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Beetlepumprr
User ID: 3221380 United States 12/08/2019 01:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | not always but mostly these women bought into the line, "you don't need a man" of course they soon find out THEY DO which is why they are back on the dating sites soon after getting rid of the baby daddy Heck yeah just crap out another and add that to the other 2 . So now three kids by30 all because she wants that money. Not the kids, they are in the way of me and TV and waitressing and hididing my cash. So let me tidy this up. She gets 70 bucks each per. 210.00 a week then she get free housing thru Metropolitan, that's another 500 mo so she is up to 710.00. Free insurance and about 450. In Food stamps. So now 1160.00 mo. Now add that to the eighty bucks a nite in hidden tips X 3 days so with wages so 240.00 +1160.00 +120.00 = 1520.00 and free child care and 1000.00 bucks free each year for any car repair etc. Then add the income tax she gets every year. I had an ex that rented from her moms hubby, they quit that now. But he only charged her 250. 00 in rent but claimed he charged 350.00. She then got a hundred dollar kick back to pay her electric and gas bill that PIP payed anyways. So 1620.00 month conservatively working only three days a week. Then she would shack up will a fool like me and I was always watching the kids and cooking giving kids their baths. Heck the last year I was with her she never once went to her one sons football games. I did. I took them to all soccer games and swimming almost everyday. Well I would just get wet and get vitamin D. No with the custody laws and the courts stacked against fathers these women run rough shod, then the white man gets tired and she starts mixing with other cultures. Then she then gets some payback. But you see this is a One World Government to weaken the white man. Weaken his strong culture, weak in him and make many turn to drugs. Heck it was Kamala Harris that was heard saying how much they blame the conservative white culture that is still causing them problems. SICKNING, then tie it to vaccines and Autism which my grandson has, his feet are on my back now, playing a game. Heck he never had the first shot and he is non verbal mostly except for repititious video scenes. All I can say is each of us usually cannot make big changes but we can always make a difference in a handful of ppl and teach them which way to go. When the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace. jimi Believe nothing you hear and only half of what you see. I'm just a product of insufficient modality. Humans of Earth! I have come in peace. You need not fear me. I mean you no harm. However, it may be important to know that most of you will not survive the next 24 hours. And those of you who do survive will be enslaved and experimented on. You should in no way take any of this personally — it's just business! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69077240 Canada 12/08/2019 01:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Blue State Rebel I'm a woman and I think women misunderstand the nature of locker room talk (which women shouldn't even be privy too and we were protected from this in the past). Just as we women talk in certain ways among ourselves that is unique to being women, men do the same thing among themselves. I think the nature of men is a combination of having to be competitive with other men, which IS the biological nature of men, so they try to top each other with their exploits, some of which are sexual. Another aspect is that being a man involves developing more confidence than women need. It's hard to explain. Women never have to prove anything as women, we just are. We're receptive, men insert themselves into us and they have to be physically prepared to do that. We CAN just lay there. I think men have to talk themselves up to develop confidence to approach women and to have sex, etc. It seems vulgar and demeaning to us when we hear it, but it's not about US....it's about what they do to build themselves up. Anyway, I think women really misinterpret this aspect of men and we should not pay attention to it. We should pay attention to their ACTIONS. This woman is a genius! heh. your taste in women explains a lot, Chippy. People must be 100% complete to have a relationship. Not 50% 50% crap. Men who engage in anything other than virtue are not 100% gentlemen. That means that I don't have to pay attention to anything of his and he doesn't pay attention to anything of mine. We are TWO COMPLETE PEOPLE. Everyone understand the nature of men. Everyone understands what men are. A man is incomplete without self confidence, sexual maturity, control of ejaculation (basic Maslows stuff). Mature men take responsibility for their bodily functions. Mature men can communication, share kind words, be assertive without it being sexual. They have high esteem, they accomplish things without having to be coddled. Make excuses for men being immature men? nah. that's lazy. af. Why should anybody listen to you? You're a fucking emotional mess. Your neural pathways look like a picaso nightmare. You're mentally "shit in a box". And we're supposed to pay attention to anything you say? Why? She a typical feminists. Her hatred of men is very strong. No responsibility, always men's fault. |
MissCleo
User ID: 77082640 United States 12/08/2019 01:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Bullshit. Sexual Scavengers eat dead. So it's not a matter of "catch me". Instead sexual scavengers, men who want a woman for sex will kill the woman, using lying, manipulation and anything else to get her in bed. Once he has had her she is dead, he has killed her with his sperm, which is alive and his DNA. Then she dies, literally. you do realize that the darkness that you describe is being painted by you...right? being able to write that descriptively indicates an inner condition. As a friend would suggest...seriously... do alot of searching and find a good therapist. There are alot of crappy shrinks out there, so do your homework. Sorry to hear you were hurt, but your model of human sexuality seems to have been warped by the experience. Hope you can reframe it someday. I'm in total light over here if you are talking to me. Sexual Scavengers... are the topic of discussion of the thread. The men and women who engage in relationships resulting in single women with children. (that's not me). Don't be confused by Chip derailing. My experience is typical of what many women experience. My experience is my life, if sharing can bring light to the situation then so be it. I am not in distress. (ask, don't assume). |
MissCleo
User ID: 77082640 United States 12/08/2019 01:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | heh. your taste in women explains a lot, Chippy. People must be 100% complete to have a relationship. Not 50% 50% crap. Men who engage in anything other than virtue are not 100% gentlemen. That means that I don't have to pay attention to anything of his and he doesn't pay attention to anything of mine. We are TWO COMPLETE PEOPLE. Everyone understand the nature of men. Everyone understands what men are. A man is incomplete without self confidence, sexual maturity, control of ejaculation (basic Maslows stuff). Mature men take responsibility for their bodily functions. Mature men can communication, share kind words, be assertive without it being sexual. They have high esteem, they accomplish things without having to be coddled. Make excuses for men being immature men? nah. that's lazy. af. Why should anybody listen to you? You're a fucking emotional mess. Your neural pathways look like a picaso nightmare. You're mentally "shit in a box". And we're supposed to pay attention to anything you say? Why? She a typical feminists. Her hatred of men is very strong. No responsibility, always men's fault. Yeah. bro code, pat each other on the back. then go have unprotected casual sex. yay. |
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MissCleo
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bcjams
User ID: 78109542 United States 12/08/2019 01:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hypergammy has always existed but now the ability to walk away with a payment plan and the mans assets means women don’t stay once they get bored . They don’t give two fucks about the kids wanting a dad in the home once the lose respect or are dissatisfied with the money. Situation they turn vicious and either drive him out or leave on their own .. it all starts with I think I can do better I control the water |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78105935 United States 12/08/2019 01:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I got bored this weekend so I decided to look at a few Dating sites and apps. I was shocked to find almost half or more of the females who were on these sites had children. They were all 35 and younger. Some in early 20s with one or two children. and obviously no significant other. Quoting: Archaic Smile Is this the way society has become? Women/Men who either run around carelessly, or Men/Women who simply leave each other after one or two nights together or after a baby comes up? Im sure this isnt new for human kind, but it just seems like soooooo many people these days are completely LOST. I personally find it very difficult to actually be with someone who has had kids in the past without a Husband, or even a bf. I dont blame the Females completely or in some cases at all, but I just feel like something is off in todays world. Why soooo many Single Moms raising babies with no Man in the picture?? And I think whats even more shocking is the fact these women are just the ones who CHOSE to keep the kids. I cant imagine all the 35 and under women who have had abortions... This society is in Ruins. Please someone give me some words of wisdom concerning this insanity I have been subjected to. If you don't believe me then ask yourself why there are so many single mothers under the age of 35 when the birth rates have declined in the last 5 years? What does that tell you? It tells me that a small proportion of the male population is impregnating these women. These are the better looking males on social media dating apps. The women hook up online and have them come to their house and give them rough sex. The kind that gets her very pregnant very quickly. Usually from behind. Dumb AF |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78010931 United States 12/08/2019 01:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | not always but mostly these women bought into the line, "you don't need a man" of course they soon find out THEY DO which is why they are back on the dating sites soon after getting rid of the baby daddy Problem would be solved if women charged $100+ for every fuck. Not prostitution, men (boyfriends or husbands) want sex, $100, cash. Deal. Now how about the men who pay for the a limo and table service get refunded after the bitch ghosts them at the end of the night? FYI, no cunts allowed on this thread. It's time for you to show yourself out. Even better (a little off topic), let’s allow men the right to a “financial abortion”. If a woman can terminate a pregnancy up until birth via abortion, WITHOUT ANY REQUIREMENT TO CONSULT THE FATHER, shouldn’t the father have the right to renounce all financial responsibility? Fair is fair. And if that one simple FAIR change occurred, MANY single woman would stop having children. |
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Naunet
User ID: 75919805 Canada 12/08/2019 02:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: MissCleo My answer was to Chip who suggested my actions without knowing my life or anything about me. But I agree there are good and bad people. What I've noticed in general is that men enable each other when it comes to sex. They lockerroom talk and share the sexualization of women. If any men participate in this they should understand that is a reflection of their immaturity and should discourage other men from doing so... (will never happen). But see all the comments against me on this thread, perfect example of the male culture who... disrespect women. I'm a woman and I think women misunderstand the nature of locker room talk (which women shouldn't even be privy too and we were protected from this in the past). Just as we women talk in certain ways among ourselves that is unique to being women, men do the same thing among themselves. I think the nature of men is a combination of having to be competitive with other men, which IS the biological nature of men, so they try to top each other with their exploits, some of which are sexual. Another aspect is that being a man involves developing more confidence than women need. It's hard to explain. Women never have to prove anything as women, we just are. We're receptive, men insert themselves into us and they have to be physically prepared to do that. We CAN just lay there. I think men have to talk themselves up to develop confidence to approach women and to have sex, etc. It seems vulgar and demeaning to us when we hear it, but it's not about US....it's about what they do to build themselves up. Anyway, I think women really misinterpret this aspect of men and we should not pay attention to it. We should pay attention to their ACTIONS. This woman is a genius! heh. your taste in women explains a lot, Chippy. People must be 100% complete to have a relationship. Not 50% 50% crap. Men who engage in anything other than virtue are not 100% gentlemen. That means that I don't have to pay attention to anything of his and he doesn't pay attention to anything of mine. We are TWO COMPLETE PEOPLE. Everyone understand the nature of men. Everyone understands what men are. A man is incomplete without self confidence, sexual maturity, control of ejaculation (basic Maslows stuff). Mature men take responsibility for their bodily functions. Mature men can communication, share kind words, be assertive without it being sexual. They have high esteem, they accomplish things without having to be coddled. Make excuses for men being immature men? nah. that's lazy. af. NO ONE!! Absolutely NO ONE!! is 100% complete Everyone has imperfections and inabilities etc. not everyone is good at the verbal blah blah blah actually we call the ones who are, smooth talkers they control and manipulate words with precision and have one goal in mind in using their skills getting into the sack (°ö°) Swirl Life |
komeet holmes
User ID: 75791724 Belgium 12/08/2019 02:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There is nothing wrong with being sexual active without having a steady relationship, but use contraceptives. I don't understand why so many women get pregnant without having a serious relationship. Having children is a serious decision with implications for the rest of your life. Having children can ruin your life and that of your children. When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it. Paulo Coelho |
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Pilgrim001
User ID: 78018011 United States 12/08/2019 02:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would like to point out that in nearly every other culture, throughout time, men could find prostitutes to have sex with. Yet, in this climate of Tender Dating, and total whoredom from young women, Prostitution is illegal in this country and the police in nearly every city are relentless in arresting prostitutes And the men who use them. The sea of male cucks in this country have no sexual outlet except for masturbation, which drives the price of real pussy sky high. Women can scoff and laugh at Japanese sex dolls, but in the end, they will probably take your place. Women are exhilarated that they no longer need men and soon men will no longer need women. How's that? I don't have the time or the crayons to explain this to you. Slake Blake |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52923498 United States 12/08/2019 02:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I couldn’t relate to guys without kids. Sometimes they seemed cool with it but you could see that they didn’t understand the weight of it. People without kids should definitely seek out other people without kids. |
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MissCleo
User ID: 77082640 United States 12/08/2019 02:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Blue State Rebel I'm a woman and I think women misunderstand the nature of locker room talk (which women shouldn't even be privy too and we were protected from this in the past). Just as we women talk in certain ways among ourselves that is unique to being women, men do the same thing among themselves. I think the nature of men is a combination of having to be competitive with other men, which IS the biological nature of men, so they try to top each other with their exploits, some of which are sexual. Another aspect is that being a man involves developing more confidence than women need. It's hard to explain. Women never have to prove anything as women, we just are. We're receptive, men insert themselves into us and they have to be physically prepared to do that. We CAN just lay there. I think men have to talk themselves up to develop confidence to approach women and to have sex, etc. It seems vulgar and demeaning to us when we hear it, but it's not about US....it's about what they do to build themselves up. Anyway, I think women really misinterpret this aspect of men and we should not pay attention to it. We should pay attention to their ACTIONS. This woman is a genius! heh. your taste in women explains a lot, Chippy. People must be 100% complete to have a relationship. Not 50% 50% crap. Men who engage in anything other than virtue are not 100% gentlemen. That means that I don't have to pay attention to anything of his and he doesn't pay attention to anything of mine. We are TWO COMPLETE PEOPLE. Everyone understand the nature of men. Everyone understands what men are. A man is incomplete without self confidence, sexual maturity, control of ejaculation (basic Maslows stuff). Mature men take responsibility for their bodily functions. Mature men can communication, share kind words, be assertive without it being sexual. They have high esteem, they accomplish things without having to be coddled. Make excuses for men being immature men? nah. that's lazy. af. NO ONE!! Absolutely NO ONE!! is 100% complete Everyone has imperfections and inabilities etc. not everyone is good at the verbal blah blah blah actually we call the ones who are, smooth talkers they control and manipulate words with precision and have one goal in mind in using their skills getting into the sack you haven't met the right people. |
MissCleo
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MissCleo
User ID: 77082640 United States 12/08/2019 02:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Im divorced with a kid and my bf is divorced with two kids. So that commonality worked out for us. Quoting: bleep I couldn’t relate to guys without kids. Sometimes they seemed cool with it but you could see that they didn’t understand the weight of it. People without kids should definitely seek out other people without kids. why are people seeking other people. you have kids, that's enough people. Take care of those people. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72581155 United States 12/08/2019 02:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women are being manipulated into sex by predator men, and you guys are ok with that? Quoting: MissCleo Men will say and do anything to get laid... why? Lies, empty promises, exaggerations, more empty promises, words of love that are not actually love... playing on women's emotions and manipulating her... what's wrong with that? Can all men say that they communicate honestly for sex? Can all men say that they make promises to women that they mean? Can all men have a relationship without expectations? Why are men allowing other men to manipulate women for sex? ????????? I have absolutely no control or say in another man's actions women have to make the decision to say no to predetors |
MissCleo
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 64698495 United States 12/08/2019 02:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Interesting article here.. happen to read it last night.. [link to www.kirkdurston.com (secure)] Unwin examines the data from 86 societies and civilizations to see if there is a relationship between sexual freedom and the flourishing of cultures. .. Unwin described four “great patterns of human culture” and degrees of flourishing measured in terms of architecture, art, engineering, literature, agriculture, and so forth … According to Unwin, only small changes in a culture occur in the first generation, due to the cultural 'momentum' of the previous generation, which still continues to be a heavy influence in the generation after the loosening (or strengthening) of sexual restraints. The changes become more prevalent in the second generation, but it is not until the third generation, after the initial generation has completely died off, that the changes reach their full effect, occurring rapidly over the course of that third generation. By the end of the third generation, the changes have fully taken place and the culture stabilizes at its new level. .. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78229731 United States 12/08/2019 02:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Men always want to fuck. It is the women's job to always say no no no. Not until they are married. Sounds old fashion but broken families means broken society. Quoting: ReoX Ok, see the problem here. Why can't a man say no until they are married? Simple answer: Because we have zero reason to and every reason to say yes. Few women will nurture and love their man like they will a kid, and they have no loyalty. If we don't get her preggo, who cares? If we do and she doesn't know our names, so what? Don't fuck with human nature. Men are born to fuck, and that's really why we bother to do anything. Women are born to spew out kids and cater to them, and they'll use men to make that happen. There are even ads on CL(today) that ask for a guy to knock up a girl, NSA! Men are not women. Our programming is very different. Women are gatekeepers and men are auditioning if not actively raping. This is beginning to change with the advent of sex dolls and even more difficulty and risk in getting a hookup. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 52923498 United States 12/08/2019 02:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Im divorced with a kid and my bf is divorced with two kids. So that commonality worked out for us. Quoting: bleep I couldn’t relate to guys without kids. Sometimes they seemed cool with it but you could see that they didn’t understand the weight of it. People without kids should definitely seek out other people without kids. why are people seeking other people. you have kids, that's enough people. Take care of those people. It’s nice to have a partner to confide in and do things with. It’s nice to have a father figure around. He makes my life a lot better and I would like to believe I do the same. |
MissCleo
User ID: 77082640 United States 12/08/2019 02:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women are being manipulated into sex by predator men, and you guys are ok with that? Quoting: MissCleo Men will say and do anything to get laid... why? Lies, empty promises, exaggerations, more empty promises, words of love that are not actually love... playing on women's emotions and manipulating her... what's wrong with that? Can all men say that they communicate honestly for sex? Can all men say that they make promises to women that they mean? Can all men have a relationship without expectations? Why are men allowing other men to manipulate women for sex? ????????? I have absolutely no control or say in another man's actions women have to make the decision to say no to predetors saying no to a predator is impossible. predators do not take no for an answer. saying no to sexual scavengers is easier by they will try to kill you to get what they want, to feed on you. understand the animal kingdom. some women learn the hard way. we have lost our natural instincts. |
MissCleo
User ID: 77082640 United States 12/08/2019 02:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Im divorced with a kid and my bf is divorced with two kids. So that commonality worked out for us. Quoting: bleep I couldn’t relate to guys without kids. Sometimes they seemed cool with it but you could see that they didn’t understand the weight of it. People without kids should definitely seek out other people without kids. why are people seeking other people. you have kids, that's enough people. Take care of those people. It’s nice to have a partner to confide in and do things with. It’s nice to have a father figure around. He makes my life a lot better and I would like to believe I do the same. NEVER should a woman bring another man into the house that isn't the father of her children. NEVER. You are a parent, that is your role. raise your kid to adulthood. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 72408109 United States 12/08/2019 02:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, most people over the age of 20 to about 40 are out fucking other adults and **GASPS** procreating........that's what GROWN ADULTS DO. If you want to be with some who does NOT have kids, get a teenager but expect to catch a charge ala R.Kelly style with all the pedo sprinkles on top. Life Hack: You fuck....someone will get pregnant. End of story. |