DATING IN QUARANTINE: Can a man be an alpha male and have emotional intelligence? | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 04/25/2020 09:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No wonder why you're so hard 2 please. Do you think you can go on ALONE without being in a relationship?? What does that mean? What about the rest of the signs? Short and sweet is best. Link? lol I just know from personal experience. Aries are usually never content and are impulsive. Very hard 2 please. They love 2 fuck though when in the mood which is a plus |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78834599 United States 04/25/2020 09:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. Real men don't want to sit around and listen to women's endless endless endless never-ending endless bullshit. |
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(OP) User ID: 76660258 United States 04/25/2020 09:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. Real men don't want to sit around and listen to women's endless endless endless never-ending endless bullshit. Plot twist, I don't want to listen to anyone's never ending endless endless bullshit from anyone lol! |
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(OP) User ID: 76660258 United States 04/25/2020 09:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No wonder why you're so hard 2 please. Do you think you can go on ALONE without being in a relationship?? What does that mean? What about the rest of the signs? Short and sweet is best. Link? lol I just know from personal experience. Aries are usually never content and are impulsive. Very hard 2 please. They love 2 fuck though when in the mood which is a plus |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78834599 United States 04/25/2020 09:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. Real men don't want to sit around and listen to women's endless endless endless never-ending endless bullshit. Plot twist, I don't want to listen to anyone's never ending endless endless bullshit from anyone lol! What you call soulful, deep conversation a real man knows is endless meaningless bullshit. |
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(OP) User ID: 76660258 United States 04/25/2020 09:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. Real men don't want to sit around and listen to women's endless endless endless never-ending endless bullshit. Plot twist, I don't want to listen to anyone's never ending endless endless bullshit from anyone lol! What you call soulful, deep conversation a real man knows is endless meaningless bullshit. I mean...you're kind of proving my point..i'm not talking about waterboarding your guy with endless drivel or turning him into your shrink, I'm talking about allowing yourself to be truthful and vulnerable every once in a while. |
Theobromine The Deplorable
User ID: 2184203 United States 04/25/2020 09:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. You don’t want a man / you want a gal-pal in a male body Get over it Do the research - or at least READ the research Women say 10,000 words a day Men say 2,000 words a day Ya need to find some gal or Facebook friends to say the extra 8,000 with Women feel closer to someone after TALKING with someone Men feel closer to someone after DOING AN ACTIVITY TOGETHER So all your babbling doesn’t make him feel one tad closer to you Actually he is thinking “Does she ever shut up?” Going on a hike - bike - fishing - camping - building - farming - activity WILL make him feel closer and he does NOT have to TALK about it - he FEELS it I had a boss once that had superior emotional intelligence ..... The most manipulative and insightful person I ever met - he knew peoples buttons within minutes and used it to make millions ... a wonder to watch him do it .... but ended up with charges of fraud and abuse of power ... haha - he sure had power over people Find a REAL man ... not a criminal Mastermind Let him be a man and he will have heartfelt feelings for you - that he shows by DOING things not babbling like a schoolgirl I have an alpha male that doesn’t suffer whiners and fools How to tell if he is alpha ? Watch him in a group of MEN ... friends or coworkers The ALPHA gets treated like a leader - people want his attention - offer to bring food or drinks - LISTEN when he speaks ... recognize he has the answers - respect his opinions - RESPECT of a group establishes alpha He is only interested in an ALPHA FEMALE - one that is INDEPENDENT in her mind and pursuits and manages her own life and MOODS Alpha man likes pussy but doesn’t want a pussy His woman has to get the same respect from the same people Grow up From someone married to an Alpha and managing her own challenges You were actually making valid points even though they were peppered with random vitriol. Lol I guess the title of the thread got lost in translation. It's dating in the time of quarantine, you know..FaceTime, zooming, Skype. Non of which really lend themselves to activities, but your points are not lost. Your comment is kind and I thank you I call my style “plain talking” I don’t sugar coat the truth I don’t have a vitriolic bone in my body I’m known to give a strong opinion if ASKED Otherwise - I don’t bother to give advice or opinions unless it directly affects ME or someone’s health and safety My little RANT was in defense of men being men Like I said - READ the research Dating via FaceTime Duo etc would be frustrating - but a real opportunity to get to know someone ... ask the right questions ... listen to the complete answers Be able to count to 30 or even an hundred in your head while he thinks about the answers to feeling questions - respect silence ( I repeat this to myself often ) Ask concrete stuff too - things he can answer without feeling it’s a psych test Last Edited by Theobromine on 04/25/2020 10:01 PM "What are you helping with all this helping?" Buddhist saying |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78839032 United States 04/25/2020 09:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. Well, don't sweat it, Toots. With all of the endocrine-disrupting xeno-estrogens being used (in hand "sanitizers") there will be plenty more limp-wristed, emotionally-availble cucks for you to choose from. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78839032 United States 04/25/2020 10:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. First thing... Get RID of the Betty Page avatar. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77498844 Brazil 04/25/2020 10:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. Real men don't want to sit around and listen to women's endless endless endless never-ending endless bullshit. Plot twist, I don't want to listen to anyone's never ending endless endless bullshit from anyone lol! Strella, I am going to take you out on a seafood date, and then never call you again. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78839032 United States 04/25/2020 10:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. Women have made "dating" a nightmare, or an impossibilty for the majority of men today. And a great danger to those who are still foolish to put themselves in harms way. No sympathy given, OP. |
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(OP) User ID: 76660258 United States 04/25/2020 10:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. Women have made "dating" a nightmare, or an impossibilty for the majority of men today. And a great danger to those who are still foolish to put themselves in harms way. No sympathy given, OP. Eh I wasn't looking for sympathy but ok. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 59310310 United States 04/25/2020 10:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. No man will give you a heartfelt soulful conversation until he develops trust in you. And that won't happen in 2 weeks time. Takes time to develop that. If a man tells you his deepest secrets, thoughts, desires, dreams, etc.. it means he cares for you bigly and probably loves you. That's not easy to find and he won't give his heart to just anyone. If it's not happening with someone, then it's just not happening. It's not 'men'. It's just that you don't mesh Keep looking. I'm sure there's someone that will completely melt your heart, and you will completely melt his. |
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(OP) User ID: 76660258 United States 04/25/2020 10:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. First thing... Get RID of the Betty Page avatar. Ok first..I've had that on forever (avatar) curious why it spoke to you though. Eh I don't feel like giving GLP any money just so I can have a kustom avatar. But ill change it lol. You better promise results. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 04/25/2020 10:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. No man will give you a heartfelt soulful conversation until he develops trust in you. And that won't happen in 2 weeks time. Takes time to develop that. If a man tells you his deepest secrets, thoughts, desires, dreams, etc.. it means he cares for you bigly and probably loves you. That's not easy to find and he won't give his heart to just anyone. If it's not happening with someone, then it's just not happening. It's not 'men'. It's just that you don't mesh Keep looking. I'm sure there's someone that will completely melt your heart, and you will completely melt his. what's your sign?? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 59310310 United States 04/25/2020 10:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. No man will give you a heartfelt soulful conversation until he develops trust in you. And that won't happen in 2 weeks time. Takes time to develop that. If a man tells you his deepest secrets, thoughts, desires, dreams, etc.. it means he cares for you bigly and probably loves you. That's not easy to find and he won't give his heart to just anyone. If it's not happening with someone, then it's just not happening. It's not 'men'. It's just that you don't mesh Keep looking. I'm sure there's someone that will completely melt your heart, and you will completely melt his. what's your sign?? Guess |
1776 2.0
User ID: 78344427 United States 04/25/2020 10:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hey op, I am single and ready to mingle(under 30 and have my shit together). What part of the USA do ya live by? Last Edited by 1776 2.0 on 04/25/2020 10:33 PM SovereignProtector |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 04/25/2020 10:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. No man will give you a heartfelt soulful conversation until he develops trust in you. And that won't happen in 2 weeks time. Takes time to develop that. If a man tells you his deepest secrets, thoughts, desires, dreams, etc.. it means he cares for you bigly and probably loves you. That's not easy to find and he won't give his heart to just anyone. If it's not happening with someone, then it's just not happening. It's not 'men'. It's just that you don't mesh Keep looking. I'm sure there's someone that will completely melt your heart, and you will completely melt his. what's your sign?? Guess Gemini. I know I'm wrong so what are you? lol |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 59310310 United States 04/25/2020 10:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: EllenRipley No man will give you a heartfelt soulful conversation until he develops trust in you. And that won't happen in 2 weeks time. Takes time to develop that. If a man tells you his deepest secrets, thoughts, desires, dreams, etc.. it means he cares for you bigly and probably loves you. That's not easy to find and he won't give his heart to just anyone. If it's not happening with someone, then it's just not happening. It's not 'men'. It's just that you don't mesh Keep looking. I'm sure there's someone that will completely melt your heart, and you will completely melt his. what's your sign?? Guess Gemini. I know I'm wrong so what are you? lol Why do you care so much about signs? What does it do for you? And yes, you're wrong |
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(OP) User ID: 76660258 United States 04/25/2020 11:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. No man will give you a heartfelt soulful conversation until he develops trust in you. And that won't happen in 2 weeks time. Takes time to develop that. If a man tells you his deepest secrets, thoughts, desires, dreams, etc.. it means he cares for you bigly and probably loves you. That's not easy to find and he won't give his heart to just anyone. If it's not happening with someone, then it's just not happening. It's not 'men'. It's just that you don't mesh Keep looking. I'm sure there's someone that will completely melt your heart, and you will completely melt his. what's your sign?? Guess Ellen has her shit together. I like her words of wisdom. While we are playing the star sign guessing game im going to throw in my vote for Pices. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 49838646 United States 04/25/2020 11:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Depends on your definition of those things, and your own personal tastes. Generally speaking, men find that women are ruled by whether or not you find us attractive. Doesn't matter how emotionally intelligent or alpha we are, if we don't look like some calvin klein caricature, y'all don't give a shit Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78783039 attractiveness is subjective. A sense of humor is very attractive as is confidence. You can take the "hottest" dude and if he isn't confident in himself or has a good personality /sense of humor then he's just a bland pretty boy. Don't confuse "confidence in himself" with arrogance and a lack of humility. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 04/25/2020 11:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: EllenRipley No man will give you a heartfelt soulful conversation until he develops trust in you. And that won't happen in 2 weeks time. Takes time to develop that. If a man tells you his deepest secrets, thoughts, desires, dreams, etc.. it means he cares for you bigly and probably loves you. That's not easy to find and he won't give his heart to just anyone. If it's not happening with someone, then it's just not happening. It's not 'men'. It's just that you don't mesh Keep looking. I'm sure there's someone that will completely melt your heart, and you will completely melt his. what's your sign?? Guess Ellen has her shit together. I like her words of wisdom. While we are playing the star sign guessing game im going to throw in my vote for Pices. lol Now let's just see if she finally reveals her mysterious sign to us |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 59310310 United States 04/25/2020 11:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: EllenRipley No man will give you a heartfelt soulful conversation until he develops trust in you. And that won't happen in 2 weeks time. Takes time to develop that. If a man tells you his deepest secrets, thoughts, desires, dreams, etc.. it means he cares for you bigly and probably loves you. That's not easy to find and he won't give his heart to just anyone. If it's not happening with someone, then it's just not happening. It's not 'men'. It's just that you don't mesh Keep looking. I'm sure there's someone that will completely melt your heart, and you will completely melt his. what's your sign?? Guess Ellen has her shit together. I like her words of wisdom. While we are playing the star sign guessing game im going to throw in my vote for Pices. Glad you took my comment as positive, that's how I wanted it to come across And I'm a Virgo |
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(OP) User ID: 76660258 United States 04/25/2020 11:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ellen has her shit together. I like her words of wisdom. While we are playing the star sign guessing game im going to throw in my vote for Pices. Glad you took my comment as positive, that's how I wanted it to come across And I'm a Virgo I don't know jack about star signs but I did take your message as positive. It was refreshing to read in a world full of angry bitter people..I'm too young to give up on love and not old enough to be jaded. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2876001 United States 04/25/2020 11:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ellen has her shit together. I like her words of wisdom. While we are playing the star sign guessing game im going to throw in my vote for Pices. Glad you took my comment as positive, that's how I wanted it to come across And I'm a Virgo Mmm I bet your well stacked too |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78733406 New Zealand 04/25/2020 11:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give up on understanding men. I'm not a misandrist, I like guys, I actually like all the typical masculine guy shit they do. But I have found that the more masculine they are the less inclined they are to have a heartfelt, soulful conversation. I can't buy into this stereotype...and I don't want to read some bullshit article on how all men are unfeeling clods that only care about sex and sandwiches lol. Guys..how do the fairer sex connect with you? Quoting: Sugarbabe Dating in the time of quarantine is a pain in the ass. That is all. You don’t want a man / you want a gal-pal in a male body Get over it Do the research - or at least READ the research Women say 10,000 words a day Men say 2,000 words a day Ya need to find some gal or Facebook friends to say the extra 8,000 with Women feel closer to someone after TALKING with someone Men feel closer to someone after DOING AN ACTIVITY TOGETHER So all your babbling doesn’t make him feel one tad closer to you Actually he is thinking “Does she ever shut up?” Going on a hike - bike - fishing - camping - building - farming - activity WILL make him feel closer and he does NOT have to TALK about it - he FEELS it I had a boss once that had superior emotional intelligence ..... The most manipulative and insightful person I ever met - he knew peoples buttons within minutes and used it to make millions ... a wonder to watch him do it .... but ended up with charges of fraud and abuse of power ... haha - he sure had power over people Find a REAL man ... not a criminal Mastermind Let him be a man and he will have heartfelt feelings for you - that he shows by DOING things not babbling like a schoolgirl I have an alpha male that doesn’t suffer whiners and fools How to tell if he is alpha ? Watch him in a group of MEN ... friends or coworkers The ALPHA gets treated like a leader - people want his attention - offer to bring food or drinks - LISTEN when he speaks ... recognize he has the answers - respect his opinions - RESPECT of a group establishes alpha He is only interested in an ALPHA FEMALE - one that is INDEPENDENT in her mind and pursuits and manages her own life and MOODS Alpha man likes pussy but doesn’t want a pussy His woman has to get the same respect from the same people Grow up From someone married to an Alpha and managing her own challenges Perfect. |