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Anyone Been Through A Divorce After 20 Years?

 
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Was married 24 years. The major take away from the divorce is that I had no fuckin idea who she really was. The minor takeaway is to get a good god damn attorney.

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After 30 years but, I wasn't much of a husband or father spent all my time working when I should have been home developing a family.

I loved my wife and daughters more than life. I am now old and lonely living in a flat (sheltered housing) just after they left got cancer and fibromyalgia so couldnt work.

Not looking for sympathy I took my eye off the ball.
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Was married 27 years loyally, hard worker, built a family, businesses and a world, apparently not good enough...... she joined a cult and had affair with a mind fucker with 9 felonies, I got the 3 kids. I always honored women like a gentlemen. I was naive.

Take away....

Women of today are disposable. They expect it, and if you honor them youre a smuck to be controlled. Its an animal world now.
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Why would anybody get a divorce after so long? So they can get fucked over by a single immoral retard? The fuck is wrong with people? Is the grass on the other side too green?

Idiots.
 Quoting: Bill the Butcher


This.

Every, marriage has good times and bad times. You work through it. Been married almost 30 years, very happy. Yes, we had some ups and downs. But we are made for each other. Could not even imagine dating ever again if my wife passed on. So glad we’re older, it must suck to be young nowadays in this messed up world.
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Having sex with 18 to 24 year old women makes me Gay? I think you really dont understand what that means .... lol


Let’s be realistic, your paying for the girls.


Yep, we pay for the beer, Bar drinks, BBQ, and they play with us, and we all have a great time. Then go our separates way the morning after until next time.


Nice to here the Migtow perspective here for a change instead of the Cuck "muh weemins"
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ses 24/7. They tried in this thread but got denied.
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Having sex with 18 to 24 year old women makes me Gay? I think you really dont understand what that means .... lol
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Let’s be realistic, your paying for the girls.
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Yep, we pay for the beer, Bar drinks, BBQ, and they play with us, and we all have a great time. Then go our separates way the morning after until next time.
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Nice to here the Migtow perspective here for a change instead of the Cuck "muh weemins" responses 24/7. They tried in this thread but got denied.
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Why would anybody get a divorce after so long? So they can get fucked over by a single immoral retard? The fuck is wrong with people? Is the grass on the other side too green?

Idiots.
 Quoting: Bill the Butcher


This.

Every, marriage has good times and bad times. You work through it. Been married almost 30 years, very happy. Yes, we had some ups and downs. But we are made for each other. Could not even imagine dating ever again if my wife passed on. So glad we’re older, it must suck to be young nowadays in this messed up world.
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When your wife or GF goes out and fucks a bunch of other men thats not good times or bad times. Thats fucking slut times.
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Why would anybody get a divorce after so long? So they can get fucked over by a single immoral retard? The fuck is wrong with people? Is the grass on the other side too green?

Idiots.
 Quoting: Bill the Butcher


This.

Every, marriage has good times and bad times. You work through it. Been married almost 30 years, very happy. Yes, we had some ups and downs. But we are made for each other. Could not even imagine dating ever again if my wife passed on. So glad we’re older, it must suck to be young nowadays in this messed up world.
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Has nothing to do with young age, My wife of 20 years at the age of 61 just monkey branched me and we both have been retired since 2001 and 2004 with great retirement and no debt.

All women today are monkey branching, you just have not caught yours yet .....

I was saying the exact words you are saying right now just 3 years ago ......

We never argued or anything, and now she wants to get back together ...... No way in hell!
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Make yourself happy.
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Happiness is the short-term, which leads to addiction.

Dedication and honor..have long-term benefits, versus the short term gains of temptation.

All those games have been cornered..by cons.


If you have a partner you can trust..hold on to them. Everyone makes mistakes and even God is said to forgive.

A vow is forever.
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Let’s be realistic, your paying for the girls.
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Yep, we pay for the beer, Bar drinks, BBQ, and they play with us, and we all have a great time. Then go our separates way the morning after until next time.
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Nice to here the Migtow perspective here for a change instead of the Cuck "muh weemins" responses 24/7. They tried in this thread but got denied.
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Why would anybody get a divorce after so long? So they can get fucked over by a single immoral retard? The fuck is wrong with people? Is the grass on the other side too green?

Idiots.
 Quoting: Bill the Butcher


This.

Every, marriage has good times and bad times. You work through it. Been married almost 30 years, very happy. Yes, we had some ups and downs. But we are made for each other. Could not even imagine dating ever again if my wife passed on. So glad we’re older, it must suck to be young nowadays in this messed up world.
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When your wife or GF goes out and fucks a bunch of other men thats not good times or bad times. Thats fucking slut times.
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No shit. That is grounds for divorce. I’d divorce if that shit happens. And never look back.
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Oh and I should add, my wife if 27 years teamed up with the felon to plot to have me jailed, steal everything I had built, and take the children, money, house,etc. He told her to call the police after a minor argument about the affair and claim assault. police evicted me from my life. Judge saw through all the bullshit and the sex offenders games. Divorce, adultry for her, and child support to be paid by her. I thank God everyday.


Was married 27 years loyally, hard worker, built a family, businesses and a world, apparently not good enough...... she joined a cult and had affair with a mind fucker with 9 felonies, I got the 3 kids. I always honored women like a gentlemen. I was naive.

Take away....

Women of today are disposable. They expect it, and if you honor them youre a smuck to be controlled. Its an animal world now.
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Why would anybody get a divorce after so long? So they can get fucked over by a single immoral retard? The fuck is wrong with people? Is the grass on the other side too green?

Idiots.
 Quoting: Bill the Butcher


This.

Every, marriage has good times and bad times. You work through it. Been married almost 30 years, very happy. Yes, we had some ups and downs. But we are made for each other. Could not even imagine dating ever again if my wife passed on. So glad we’re older, it must suck to be young nowadays in this messed up world.
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Has nothing to do with young age, My wife of 20 years at the age of 61 just monkey branched me and we both have been retired since 2001 and 2004 with great retirement and no debt.

All women today are monkey branching, you just have not caught yours yet .....

I was saying the exact words you are saying right now just 3 years ago ......

We never argued or anything, and now she wants to get back together ...... No way in hell!
 Quoting: Lupe_Ate_My_Taco's

Sorry to hear that. There are very few truly mutually loyal couples out there nowadays. Sucks that you wife did that.
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I was married to my college sweetheart for 30 years before our divorce. It was tough. It's been a couple of years now and I was angry for the first 6 months, sad for the next year, and now I'm just kind of numb about it - just feel philosophically that it's one of those shit experiences that goes with life that you can't do anything about. Nobody promised life was going to be easy, you know?

It's really going to depend on the person and the situation as to how you handle it. It's obviously going to be worse on the person who gets the shaft in the deal. How does a person start over when they are no longer a spring chicken? Well, it is what it is and you learn from the experience and get on down the road.

One thing I did learn, though, is that if a spouse dies, people are there to pat you on the back and say they are sorry and that everything will be alright. When you divorce after a long-term marriage, people don't know what to say, so they don't say anything. You know they are thinking, why do it after so many years? No pat on the back - just pretty much the attitude that it's just a divorce and get over it. That might be OK when you've only been married 4-5 years, but when it was decades it truly is like a death. It's the death of your family, it's the death of the future you planned, it might be the death of your financial security, It might mean a home and job change, needing to make new friends because your old married friends don't want to hang with a single any longer, your kids have difficulty processing it and so that impacts your relationship with them. It's a big change.
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Oh and I should add, my wife if 27 years teamed up with the felon to plot to have me jailed, steal everything I had built, and take the children, money, house,etc. He told her to call the police after a minor argument about the affair and claim assault. police evicted me from my life. Judge saw through all the bullshit and the sex offenders games. Divorce, adultry for her, and child support to be paid by her. I thank God everyday.


Was married 27 years loyally, hard worker, built a family, businesses and a world, apparently not good enough...... she joined a cult and had affair with a mind fucker with 9 felonies, I got the 3 kids. I always honored women like a gentlemen. I was naive.

Take away....

Women of today are disposable. They expect it, and if you honor them youre a smuck to be controlled. Its an animal world now.
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bump

Wow! .......... But I see this type of behavior more and more now from these Monkey-Brancher's
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My point is if I became single for whatever reason, I’d be done. I have a great marriage and if I’m lucky enough to live happily married until I die, great. If not, no way in hell I’m wasting my time searching for another. You can’t trust people nowadays. My wife and I married for love, we had very little money....now we live like a king and queen.
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I was married to my college sweetheart for 30 years before our divorce. It was tough. It's been a couple of years now and I was angry for the first 6 months, sad for the next year, and now I'm just kind of numb about it - just feel philosophically that it's one of those shit experiences that goes with life that you can't do anything about. Nobody promised life was going to be easy, you know?

It's really going to depend on the person and the situation as to how you handle it. It's obviously going to be worse on the person who gets the shaft in the deal. How does a person start over when they are no longer a spring chicken? Well, it is what it is and you learn from the experience and get on down the road.

One thing I did learn, though, is that if a spouse dies, people are there to pat you on the back and say they are sorry and that everything will be alright. When you divorce after a long-term marriage, people don't know what to say, so they don't say anything. You know they are thinking, why do it after so many years? No pat on the back - just pretty much the attitude that it's just a divorce and get over it. That might be OK when you've only been married 4-5 years, but when it was decades it truly is like a death. It's the death of your family, it's the death of the future you planned, it might be the death of your financial security, It might mean a home and job change, needing to make new friends because your old married friends don't want to hang with a single any longer, your kids have difficulty processing it and so that impacts your relationship with them. It's a big change.
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Good Whiskey, Good Buddies and 100% ZERO commitments from here forward and life is grand.
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My point is if I became single for whatever reason, I’d be done. I have a great marriage and if I’m lucky enough to live happily married until I die, great. If not, no way in hell I’m wasting my time searching for another. You can’t trust people nowadays. My wife and I married for love, we had very little money....now we live like a king and queen.
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We did too until the 61 year old Queen Monkey-Branched me. I hope you don't get the same as I did. Good Luck.
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Oh and I should add, my wife if 27 years teamed up with the felon to plot to have me jailed, steal everything I had built, and take the children, money, house,etc. He told her to call the police after a minor argument about the affair and claim assault. police evicted me from my life. Judge saw through all the bullshit and the sex offenders games. Divorce, adultry for her, and child support to be paid by her. I thank God everyday.


Was married 27 years loyally, hard worker, built a family, businesses and a world, apparently not good enough...... she joined a cult and had affair with a mind fucker with 9 felonies, I got the 3 kids. I always honored women like a gentlemen. I was naive.

Take away....

Women of today are disposable. They expect it, and if you honor them youre a smuck to be controlled. Its an animal world now.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78450447

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78450447


bump

Wow! .......... But I see this type of behavior more and more now from these Monkey-Brancher's
 Quoting: Lupe_Ate_My_Taco's


They start young now. Been trained well by the Feminist School system that shames young men into thinking there is something wrong with them.
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Sorry about your divorce op

In the end times marriage will be thrown away
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Restored you mean. GOD's laws are not going to be thrown away.
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My point is if I became single for whatever reason, I’d be done. I have a great marriage and if I’m lucky enough to live happily married until I die, great. If not, no way in hell I’m wasting my time searching for another. You can’t trust people nowadays. My wife and I married for love, we had very little money....now we live like a king and queen.
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We did too until the 61 year old Queen Monkey-Branched me. I hope you don't get the same as I did. Good Luck.
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Thanks. Good luck to you. Everyone gets something bad in this life, trust me.
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I can only speak for myself...so this isn't advice...but...I found I couldn't heal or move on until I made the decision that I wouldn't take her back even if she wanted to come back.

That was my starting point to a better life.
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exactly this for me
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Why would anybody get a divorce after so long? So they can get fucked over by a single immoral retard? The fuck is wrong with people? Is the grass on the other side too green?

Idiots.
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How long have you been married?
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Why would anybody get a divorce after so long? So they can get fucked over by a single immoral retard? The fuck is wrong with people? Is the grass on the other side too green?

Idiots.
 Quoting: Bill the Butcher


The wife in this case, was supported by her husband as she pursued a college degree. There, she had a minor in "gender studies" and that was the downfall of the marriage...
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Ahh. Turned into a mental case liberal
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A vow is a vow.

Till death do us part..leaves little room for little other than mutual compromise over the long term.


Nobody said marriage was a fairy tale, other than they who'd hope to make $$$$ off your 'love'.
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Maybe some where over a rainbow.
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I was married to my college sweetheart for 30 years before our divorce. It was tough. It's been a couple of years now and I was angry for the first 6 months, sad for the next year, and now I'm just kind of numb about it - just feel philosophically that it's one of those shit experiences that goes with life that you can't do anything about. Nobody promised life was going to be easy, you know?

It's really going to depend on the person and the situation as to how you handle it. It's obviously going to be worse on the person who gets the shaft in the deal. How does a person start over when they are no longer a spring chicken? Well, it is what it is and you learn from the experience and get on down the road.

One thing I did learn, though, is that if a spouse dies, people are there to pat you on the back and say they are sorry and that everything will be alright. When you divorce after a long-term marriage, people don't know what to say, so they don't say anything. You know they are thinking, why do it after so many years? No pat on the back - just pretty much the attitude that it's just a divorce and get over it. That might be OK when you've only been married 4-5 years, but when it was decades it truly is like a death. It's the death of your family, it's the death of the future you planned, it might be the death of your financial security, It might mean a home and job change, needing to make new friends because your old married friends don't want to hang with a single any longer, your kids have difficulty processing it and so that impacts your relationship with them. It's a big change.
 Quoting: GA Girl



it's easy to be morally coerced into staying married.

I got divorced after 14 years,
it was an extremely hard decision to make
but even now, no sex for 11 years, I'm
still glad I did it. I'm not paying for
her fuckups any more, I don't have ongoing
problems in my life from her fuckups will bills,
credit cards, etc.

I'm glad I did it at 14 years
and wish I'd done it at 6 or 7 years
because I knew inside it was wrong even then.
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Was married 27 years loyally, hard worker, built a family, businesses and a world, apparently not good enough...... she joined a cult and had affair with a mind fucker with 9 felonies, I got the 3 kids. I always honored women like a gentlemen. I was naive.

Take away....

Women of today are disposable. They expect it, and if you honor them youre a smuck to be controlled. Its an animal world now.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78450447

Sums up most of the thread. This is what happens when men get weak and give women too much freedom. Women are not genetically wired to handle freedom responsibly. Women need a strong hand and subconsciously crave it even if they don't consciously realize it.
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Asking for a friend...

What were your takeaways?
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tell them to get a shark lawyer.
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I was married for 22 years, had 3 kids, one in college other 2 in high school. Ex wife joined a church called Philadelphia Church of God. Right away she starts telling me I have to give them 10% of my gross. I laughed. It went on a few months, then her leaders told her to divorce me. OK. She signed full legal and physical custody over to me for the 2 minor children. It cost me 100,000$. If you are a white man and have a job and a work ethic you will get reamed. A good lawyer is OK but the system has "SYSTEMIC RACISM" against white males. I even had to pay alimony wile taking care of the children. Men beware, the system we built and pay for has become parasitic to us. Have a pre nup if you get married. Keep accounts separate, pay for your own house, have the wife pay utilities for her rent. Cover your ass.





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