The best way I can describe how I am would be a fire.And you can sit next to me and be warmed and safe and enjoy the heat and light and little sparks that flicker here and there
And you can add fuel to light me up when I get too small and cold in a way not harmful

Or you can pour gas on me for the hell of it but make sure you are well out of my way if you do that to me

Or you might get BURNED