as we women talk in certain ways among ourselves that is unique to being women, men do the same thing among themselves. I think the nature of men is a combination of having to be competitive with other men, which IS the biological nature of men, so they try to top each other with their exploits, some of which are sexual. Another aspect is that being a man involves developing more confidence than women need. It's hard to explain. Women never have to prove anything as women, we just are. We're receptive, men insert themselves into us and they have to be physically prepared to do that. We CAN just lay there. I think men have to talk themselves up to develop confidence to approach women and to have sex, etc. It seems vulgar and demeaning to us when we hear it, but it's not about US....it's about what they do to build themselves up.

Anyway, I think women really misinterpret this aspect of men and we should not pay attention to it. We should pay attention to their ACTIONS.

Men always want to fuck. It is the women's job to always say no no no. Not until they are married. Sounds old fashion but broken families means broken society.

I am nobody. Just the messenger. I tell you EXACTLY what you need to hear. And there just so happens to be A LOT you need to hear. You're mind has been marinating in piss and vinigar since the first time your dad abused you.

You're unsuited to give advice because you're damaged goods on level 10. Probably best to seek counsel and stop "helping people" ASAFP.

heh. your taste in women explains a lot, Chippy.

People must be 100% complete to have a relationship. Not 50% 50% crap.

Men who engage in anything other than virtue are not 100% gentlemen. That means that I don't have to pay attention to anything of his and he doesn't pay attention to anything of mine. We are TWO COMPLETE PEOPLE.

Everyone understand the nature of men. Everyone understands what men are. A man is incomplete without self confidence, sexual maturity, control of ejaculation (basic Maslows stuff).

Mature men take responsibility for their bodily functions. Mature men can communication, share kind words, be assertive without it being sexual. They have high esteem, they accomplish things without having to be coddled.

Make excuses for men being immature men? nah. that's lazy. af.

Bullshit.

Sexual Scavengers eat dead. So it's not a matter of "catch me". Instead sexual scavengers, men who want a woman for sex will kill the woman, using lying, manipulation and anything else to get her in bed.

Once he has had her she is dead, he has killed her with his sperm, which is alive and his DNA. Then she dies, literally.

I don't need your words for anything. heh.

and you're wrong. except in your own head, because it probably makes you feel better or something.

But your pushy attitude in a prime example of abusive behavior, especially toward women. that's your choice, I don't give a fuck.

My father abused me when I was 3 or 4 years old, before regular memory function is formed. Yet I remember there was something that wasn't right. My mother divorced him when I was 5. Only when I was in my late 50's did I realize that his actions affected me.

My husband, a malignant NPD was sexually abusive to the neighborhood boys as our house was the hangout, showing them porn, talking crudely about women, later I realized he stole from the neighbors to support his drug habit.

I was a virgin until I got married at 19. Kissed a lot of frogs before that. Hardly the picture of damaged. But men will assume what they see in porn. or something.

unsuited. that's an awesome word.

oh, and fuck you. heh.

I think that's kinda the definition of prostitution....getting paid for sex.

No, more like a personal agreement, a man wants sex from a woman fork out $100.

You think you should have free sex whenever you want to?