Empaths are the realest people

The problem is that you give things a label. You have formed an opinion of something that you have no idea about. This is your term. A well rounded person in God puts themselves in other’s shoes, uses emotion correctly, as it is natural, and can still be completely logical. Sometimes we may experience heightened emotions, due to circumstances, we may error. Has this never happened to you? All emotions are necessary and no one’s perfect. Trying to get rid of certain emotions is not going to do you any favours in the long run. A walk with Jesus will renew. People who experience empathy regularly are functioning more completely, this is the truth, but it is not the entirety of a person.

Personal judgement without weighing things correctly (using God’s word) just creates confusion, more division etc.

Well writ.

and maybe you being slow bled would change your focus...arrogant cunt....


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Huh? Phi is based on fibonacci sequence. Not asking you to trust me. I'm wondering what this is about. I only mentioned because you are into Phi. Maybe you dont know anything about numerology. Life path numbers. Once I started reading about this stuff, I started believing in some God again, the universe even sorry if I offended you.

Better go for the head.

Amen.

I'm sorry. It was not meant towards you.

I'm not clicking your link though.

I don't know much about that stuff either. I am not dodging you conversion, just not the same as what I do with numbers.

Lol. I totally understand. I'm not trying indoctrinate you either. It's an old study that literally tells about a person's character or behavior. Its neat. If you are Christian, you know the importance of a name. Names carry vibrations. The universe was spoken into existence. Seriously I found this website that accurately describes a person's character by the name given at birth. It uses numerology.

If you are an empath your most important job is do learn to take care of yourself and your energy and also to learn how to detach.

As an empath I have always believed that I am here to be of service to others. I believe in Karma so I know that although it may not always seem like it, the good I do will be returned.

Burn out and fatigue can happen to empaths if they don't learn how to protect themselves from psychic vampires and it is very important to learn methods to detach from others and protect your energy.

I have found through my own experience it is important to be in a job where you can show empathy but also feel supported and valued by your work colleagues. It took a long time to find this but when I did it made all the difference.

Last Edited by Cleolotus on 12/09/2019 02:52 AM

I went through this. And I am learning. Thank you. I think my problem was my naivety along with being an empath. I thought everyone had a heart

That's the empaths problem. Seeing the world as if everyone has a heart

Pushers are better, they can change the future.

be afraid, be very afraid

I used to be an empath myself, but it was a burden and it was known to be a dysfunction rather than a blessing within myself. It felt like I didn't exist and like I had little to no control over my own life, feelings, thoughts, etc. It all stemmed from my abusive childhood. For instance, I used to have to know within a couple seconds of entering a room if it was safe to stay there or not by noticing exactly how my father was breathing while he was sitting in his chair and how the room felt emotionally. Certain breathing patterns meant it was safe and I could stay while others meant it was safe to stay as long as I acted a certain way and others meant that he was looking for someone to dump all his issues onto so it was best to leave immediately.

Being highly skilled at reading a room or reading the emotions of a person was a learned skill born out of necessity for me. My mother used to take on everyone's pain as her own and then act as if she was basically a victim just like the other person the event was actually happening to. She tried to train me to be like her and she has always acted as if not being tied to the whims of my emotions was evidence that I was heartless and thus she was godly and pure because she didn't do that.

I have slowly let most of my empathic abilities go naturally as I have healed from the traumas of my chidhood. I now find comfort in my own mind, thoughts, faith, etc. I still feel empathy for myself and others, but only in situations where I feel like God wants me to do something. In other situations, I feel very little connection, and that enables me to live a much more balanced and healthy feeling life. Everyone else's problems are not my problems and that's the way it should be. When I need to be able to get something done in a emergency situation, I can now also shut off my emotions completely and focus on the task at hand and save any emotional processing I will need to do for a later time when it is no longer an emergency. When I was younger I would just absorb and feel the same pain that everyone around me felt and it would largely hamstring me from being of any use to the emergency situation at all.

I think many if not most empaths are deeply traumatized people that instead of working to heal that brokenness and trauma have instead chosen to convince themselves that they are actually a special group of superior people that others should aspire to be more like and if that happens the world will be a better place. It wouldn't. There is almost always a ego aspect to empaths, where they want others to look up to them. I consider empaths to be the emotional equivalent of the arrogant intellectual, that thinks he is better and wiser than everyone else because he has three degrees even though he can't even change a flat tire, get along with normal people, or do much of anything himself in the real world.

I totally understand and that is why it is really important to learn to protect your own heart in your journey as an empath.

Empaths by their very nature and energy can be a magnet to narcissists and needy people and this can be very draining. Always follow your intuition when you meet people for this reason. Usually you can discern whether you want to give your energy away to that person or not. I have had to put some really strong boundaries on people and also detach from others who were draining me.

This is very helpful and insightful. I agree with you.

It sounds like you have become very balanced through working on yourself and through introspection on your past.

To feel deeply and to empathise with others is a gift that is not valued in our competitive society but it is a gift nonetheless.

Last Edited by Cleolotus on 12/09/2019 03:11 AM

Well said, Sonia.

It is truly hard to understand those who don’t. They are missing things which are vital components of the concept of humanity in an individual.

Seig heil

THIS

It's all about balance.
Christ turds lack that.
Sorry, OP.
But not really.

Hey, I am no Sonia Matsonya, I am a sonik because lucidity is my strength blessed upon me by the Lord.

The experience of living comes from motion which is a product of imbalance, so if you're writing that "it" is all about balance, you mean that it is all about death. You're correct on that point. Everything points to the death state of perfect equilibrium (nonvibration). Those who follow Christ follow him to public ridicule and possibly gruesome death on a (metaphorical, if it must be) cross. When you ridicule Christ or his followers, as he said you would, you become a servant of their metaphysics called a "vessel of wrath", which is someone who washes their feet but never gets to sit at their table. It truly is a sorry way to be.

You must exercise your pull muscles as well. Exercise both. Attraction and repulsion. Contraction and expansion. This is the basics of metaphysical psychosomatics, come on.

I don’t classify people as “empaths.” There are those that have what we call empathy and those who don’t. There is a spirit that creates this sort of “dead” heartless condition. People acquire it through certain types of conditioning (formulated by occultists) in “programs” or they acquire it through certain life choices etc. Nothing overly special about having empathy when you look at it from the perspective that since it’s natural, we all should have it. Although being that it has been taken from many, and is kind of a rare thing these days, I could see how people could personify the trait to being all a person is. I don’t view myself as special because I have empathy. I’m thankful I listen to God. His ways keep me balanced, my relationship with him is something I consider special.

I see you feel really special.
As long as you can enjoy that, I'm happy for you!

Now, leave me be me.
I am that I am.
Thank you.

I agree. It is just a term. It certainly doesn't make you better than anyone , just more humane.

They have said that psychopaths (those who dont exhibit empathetic traits) have different brain activity than people who do show empathy and more humane traits

You can see what "you" feels? Or is that your feeling in your gut there, or perhaps your chest? Is it a reaction to feeling like a fool after you realize the Christians had bamboozled you into sending them your energy?

Me is me, true. You is you, true.
"I am that..." means a speaker objectifies their self.

I am WHO I am.
Thank Me.

It’s a vital component.