For those who struggle with depression- coming from a young "pawn" | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76591167 United States 01/11/2020 01:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How do you cope and does it ever get better? Everyday seems the same and I cant understand how I am still standing. By gods grace ive been brought out of the darkness but I cant seem to hold onto the light. I only want to go back to what I call home. Please help me with some kind words of wisdom? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78135746 talking and listening help. you are not alone. watch positive videos on youtube. Remember, there IS a plan for you to be here. seek it out. it starts with filling your heart with love and compassion for others. the easiest and fastest way to feel good about yourself is by giving to others.... not just material things, but kindness, love and compassion. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 64274449 United States 01/11/2020 01:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What happens during CBT sessions Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78266409 If CBT is recommended, you'll usually have a session with a therapist once a week or once every 2 weeks. The course of treatment usually lasts for between 5 and 20 sessions, with each session lasting 30 to 60 minutes. During the sessions, you'll work with your therapist to break down your problems into their separate parts, such as your thoughts, physical feelings and actions. You and your therapist will analyse these areas to work out if they're unrealistic or unhelpful, and to determine the effect they have on each other and on you. Your therapist will then be able to help you work out how to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviours. After working out what you can change, your therapist will ask you to practise these changes in your daily life and you'll discuss how you got on during the next session. The eventual aim of therapy is to teach you to apply the skills you have learnt during treatment to your daily life. This should help you manage your problems and stop them having a negative impact on your life, even after your course of treatment finishes. Pros and cons of CBT Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) can be as effective as medicine in treating some mental health problems, but it may not be successful or suitable for everyone. Some of the advantages of CBT include: it may be helpful in cases where medicine alone has not worked it can be completed in a relatively short period of time compared with other talking therapies the highly structured nature of CBT means it can be provided in different formats, including in groups, self-help books and apps (you can find mental health apps and tools in the NHS apps library) it teaches you useful and practical strategies that can be used in everyday life, even after the treatment has finished Some of the disadvantages of CBT to consider include: you need to commit yourself to the process to get the most from it – a therapist can help and advise you, but they need your co-operation attending regular CBT sessions and carrying out any extra work between sessions can take up a lot of your time it may not be suitable for people with more complex mental health needs or learning difficulties, as it requires structured sessions it involves confronting your emotions and anxieties – you may experience initial periods where you're anxious or emotionally uncomfortable it focuses on the person's capacity to change themselves (their thoughts, feelings and behaviours) – this does not address any wider problems in systems or families that often have a significant impact on someone's health and wellbeing Some critics also argue that because CBT only addresses current problems and focuses on specific issues, it does not address the possible underlying causes of mental health conditions, such as an unhappy childhood. How to find a CBT therapist You can get psychological therapies, including CBT, on the NHS. You do not need a referral from your GP. You can refer yourself directly to a psychological therapies service. [link to www.nhs.uk (secure)] Dont go to a therapist. You get tangled up in a thick web of official psych bullshit that will bind you into an unhealthy mindset. The OP sounds to me like he/she has fairly good mental health, really. Depend on yourself and dont give in to despair. Ground yourself by eating and sleeping right. Therapy can get very expensive too. Fuck that! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 64274449 United States 01/11/2020 01:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It’s a big cold sad world OP and everybody lies. My own family and the government all threw me under the bus a long time ago. I am 62 and one of those people who got used in dirty experiments when I was a kid. Nobody is ever going to tell me what happened—all they wanna do is cover their own asses and they never want to have to look at what they did to my life. I’ve had to go through hell all by myself. But if you can maintain your own sanity after walking through the fire alone you will be stronger than anyone else, in the end. “I beg your pardon, I never promised you a rose garden” OP one of the things I do now for kicks is grow roses... really. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 64274449 United States 01/11/2020 01:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The very hardest thing for me is finding the love in my battered heart to forgive all the people who betrayed me. I have found that doing that brings a big change in them. People want mercy. Mercy is Grace. If you can forgive it means you walk in Grace. You are the enlightened one. You show the example. Some of the most abused and betrayed among us become the ones these rotten people look up to. You have to find the strength to love yourself in spite of all the hateful stuff that’s been done to you and still remain open and humble. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78024751 01/11/2020 01:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Depression is self centeredness Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76698438 You’re stuck thinking about you Go to a cancer ward Go to a nursing home Go visit the ghetto You won’t be stuck on you anymore You’re welcome But you will be infinitely more depressed, if you have even a bit of empathy. And you will probably decide to stay in the ghetto and drink out in the street and sleep in doorways when you get old, because that option better than the nursing home. what the fuck are you talking about hobo |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78024751 01/11/2020 01:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Depression is self centeredness Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76698438 You’re stuck thinking about you Go to a cancer ward Go to a nursing home Go visit the ghetto You won’t be stuck on you anymore You’re welcome But you will be infinitely more depressed, if you have even a bit of empathy. And you will probably decide to stay in the ghetto and drink out in the street and sleep in doorways when you get old, because that option better than the nursing home. Sometimes people over think things Point being is to get out of yourself Thought I had a ruff life with no shoes Then I met the man with no feet It’s damn true Take life for what it is And always be grateful Make a list everyday And be grateful People like you DO NOT UNDERSTAND CLINICAL DEPRESSION BECAUSE YOU HAVE NEVER HAD IT. Get fucked, buddy. Why don't you stop virtue signaling, put your money where your cocksucker is, and cheer up those old fucks in the nursing home like you're instructing OP to do. whining about problems that pail in comparison to other's is fucking selfish and hugely being a pussy |
jeffrius
User ID: 77513916 United States 01/17/2020 10:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How do you cope and does it ever get better? Everyday seems the same and I cant understand how I am still standing. By gods grace ive been brought out of the darkness but I cant seem to hold onto the light. I only want to go back to what I call home. Please help me with some kind words of wisdom? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78135746 i think i learned when i was young that there are things that you have to do and things you have to do. on the list of have to is deal with things you dont have control over. i guess failure is not an option . when you dont have the option to not do something, how difficult it is , how tired you are how much you want to give up do not matter. you could stop and think that youre alone if you dont have alot of other family, that theres noone to call if you need advice or to call to share good news , to help you get out of a jam . these thoughts serve no purpose any thought that isnt a step on the road to becoming the kind of person your parents would be proud of is a vestigial echo from the person you used to be be strong. help people. smoke weed. repeat. |
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