Not a happy thing to think of. But my dad caught it and was dead in less than a week. And wasn't feeling bad enough to need to go to the hospital that I know of.

He didn't have a will. And it has been nothing but drama from my family dealing with all of that.

You don't want to have to go through that when you are grieving.

But yeah, she needs to realize what she is doing by going to 'help'. Is this the 12 hour shifts they asked her to do or was that from another poster I read??