You did NOT disrespect old "cookies", you would never ever hear the end of it! You would be "eatin' crow" forever to try to get back in the graces.

Kent Rollins in that biscuit and gravy recipe video is a bonafide "cookie".

Watch "To Kill a Mockingbird" as the little 9 year girl Scout is rude to her guest (that she started a fight with at school and whipped his ass). Her "cookie" gives Scout a good dressing down in the kitchen. You are Not allowed to be rude to guest ESPECIALLY at the dinner table. That is considered "tacky". No Southerner worth his salt ever openly is rude. They might smile and be clever about it, so you know you were insulted, but you can'glt put a finger on a phrase where you actually can pinned down them on the insult.

A Southern belle beauty will wrinkle her nose in disgust at such antics, and then privately chew you a new butthole. That is far worse than whatever an old black granny would say. That's when a Southern man fears a gallop upside the head.