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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78432847 Canada 02/03/2020 10:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Everyone has an internal voice, but here's the thing. It's not yours. Quoting: USCG Popeye The proof is, try to predict the next thing the internal voice says to you. You can't. The difference from person to person is in the quantity of internal voice and the suffering it cause. For those who're more aware of their own internal thought, and realize that the thought might not be correct, the dreadful internal thought will attenuate a lot. For example, when one is aware of the suicidal thought and question why such a thought arises, will soon realize the suicidal thought will have less and less power to trouble the mind. After a time, the suicidal thought gets lazy and wouldn't even come to the mind since the person does not response to it's push. This is how Vippasana, the mindfulness meditation, free one from dreadful thought, by simply being aware without reacting since the thoughts come like wave and then recede to another thought. After being mindful for some time, dreadful thought will be considerably reduced. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78394019 United States 02/03/2020 10:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It’s weirder to me thinking that most people go around having internal verbal conversations with themselves. Words were only created to express yourself to others. Why in the hell would anyone need them to communicate with themselves? It has nothing to do with not being able to think. Maybe the people who don’t need to use actual words in their minds think on a higher level and need to dumb their thoughts down with words to communicate with others? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77717569 United States 02/03/2020 10:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Everyone has an internal voice, but here's the thing. It's not yours. Quoting: USCG Popeye The proof is, try to predict the next thing the internal voice says to you. You can't. yes my internal voice hates my guts and wants me dead. it's not me, it's some creepazoid freak who hates me also i see how everyone around me is possessed, they are all reading my mind and psychic and totally hostile, like freakishly hostile. as far as I can tell most of the human race is possessed, except for Christians. some of the people who are just active all the time, too busy to think, doesn't really matter for them, but anyone who relaxes and has time to think, gets possessed, all their thoughts are the devil's thoughts because they only ever hear possessed people singing songs, or on talk radio shows, or on TV. everytime you listen to music or watch tv you're listening to people possessed by satan and thus the demonic possession is spread via mass com technology. most people you talk to on internet are possessed, obviously. transfer of consciousness, man. that's why you wanna fuck all the time. you wanna expand yourself, conquer reality with your consciousness. only they don't need to fuck to do it. when they possess you, they've done stolen your souls, implanted their consciousness. you are now them and you don't even know it. the demon has your memories. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76087551 Australia 02/03/2020 10:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's like saying water only seems wet to 40% of people. Weird. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73084520 I get the monologue, and there is always some song playing in there, too. I hate it when I get some song stuck in my head. Especially after a night on the piss. Sometimes all the next day it's stuck in there and I end up hating the song. Music is mostly rubbish. I have no idea how people can listen to the same shit for decades. I think they might be retarded. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77717569 United States 02/03/2020 10:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It’s weirder to me thinking that most people go around having internal verbal conversations with themselves. Words were only created to express yourself to others. Why in the hell would anyone need them to communicate with themselves? It has nothing to do with not being able to think. Maybe the people who don’t need to use actual words in their minds think on a higher level and need to dumb their thoughts down with words to communicate with others? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78394019 yes thinking to yourself is talking to yourself. it is insanity, you start to imagine you are talking to another person, and this person becomes 'God'. you start role playing as God in your head, to yourself. i mean, if you can be anyone to yourself who you gonna be? why not be God? same as sexual fantasy, if you gonna have sex with anyone who's it gonna be? a big fat pig? or a super model? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77399006 United States 02/03/2020 10:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It’s weirder to me thinking that most people go around having internal verbal conversations with themselves. Words were only created to express yourself to others. Why in the hell would anyone need them to communicate with themselves? It has nothing to do with not being able to think. Maybe the people who don’t need to use actual words in their minds think on a higher level and need to dumb their thoughts down with words to communicate with others? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78394019 Keep telling yourself that, Corky. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78421079 Japan 02/03/2020 11:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I read a lot so that’s my monologue for the most part, good or bad. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78421079 When I was younger I studied certain forms of meditation very seriously. After a particularly good session it was like the monologue was gone and I was at total pellucid peace, but all the info I needed was just stacked quietly on internal shelves and ready for when I needed it rather than obsessively spinning around in wearying chaos. I read a lot also and my inner voice is my reading voice which is not my own voice but some generic but recognizable voice to me that I suppose I should refer to as me: The Narrator. I have a difficult time with "meditation" because I can't distinguish it from my normal ruminations. My mind feels chaotic when my life is chaotic. When I simplify my life, I simplify my mind. Less worry = less chatter inside. Songs I notice come up unbidden almost but seem to form a theme to certain activities like mowing the lawn, as if I've played that song in my mind many times so that it becomes "a mowing song". Or a raking song. Or a driving song. Etc. Can you relate? The trick with meditation is not just to empty your mind but to use the resulting breathing space to re-organize it. It’s kind of like auto mechanics if done right. You get in there and tinker around at a deeper level, reprogramming habitual thought patterns. But you need a plan or else you can screw up the engine even worse, or just end up staring at it like “ok now what?” Study classical Abhidharma and then Yogacara styles. Take a year or two to master each system by reading the classics and re-programming. If you need to hit the basic stuff first do that; don’t hurry. |
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User ID: 78212432 United States 02/03/2020 11:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yea it’s pretty freaky Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan Supposedly it’s like only 20% of people have thoughts. Whoever wrote the piece in the OP must be drawn more to people who have inner monologues because his informal poll showed a large majority of his connections have it, but you're right. Studies have shown it's actually a very small percentage of the population. [link to www.psychologytoday.com (secure)] "Consider inner speech. Subjects experienced themselves as inwardly talking to themselves in 26 percent of all samples, but there were large individual differences: some subjects never experienced inner speech; other subjects experienced inner speech in as many as 75 percent of their samples. The median percentage across subjects was 20 percent." I always assumed the "inner monologue" was just part of the human experience and 100% of us have it until I saw the articles pop up about it several years ago and found the numbers who have it are so small. I wish mine would shut the hell up most days, which is probably why I'm here so much trying to drown it out. Good grief, everyone has thoughts. I think this must come down to people being unable to describe how they manifest. Sometimes I think and a sort of internal voice but I often visualize, as well. If I'm thinking about something I'm going to do, like paint and guild a piece of furniture, I'm definitely visualizing all of the steps. If I'm think of an abstract concept it's internal "words" but not written out or hearing my voice in my head. I'm just THINKING. Certainly, if something is thinking about cleaning the garage they're thinking the WORDS or CONCEPT of "I need to clean the garage" and then might visualize something like where they're going to build a shelf or remove junk or whatnot, right? IOW, thoughts would be unspoken words and images. In his poem Human Pride, Marx admits that his aim is not to improve the world, reform or revolutionize it, but simply to ruin it and enjoy it being ruined: With disdain I will throw my gauntlet full in the face of the world, And see the collapse of this pygmy giant whose fall will not stifle my ardor. Then will I wander godlike and victorious through the ruins of the world And, giving my words an active force, I will feel equal to the Creator. “Looking for consciousness in the brain is like looking in the radio for the announcer.” – Nasseim Haramein, Director of Research for the Resonance Project |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77399006 United States 02/03/2020 11:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yea it’s pretty freaky Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan Supposedly it’s like only 20% of people have thoughts. Whoever wrote the piece in the OP must be drawn more to people who have inner monologues because his informal poll showed a large majority of his connections have it, but you're right. Studies have shown it's actually a very small percentage of the population. [link to www.psychologytoday.com (secure)] "Consider inner speech. Subjects experienced themselves as inwardly talking to themselves in 26 percent of all samples, but there were large individual differences: some subjects never experienced inner speech; other subjects experienced inner speech in as many as 75 percent of their samples. The median percentage across subjects was 20 percent." I always assumed the "inner monologue" was just part of the human experience and 100% of us have it until I saw the articles pop up about it several years ago and found the numbers who have it are so small. I wish mine would shut the hell up most days, which is probably why I'm here so much trying to drown it out. Good grief, everyone has thoughts. I think this must come down to people being unable to describe how they manifest. Sometimes I think and a sort of internal voice but I often visualize, as well. If I'm thinking about something I'm going to do, like paint and guild a piece of furniture, I'm definitely visualizing all of the steps. If I'm think of an abstract concept it's internal "words" but not written out or hearing my voice in my head. I'm just THINKING. Certainly, if something is thinking about cleaning the garage they're thinking the WORDS or CONCEPT of "I need to clean the garage" and then might visualize something like where they're going to build a shelf or remove junk or whatnot, right? IOW, thoughts would be unspoken words and images. Can you count to potato? |
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Reilly User ID: 78129538 United States 02/03/2020 11:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How in the hell can you think without words in your head? With just images? That's like special ed thinking. Geez, no wonder most people come across as morons. Quoting: Goy Wonder Yea that’s how my boyfriend feels. He thinks they’re all lying or don’t understand the question. He can’t fathom how it’s possible. I say if our brains don’t work that way then of course we can’t understand how these people operate. I love you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77399006 United States 02/03/2020 11:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How in the hell can you think without words in your head? With just images? That's like special ed thinking. Geez, no wonder most people come across as morons. Quoting: Goy Wonder Yea that’s how my boyfriend feels. He thinks they’re all lying or don’t understand the question. He can’t fathom how it’s possible. I say if our brains don’t work that way then of course we can’t understand how these people operate. I love you. Are you Miss Bunny Swan's boyfriend? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77395904 United States 02/03/2020 11:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It was too boring to chain my nose to a wall for even an hour, let alone 30 years. I chose a more dynamic practice. I acknowledged the same general principles of meditation, but chose to practice it fluidly, while working and doing other things. It was really just a matter of watching thoughts and feelings come and go, using them as I needed, and passing on to other thoughts like breath and internal feeling. If I walked over steep or difficult terrain, I resorted to Tai Chi, instinctively, without having made an elaborate study of the forms and motions. You could say, I used my mind or attention to scan internal and external systems, to think about incongruities in people's tones, words, or actions during social interactions, to make a plan for the path ahead or the day ahead, then to move on that plan, while attending to other things and thoughts along the way. If I felt a pain in my knee, I would make adjustments in the way I moved it, while doing whatever other thing I was doing. My consciousness would rapidly move from my thoughts, my actions, my body, my breath, my environment, my activity at hand, and whatever else commanded my attention for a moment, etc. It was never a question of trying to stop my thoughts, but to use them efficiently. It works for me, and my actual state of mind is usually quietly joyful, appreciative of nature, curious, and in a general state of pleasure. I guess because I deal with whatever as it arises and quickly return to emotional and intellectual states of mind that I enjoy the most. |
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User ID: 78176490 United States 02/03/2020 11:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yea it’s pretty freaky Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan Supposedly it’s like only 20% of people have thoughts. Say whaaaaat?!?! If that’s true, it’s effin scary! “If we are peaceful, if we are happy, we can smile and blossom like a flower, and everyone in our family, our entire society, will benefit from our peace.” Thich Nhat Hanh, Being Peace "But ask the animals, and they will teach you, or the birds in the sky, and they will tell you; or speak to the earth, and it will teach you, or let the fish in the sea inform you." - Job 12:7,8 "When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro." - Hunter S. Thompson revstargazer (at) hotmail.com |
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User ID: 78176490 United States 02/04/2020 12:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | “If we are peaceful, if we are happy, we can smile and blossom like a flower, and everyone in our family, our entire society, will benefit from our peace.” Thich Nhat Hanh, Being Peace "But ask the animals, and they will teach you, or the birds in the sky, and they will tell you; or speak to the earth, and it will teach you, or let the fish in the sea inform you." - Job 12:7,8 "When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro." - Hunter S. Thompson revstargazer (at) hotmail.com |
Lily User ID: 75944363 United States 02/04/2020 12:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Did you know some people can't play music in their heads. I can play any song I ever heard in my head, not perfectly but close enough. If I have no musical appliance, I can play music memories in my head. Can you? Quoting: Ducandy I sure can! Me too. I play music often. I have an internal voice which allows me to compose articles or paragraphs, then type them later. Also I can just reflect on things. I can visualize objects well, but people not so well. I cannot imagine people with no inner thought life. Very sad. |
Lily User ID: 75944363 United States 02/04/2020 12:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Did you know some people can't play music in their heads. I can play any song I ever heard in my head, not perfectly but close enough. If I have no musical appliance, I can play music memories in my head. Can you? Quoting: Ducandy I sure can! Me too. I play music often. I have an internal voice which allows me to compose articles or paragraphs, then type them later. Also I can just reflect on things. I can visualize objects well, but people not so well. I cannot imagine people with no inner thought life. Very sad. |
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User ID: 73568822 United States 02/04/2020 12:16 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yea it’s pretty freaky Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan Supposedly it’s like only 20% of people have thoughts. Whoever wrote the piece in the OP must be drawn more to people who have inner monologues because his informal poll showed a large majority of his connections have it, but you're right. Studies have shown it's actually a very small percentage of the population. [link to www.psychologytoday.com (secure)] "Consider inner speech. Subjects experienced themselves as inwardly talking to themselves in 26 percent of all samples, but there were large individual differences: some subjects never experienced inner speech; other subjects experienced inner speech in as many as 75 percent of their samples. The median percentage across subjects was 20 percent." I always assumed the "inner monologue" was just part of the human experience and 100% of us have it until I saw the articles pop up about it several years ago and found the numbers who have it are so small. I wish mine would shut the hell up most days, which is probably why I'm here so much trying to drown it out. Lol, that's an affirmative to everything you said bro TRUMP 2020 Willam Barr 2024 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78188420 United States 02/04/2020 12:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It’s weirder to me thinking that most people go around having internal verbal conversations with themselves. Words were only created to express yourself to others. Why in the hell would anyone need them to communicate with themselves? It has nothing to do with not being able to think. Maybe the people who don’t need to use actual words in their minds think on a higher level and need to dumb their thoughts down with words to communicate with others? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78394019 yes thinking to yourself is talking to yourself. it is insanity, you start to imagine you are talking to another person, and this person becomes 'God'. you start role playing as God in your head, to yourself. i mean, if you can be anyone to yourself who you gonna be? why not be God? same as sexual fantasy, if you gonna have sex with anyone who's it gonna be? a big fat pig? or a super model? I can only speak for myself, but I know the difference in self talk and prayer. When one addresses our Creator is not the same thing as me using my self talk to organize my thoughts when doing a task and how to plan my actions. It's not the one I use for self evaluation and assessment as to whether I am being my authentic self. We can gauge our level and balance between deep thought and shallow musings, and how much of our focus and attention is on ourselves and how much is directed to understanding GOD and his Will, and where we fall short, and also upon our fellow man, and animals, even. It seems that is where this discussion on the thread is headed. Where our consciousness is directed, always inward? Or where can we find help and direction when we are adrift and lost in our own mind maze. GOD is necessary to our well being and ability to be at peace. Or allow our conscience to prick us to move us away from useless or harmful thinking and habits. Our inward voice is the secret person of the heart. |
Reilly User ID: 78129538 United States 02/04/2020 12:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How in the hell can you think without words in your head? With just images? That's like special ed thinking. Geez, no wonder most people come across as morons. Quoting: Goy Wonder Yea that’s how my boyfriend feels. He thinks they’re all lying or don’t understand the question. He can’t fathom how it’s possible. I say if our brains don’t work that way then of course we can’t understand how these people operate. I love you. Are you Miss Bunny Swan's boyfriend? Yes |
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Lily User ID: 75944363 United States 02/04/2020 12:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm blown away at this just like all of you. I've always thought everyone thought in the same way like me. This is so interesting to find out! Like a lot of you too, I wish mine would shut up once in a while. My internal monologue is always thinking/talking to me two steps ahead of what I'm physically doing at any given moment. It's like a queue of tasks to do. "While I'm working on this task, this comes next", so I give both over to my subconscious to handle because I'm focusing on the third task in line. That is my husband, I'm sure. I taught him to listwn, as you can't "think" and listen at the same time. Then we can discuss things. But it is not normal for him to not think. |
Lily User ID: 75944363 United States 02/04/2020 12:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It’s weirder to me thinking that most people go around having internal verbal conversations with themselves. Words were only created to express yourself to others. Why in the hell would anyone need them to communicate with themselves? It has nothing to do with not being able to think. Maybe the people who don’t need to use actual words in their minds think on a higher level and need to dumb their thoughts down with words to communicate with others? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78394019 yes thinking to yourself is talking to yourself. it is insanity, you start to imagine you are talking to another person, and this person becomes 'God'. you start role playing as God in your head, to yourself. i mean, if you can be anyone to yourself who you gonna be? why not be God? same as sexual fantasy, if you gonna have sex with anyone who's it gonna be? a big fat pig? or a super model? That's not what it is lile at all. What wou are describing is kind of shallow and silly. |