Write down things for the kids — Things about you that they don’t know that you’d like them to know, things about your family history and relatives that they might not remember. Write down some of your favorite recipes – – the ones that they love. Write down the story of how you and your husband Matt just the things that you want them to remember and know later if you have grandchildren write letters for them. Tell them in writing how much you love them and how much they mean to you.