Only people who do these type things get involved, smart people look at both sides and know what not to be involved with. Women and Men are supposed to be mate, one thinks one way and the other thinks the opposite and together they work out fine, it a middle ground where ideas come together. It is good to have someone to throw an idea to if they think too much alike they can not do this. In marriage it called having a mate, not better or worse than the others, it gives and takes, if you don't care enough about something the other part of your marriage don't argue give in, or say it fine, same goes when you want something. Don't fight just to argue it stupid. You can be less than 50% in want you really want, or a tiny bit more, it what the marriage and the other person mean to you, it not always about just one person in the marriage. I found this the best way to work with people and I had a good marriage, and it will be my only one, I a widow, I sure can not see marrying again.


Just know no person is perfect, which means all people.