How to deal with being unwanted by women?

You can be the ugliest guy in the world, if you constantly show confindence, it won't matter what you look like or how much money you don't have.. Women eat that up..

For example I am overweight, probably a 5 out 10, disabled and can't work yet I have a wife who makes 110k a year and been with her for 11 years.. She just bought me a 40k truck..

Ok maybe you are a lost cause.

You have no determination or grit. No woman would want you for a life partner. You would be a detriment, rather than a boon to a woman.

Get a hundred dollar bill tattoo on your forehead and wear your wallet on a chain around your neck . they will rush to you.

To start. No one in "undesirable". Two. The job thing. Get a trade job. Requires on hand thinking. There's 10 ways to run pipe. Just depends on who is telling you how to do it. Three. I've seen ads for online dates since the covid thing started. You could try that. It's like a video date (from what the ads say). So you don't even have to buy dinner. Don't remember the site.

You supply your own happiness. Shits rough out here. Also don't listen to the people say "you're better off without a woman. They just blah blah blah.". They are probably cucks. I mean if your into that then by all means. I'm not one to judge.

Just keep trying. Life is hard man. But if you don't try at even the simplest things *cough* car *cough* job *cough* house/aprt *cough* grooming *cough*. How is a woman supposed to see any more worth in you than you do.

I wish a woman could fall into your lap so you can be happy in that sense.

Last Edited by Here n There on 08/13/2020 09:00 PM

Pretty much this. You don't have to be rich, but a job is pretty important, especially if you're living at home. Living at home with your parents and not working isn't going to sit well with many people, men or women.

First of all you do not need a woman. Men do not need women. Sure you want one. That’s natural. But you don’t require one.

Be the best you can be. Run marathons. Work out. Fix up a car. Go hunting. Enjoy the fuck out of your life.

I’m almost envious of the Op. I’m the exact opposite where I was getting groped by grown women in HS and slept with at least 80 girls before graduating college. And I never once tried to pick up a girl. They threw themselves at me.

All I wanted was a nice honest girl that was above a 7. Most of the girls I banged were 9’s or 10’s and complete lying whores. Most of them trying to get pregnant. Lying non stop through their teeth. Sneaking around. Fucking up peoples’ lives.

Women are not a pleasure to be around. It’s nice when they’re riding your shaft and you can’t decide which huge perfect breast to nurse on first. But besides that it’s like owning an incorrigible dog that bites you and pisses on the floor.

What I’m saying is find a clean hooker. Maybe check out sugar daddy dot com. You’ll find some sweet thing that needs tuition assistance and you can use her body. And you don’t have to worry about her cheating and lying and robbing you and all the regular stuff that comes with the average woman.

This is the reality of the world we live in.


I won't give any further advice coz, if you ain't listening to the guy above, then you ain't going to listen to me!!!


Enjoy what you have.

You must have a 12 inch dick.

Never had sex? I'm going to go out on a limb and guess a shower, picking up a little, and opening a window for about half an hour might be a good idea for you.

Be patient and have faith in God.

Look up matchmaking services for your area. They'll find you a woman that doesn't want to go through the bullshit either. Of course, it would be a paid service.
And then, you could attend church services at a large church.

Last Edited by Bennder on 08/14/2020 09:06 AM

Well, stop whining about and try some self esteem. Just live your life, man. You are young. 30 us just barely out of puberty in terms if adulthood. You have just started. Work out a few times a week. Hustle to make whatever money you can. Women can tell if you care about yourself. They like confidence because it tells them you don't need to be carried. And get those romantic notions out if your head. The sappy ones. You will be fine but buck up, young man.

Do you love yourself?

Hi,

I'm old enough to be your grandmother which has given me enough years to see a lot of the world and a lot of relationships.

The first relationship you must fix is the one with yourself. You have to learn to respect yourself like you are a king among men. How? By acting in ways that give you pride and happiness. You're in a weird generation, really sorry about that. Young people who spend their lives indoors and doing menial indoor jobs just don't know the physiological happiness that comes with extending yourself physically in all kinds of weather.

No, I'm not kidding.

If I were you, I'd go out and get a carpentry job. Even I had a carpentry job for nearly a year, working framing houses. It's great in that it teaches you physicality, and you NEED physicality. Working out in a gym pales in comparison to being able to turn around and see the results of your sweat.

All young people need to know how to be capable. You need to be aware that you can face a situation and be able to figure out your best solution, no matter what it is.

Now, I've got lots of chores to do. I've made it a point to live in the country where I spend my hours outside, coming inside to avoid heat stroke! and balancing my indoor/outdoor chores throughout the day.

Someone who can get things done is what a woman wants. Figure out how to make yourself competent, capable, resourceful and resilient. That's the best kind of man. I know, because I used to have one of those, and I miss him every minute..He lived a great life and lived a life to be proud of living.

Start by going where women are, like churches. Practice by talking to women that are friendly, even if you are not interested in dating them. Talk to every woman you see, even if it is just "good morning". Once you start talking to them the rest comes naturally. Don't restrict your interest to only women that you think are attractive. LISTEN TO THEY HAVE TO SAY! SO SOME INTEREST IN WHAT THEY ARE SAYING!

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I doubt you couldnt find a partner. The hardest thing is just finding one, indeed... Specially without a job. And not liking bars etc.
But i agree on the fact that i wouldnt be looking for someone i took home after a night out either..
Just know youre far from the only one going through this.
But like i said earlier. Im sure theres a woman sitting at home. Maybe introvert. That feels just like you but could never meet you. Or even if you walk past each other, you wouldnt know since you probably wouldnt approach each other.

hmm i guess i didnt help at all.

I’m sorry you are going through that. I was alone for years with same problem, women just weren’t into me and I tried everything. Either I wasn’t tall enough, cute enough or didn’t have a lot of money. I did finally find someone online years back and it was exciting but after years together and starting a family, I find I’m back to being lonely. We don’t see eye to eye and romance is just not there and there is no sex only on very rare occasions. I don’t initiate anymore because it’s never the time. Don’t get me wrong I love my kids and honestly they are the only reason I try. I come to the conclusion that the fairy tale romance is an illusion and the perfect soul mate is not there. I blame modern media and society for this. I won’t ever persue another woman again if I become single. I’m tired of being hurt and let down. I just want someone to be by my side instead of always complaining about superficial things. I’ve learned to depend on myself and to support my own ideas. Love yourself, it’s the truest form of love you can get. Maybe you will stumble upon someone who is perfect for you. It’s always worth a shot, but don’t get your hopes up because getting hurt just sucks. It’s too late for me, I’m far too damaged. It’s not for you, love yourself and don’t get ruined.

white savior complex has those needy gold diggers

Take her to the roller disco.

thanks

Lots of good advice here. Here’s mine. I was the opposite of you. I loved women. All of them. Tall and short. Fat and thin. Cute or not. Didn’t matter. Spent all my time chasing them. Caught a few too. Have had every emotional bone broken. Twice. Finally I just surrendered. Assumed I was wrong and moved on with my life. Wanted to be a smoke jumper. Was moving across the country to learn. The week before, a cutie caught my eye. Even though I’d given up, it wouldn’t hurt to say hello. So I just walked up to her and said hello. Spent a couple of hours shooting pool. 30 years later, we still are shooting pool together.

You might try Church.

Good people there, or should be.

You still breathing ain’t you? It’s not too late. You both just got older. Sex life isn’t everything later in life. Your partner is. Take her out. Buy her a surprise gift. Do some of her chores. Make her smile.

Seems to be the case for over half of them for sure. Toxic as fuck and you are better off alone then with one of those types.

Beautiful advice. Hope OP sees it. Hope you have a great day!

I second that!