How to deal with being unwanted by women?

Hi,

I'm old enough to be your grandmother which has given me enough years to see a lot of the world and a lot of relationships.

The first relationship you must fix is the one with yourself. You have to learn to respect yourself like you are a king among men. How? By acting in ways that give you pride and happiness. You're in a weird generation, really sorry about that. Young people who spend their lives indoors and doing menial indoor jobs just don't know the physiological happiness that comes with extending yourself physically in all kinds of weather.

No, I'm not kidding.

If I were you, I'd go out and get a carpentry job. Even I had a carpentry job for nearly a year, working framing houses. It's great in that it teaches you physicality, and you NEED physicality. Working out in a gym pales in comparison to being able to turn around and see the results of your sweat.

All young people need to know how to be capable. You need to be aware that you can face a situation and be able to figure out your best solution, no matter what it is.

Now, I've got lots of chores to do. I've made it a point to live in the country where I spend my hours outside, coming inside to avoid heat stroke! and balancing my indoor/outdoor chores throughout the day.

Someone who can get things done is what a woman wants. Figure out how to make yourself competent, capable, resourceful and resilient. That's the best kind of man. I know, because I used to have one of those, and I miss him every minute..He lived a great life and lived a life to be proud of living.

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First tip: Don't be such a downer!

You still breathing ain’t you? It’s not too late. You both just got older. Sex life isn’t everything later in life. Your partner is. Take her out. Buy her a surprise gift. Do some of her chores. Make her smile.

Take her to the roller disco.

I do And have done all of those things. I try very hard to make her happy and tell her we need to make time to go out and be together, but she’s not interested. We are together for convenience I believe at this point. So what do you do when you give and give and get nothing in return? You stop trying. That’s where I’m at. l shouldn’t have to beg for attention or affection. And I don’t. I just swallow my pride and carry on and do what I like to do and help with the kids. Some of us aren’t as lucky and I’m out of desires for females.
Some would say to leave the relationship but go where? At least I’m not alone all of the time and my kids give me great joy and if that were to stop I would be in a bad way. So I’ll just keep drugging through this existence and make sure my kids are ready for the real world and I’ll go quietly and live the rest of my days with myself.

I've come to terms that I'm going to die alone. It is a sobering feeling like paint drying in the mouth. All my life I dreamed that I'd have an average job, and a decent looking woman who I can love and cherish all the days of my life. I don't want a millionaire, I don't want a supermodel, I don't even care if she is "hot" to other men, just as long as she is cute to me. Here I'm 30 years'd old, never had sex, never been on a date, and time is tick-tocking away.

Currently I have no job, but not much changed when I did have a job. I honestly have no idea how to even meet women. Bar scenes are disgusting and I'm not looking for a slut. Is there any tip or tips that can help me? I'm so sad and lonely.

You can be the ugliest guy in the world, if you constantly show confindence, it won't matter what you look like or how much money you don't have.. Women eat that up..

For example I am overweight, probably a 5 out 10, disabled and can't work yet I have a wife who makes 110k a year and been with her for 11 years.. She just bought me a 40k truck..

Pretty much this. You don't have to be rich, but a job is pretty important, especially if you're living at home. Living at home with your parents and not working isn't going to sit well with many people, men or women.

Lasting satisfaction, happiness does not come from between the arms (or legs) of a woman

This world tricks you by telling you what you seek is outside of yourself- be it money, power, women, 'success' & they want you chasing it constantly, miserably like a carrot on a stick

it all lies within

Look up matchmaking services for your area. They'll find you a woman that doesn't want to go through the bullshit either. Of course, it would be a paid service.
And then, you could attend church services at a large church.

You might try Church.

Good people there, or should be.

Always remember,

Never had sex? I'm going to go out on a limb and guess a shower, picking up a little, and opening a window for about half an hour might be a good idea for you.

Life is meant to be an adventure. Not sitting in one fucking place with the same ungrateful fucker.
Gonwherever you can and do whatever you want to.
Life is very short.
It's shorter when you're attached to someone who doesn't give a hapenny fuck about you anyway.
Women want stuff, not 'love'. Buy yourself stuff.

First of all you do not need a woman. Men do not need women. Sure you want one. That’s natural. But you don’t require one.

Be the best you can be. Run marathons. Work out. Fix up a car. Go hunting. Enjoy the fuck out of your life.

I’m almost envious of the Op. I’m the exact opposite where I was getting groped by grown women in HS and slept with at least 80 girls before graduating college. And I never once tried to pick up a girl. They threw themselves at me.

All I wanted was a nice honest girl that was above a 7. Most of the girls I banged were 9’s or 10’s and complete lying whores. Most of them trying to get pregnant. Lying non stop through their teeth. Sneaking around. Fucking up peoples’ lives.

Women are not a pleasure to be around. It’s nice when they’re riding your shaft and you can’t decide which huge perfect breast to nurse on first. But besides that it’s like owning an incorrigible dog that bites you and pisses on the floor.

What I’m saying is find a clean hooker. Maybe check out sugar daddy dot com. You’ll find some sweet thing that needs tuition assistance and you can use her body. And you don’t have to worry about her cheating and lying and robbing you and all the regular stuff that comes with the average woman.

Showing "confidence" means being slightly arrogant, having good posture, and always making snap decisions, aka "being decisive".

Being confident is different, but it won't get you anywhere. You have to display the trappings of confidence.

Count yourself lucky.

They are needy, greedy, self loathing, afraid of everything, hostile, and prone to treachery.

Most men are so distracted by tits that they don't see all the rest of that coming at them.

I've come to terms that I'm going to die alone. It is a sobering feeling like paint drying in the mouth. All my life I dreamed that I'd have an average job, and a decent looking woman who I can love and cherish all the days of my life. I don't want a millionaire, I don't want a supermodel, I don't even care if she is "hot" to other men, just as long as she is cute to me. Here I'm 30 years'd old, never had sex, never been on a date, and time is tick-tocking away.

Currently I have no job, but not much changed when I did have a job. I honestly have no idea how to even meet women. Bar scenes are disgusting and I'm not looking for a slut. Is there any tip or tips that can help me? I'm so sad and lonely.

Not a single bra in that scene.

The 70's were awesome!