I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.

37 and in the same boat. But I'm prob on spectrum and asexual, and hate the BS theatrics in any relationship. I just feel not worth the trouble.

you have to treat women like shit, or as if they don't exist. if you like a bitch, stare at her uglier friends crotch it will get her jealous. women like challenges, punishment.. beat them with lies and mental games. scoff at them, fart do abrasive brash tactics only chads could think of.

I can say only one thing, the rest is vanity.

If you really want to find your woman, soulmate, pray and sincerely from deep of your heart ask Lord. He never fails, from my experience and million of other people experiences.

Get a hobby or something your passionately in to. Stay in shape and eat right. Save your money and buy a house and a decent car. And above all else, find some confidence somewhere in there.

Women are pretty simple. If you believe in yourself, women will believe in you. You just need to be assertive and confident and you could be the elephant man and still get laid.

Don't listen to women haters. My wife if gorgeous and it's a LOT OF FUN!!! They're not called the better half for nothing my man.

I called a woman a bitch at the gym because she was rude to me at the gym. I nearly got kicked out. I've been at the same gym for 12 years so they went easy on me

Damn right.. I was depressed one night in yahoo chat cyber sexing some hoes that were prolly other perverted dudes.. this bitch sent me a PM and we ended up meeting. took her ass to the ponderosa buffet, banged at the motel 6. was the most romantic shit i ever experienced.. i wish id gotten her last name, i got banned from yahoo and we lost contact unfortunately.. i go back to that ponderosa buffet and imagine she's there but i aint seen shit.

Don't listen to these people. It's true that women like aggression, but a strong assertive man is even better. You're not going to want the cunts that truly like being treated like shit. I'll never understand how these retards don't think it won't all come right back at them.

Believing in yourself and being extremely confident doesn't have to mean you're a piece of shit. It just so happens to be that a lot of these shitty people are good at temporarily fooling women who like strong men (which is all of them).

Well that's not going to do you any favors. Last thing you need is all the women at the gym talking shit about you. Just ignore them. Plus the girls you really want to meet don't want to be talked to at the gym.

Get in shape and take lots of outdoorsy pics with you and a dog, and put them up on every dating site. Might take a while, but you'll eventually meet someone! I've met women in lots of situations, but only shitty slutty trouble girls are going to want to be approached by dudes at the gym.

If you want women in your life, understand friendship.

I know, Destination: Frnd Zone..

That's not what I mean.

You need to be someone that people enjoy being around.

Not just someone people tolerate.

The mandatory basics: look clean and well kept. It doesn't matter if you're overweight or a bean pole, what matters is if you spend a little time everyday trying to look like someone who's going somewhere.. be presentable and have a hint of style so people won't regret looking at you.

The next level: smile and carry yourself like you enjoy life. Nobody wants to be around a pessimist, a complainer, someone who always speaks ill of others or someone with a chip on their shoulder.. Be the guy that people know they can call for a quick chat and not have their mood flattened.

The home run zone: actually be that guy who cares about looking fresh and clean, who has a natural touch of style, who cares about climbing a career mountain, who likes to smile, who enjoys speaking positive, who wants to lift others up, people be damned.

This is a guy men and women alike want to be aound.

Concentrate first on being a lighthearted, non-clingy, quality friend and the dating opportunities will happen.

Dude just pay for it already

extortion ?

My friend stole a womans dog.. waited 24 hrs then started going door to door to neighbors homes near her house... ended up looking like a hero who rescued her dog. I remember feeding it hamburgers and icecream felt so bad.

It worked, she has no idea.. to this day I hold the secret to myself, they're married with 2 kids.

I hate reading about people beating themselves up so badly. Op doesn't sound like he hates women or is even that bitter not as much as some guys.


Remember even the most beautiful people's looks fade with time.
Just be a good person, volunteer, take care of yourself and family.
Someone will see that eventually I promise.

Go to spousal abuse meetings.. like AA meetings only you tell your experiences of abuse from signicant others. Plenty of damaged goods there...

Bro I have a gf. It's not all it's cracked up to be. I was single for years before my current one and I think I liked that better. She thinks she can tell me what to do and what decisions to make and I will ignore her and do what I feel is right for me and it causes a lot of conflict because I'm headstrong and she doesn't like it. Most women don't like it if they can't control their man.

I'm actually thinking about breaking up with her. I don't enjoy feeling like I need to be accountable to her and consult her before I make decisions. I'm very independent so I sorta resent it. Maybe the bachelor life is better for me and it might be for you as well.

Many of us have seen beautiful women with ugly men. Just think of Harvey Weinstein. So being ugly really isn't a factor because to the person who loves you, as the beloved, you're handsome.

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I have tried meeting women at the gym who I see daily. Some just give me the silent treatment. When I ask them a question. Women are flat out terrible. I dont care what they look like. It's just they are all bitches.

Ugly and poor try no more, ugly and rich get it fixed for girls galore.

brave new world

overpopulation will fix it self

Including you mom?

People at the gym want to do their own thing and be left alone. The point of exercising isn't to meet people, but to be desirable when you do meet people.

Also, get a bokken or something like that, and just practice your sword swing over and over again. Somehow, it helps to balance the heart and mind.

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Lastly, stop scanning. Once when I was in a brief relationship(teen thing lasted like a week), I stopped scanning, and I had gals walk up to me introducing themselves to me.

If your scanning, that causes women who are scanning you, to look away. While, if your not scanning, they will continue to gaze at you, and may even introduce themselves to you.

Also, if your not handsome, women might get pissed at you scanning them, and whatever chances you have go out the window.

Steroids doesn't shrink the cock it shrinks the balls because they are no longer needed for producing testosterone. You can avoid this by taking HCG but the only benefit is You will be able to impregnate a woman while on cycle.

It's not that they didn't want You they didn't want Your fucking attitude. Trust Me women are hard wired to want a man with high testosterone and that's it. I'm speaking from experience a man with high testosterone does not give a fuck what anyone thinks and He can just be himself and that's what women want. I used to be just like You in that I thought I was ugly and I pushed everyone away because I never could believe anyone could love Me. Well one day I had a spiritual experience where I learned to no longer give a fuck about anyone else opinion and then I was free to be myself. I was finally able to laugh and cut up and have fun because only making myself happy mattered and shortly there after I met the love of My life. The main reason She wanted Me because I was fun and I made Her laugh all the time and We were in love for 14.5 years until I changed and became an angry man. I know You can get there because I was at that point in My life at one time. I recently lost My family and I've had a 19 months of tears and I knew nothing would change until I took action so I got a cycle and after My first injection I was laughing and cutting up like My old self. I don't recommend You break the law but look You need to find Yourself and learn to love Yourself or no one else will ever be able to love You.

Then You had a good family then which a huge portion of us don't.

Well if Your 5'6 then find a woman that's 5' and You should be golden.

Were any of the chicks you tried talking to a 3 or below?
If not stop trying to punch above your weight.
Plenty of 1-3’s on dating sites who need love too..

Hmmmmmm yeah the size of Your junk can be a problem because well lets just say confidence is important and if You can't be comfortable in Your own body then Your never going to attract a mate. The bright side though is every vagina is different and some women have really shallow vagina's and even a short dick can hit the bottom.

You are going to have to lower your standards and have an ugly girlfriend, but ideally one that shares your interests.