I was married for 22 years, had 3 kids, one in college other 2 in high school. Ex wife joined a church called Philadelphia Church of God. Right away she starts telling me I have to give them 10% of my gross. I laughed. It went on a few months, then her leaders told her to divorce me. OK. She signed full legal and physical custody over to me for the 2 minor children. It cost me 100,000$. If you are a white man and have a job and a work ethic you will get reamed. A good lawyer is OK but the system has "SYSTEMIC RACISM" against white males. I even had to pay alimony wile taking care of the children. Men beware, the system we built and pay for has become parasitic to us. Have a pre nup if you get married. Keep accounts separate, pay for your own house, have the wife pay utilities for her rent. Cover your ass.