The key to a long marriage is ignoring all the fucked up shit Your wife does and just rolling Your eyes. I was successful for 17 years and when I got tired of Her bullshit and allowing Her to spend the family into oblivion I separated the bank accounts and then that's when She went looking for a new man. The most fucked up thing is that year I made 130k and the man whom was going to replace Me was a maintenance man making 30k a year. I could seriously understand if it was a lawyer or doctor but come on a maintenance man????