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Why does love come with so much pain?

 
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Why does love come with so much pain?
From the highs to the lows... There's nothing more extreme than love.

verysad
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
From the highs to the lows... There's nothing more extreme than love.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65480692



It's a reminder that you are human and you do have feelings, and hope. On the opposite...hate is filled with lows and lowers. It's a cancerous slow death.
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07/12/2020 11:49 AM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Because not many people know how to truly love. Real love is unconditional. If people loved true Agape love, it wouldn't hurt an other's heart.
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07/12/2020 11:50 AM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Because not many people know how to truly love. Real love is unconditional. If people loved true Agape love, it wouldn't hurt an other's heart.
 Quoting: Butterflyangel



That's some truth!
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
From the highs to the lows... There's nothing more extreme than love.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65480692



OP...be stubborn! Be brave! Stand on your feet and move your life where you want it to go! This is all you can do, for you can't change ppl....just yourself


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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
From the highs to the lows... There's nothing more extreme than love.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65480692


It will be ok. Just wait until your broken and can’t feel it anymore.
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07/12/2020 11:55 AM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Why is there a hangover after being drunk?

Yin and Yang. Push and Pull. The fabric of our universe.
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07/12/2020 11:58 AM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
love is dangerous
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
From the highs to the lows... There's nothing more extreme than love.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65480692


It will be ok. Just wait until your broken and can’t feel it anymore.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78581268


hesrightlmao
Miss Bunny Swan

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07/12/2020 12:00 PM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
It’s probably not a good match if you are having such extreme feelings.
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07/12/2020 12:02 PM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Because love is often the word used by people who aren't your friends and who don't like you to get you to do things for them that a normal person would only do for those who are their friends and who do like them. Unconditional love is practically a guarantee of a lack of reciprocity.
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
It’s probably not a good match if you are having such extreme feelings.
 Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan


blink

..not a good match? Shouldn't you love with everything you have?

I mourn it's loss, but I wouldn't change how much I loved.
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07/12/2020 12:08 PM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
From the highs to the lows... There's nothing more extreme than love.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65480692


People often confuse love with attachment. One can be attached to another, without loving them, and one can love another without being attached to them. Strive to attain a more detached, impersonal goodwill
and love towards all.
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07/12/2020 12:09 PM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
It’s probably not a good match if you are having such extreme feelings.
 Quoting: Miss Bunny Swan


blink

..not a good match? Shouldn't you love with everything you have?

I mourn it's loss, but I wouldn't change how much I loved.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65480692


That’s fine but it obviously didn’t work out, too extreme
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Because it is a trick nature plays on us to get us to reproduce.
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Why is there a hangover after being drunk?

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Because they stopped drinking. Set your alarm clock to go off every hour and do a shot. Boom, no hangover

5a
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07/12/2020 12:22 PM

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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Love is about seeking endorphins.

Seeking endorphins shouldn't be dependent on others. Be more self sufficient.
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07/12/2020 12:30 PM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Everything has a price.
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Everything has a price.
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If only it were one fixed price for all customers!
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07/12/2020 12:33 PM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
The eh sun baked everything for us with snail effort?
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07/12/2020 12:57 PM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
From the highs to the lows... There's nothing more extreme than love.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65480692


People often confuse love with attachment. One can be attached to another, without loving them, and one can love another without being attached to them. Strive to attain a more detached, impersonal goodwill
and love towards all.
 Quoting: Justbeing


Exactly.. a lot of times what we think is love is really possessive attachment, and not love. Like how you love your car, or love your gun or whatever. That's rather different than the love between two people, if it is authentic and not that possessive thing.

When you really Love, it doesn't matter if the other person is not "with you", it's not about "owning them", but rather about taking pleasure in seeing them thrive and be happy, regardless of your own involvement or lack thereof.
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
From the highs to the lows... There's nothing more extreme than love.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65480692



It's a reminder that you are human and you do have feelings, and hope. On the opposite...hate is filled with lows and lowers. It's a cancerous slow death.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79118742

never felt human love,
maybe next time around.
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
From the highs to the lows... There's nothing more extreme than love.

verysad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 65480692


Because Love is the only thing that can balance the selfish negative karma of ignorance and evil.

Your existence is much older then your current robotic ego is allowed to remember in your waking state of consciousness.
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07/12/2020 01:10 PM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Love doesn't come with pain, it's just that most people suck at it and don't know what love is.
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Why is there a hangover after being drunk?

Yin and Yang. Push and Pull. The fabric of our universe.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73265907


Because they stopped drinking. Set your alarm clock to go off every hour and do a shot. Boom, no hangover

5a
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75482065


That is gaming the system. Most people who drink would not bother with a detox dosage schedule, nor would they hear the alarm. Many are just happy they lived through a night of crazy sex and hoped the condom stayed on.

This push and pull though is demonstrated in countless ways.

Karma - for every douchey thing you do, the douchiness will return to you.

Electricity runs on push and pull. Everything does.
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07/12/2020 01:24 PM

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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Because not many people know how to truly love. Real love is unconditional. If people loved true Agape love, it wouldn't hurt an other's heart.
 Quoting: Butterflyangel


unconditional love hurts the one giving / living it

here's a hint from one set of traditional marriage vows

- for better or worse
- for richer or poorer
- in sickness and in health
- til death do us part

that's commitment, covenant, unconditional love

and it's gonna hurt at times
(°ö°)
Swirl Life
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07/12/2020 01:26 PM
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Because not many people know how to truly love. Real love is unconditional. If people loved true Agape love, it wouldn't hurt an other's heart.
 Quoting: Butterflyangel


Rare that someone is walking this world without a great deal of emotional injury.

Love brings that Up as a projection.

Real Love learns to communicate and listen.

Not easy - but totally worth it. (with the right person).

hf
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Re: Why does love come with so much pain?
Because not many people know how to truly love. Real love is unconditional. If people loved true Agape love, it wouldn't hurt an other's heart.
 Quoting: Butterflyangel


unconditional love hurts the one giving / living it

here's a hint from one set of traditional marriage vows

- for better or worse
- for richer or poorer
- in sickness and in health
- til death do us part

that's commitment, covenant, unconditional love

and it's gonna hurt at times
 Quoting: Naunet


No, that's an ownership contract, from the olden days where men literally owned the women.

chuckle





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