On that note.....

I have descriptors slots within my vocabulary that are plug and play.

I can easily exchange one word for another based upon how I feel someone is presenting.

I could call them lovey..or bitch on that basis and it isn't wrong.

Obviously, the prior word is preferable to the later, but both are equally relevant when it comes to stating my observation of how I see them acting.

You might drive a Ferrari, but If I call it a car, I am not wrong if I don't call it by the name given it by it's maker.

Descriptors are not "names". They are words that attempt to describe how one is perceived to be acting.

Carry on. (and no....., I won't be winning any white knight award with a lot of the ladies for my stance, true or not.)