The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) | |
Rorschach Watchmen
(OP) User ID: 77105561 ![]() 08/18/2020 10:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) I apologize for the massive wall of text right off the bat, but I know GLP has some great folks here and just thought maybe I could get some kind of answers here. “When you’re dead you’re dead, but you’re not quite so dead if you contribute something” -John Dunsworth |
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My Foolish Daydream
User ID: 73398970 ![]() 08/18/2020 10:38 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) I'm so sorry. That's horrifying and heart breaking. And the not knowing is just the kick in the gut your family didn't need. Sorry for your loss :c It's just a bad day, not a bad life. If you run, I will run, until my last breath. |
Rorschach Watchmen
(OP) User ID: 77105561 ![]() 08/18/2020 10:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) Devastating! I hope you get some real answers. Impossible to know, so many things could be the cause. I would think autopsy would be standard. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73848670 Best wishes RIP ![]() I totally agree, how is it not common in this era especially. I’m not saying covid, at all! But these hospitals are so concerned about every death being a covid death, how is an autopsy not standard for a healthy, fit, no pre-existing condition, 39 year old man. I’m at a loss of understanding “When you’re dead you’re dead, but you’re not quite so dead if you contribute something” -John Dunsworth |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79267869 ![]() 08/18/2020 10:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) Some things stand out in your post. Attending a family reunion is the first. What happened at the reunion? Did he eat something or drink something that was handed to him? Any family disputes or bad feelings towards anything? Does he have any health problems? One other thing is "floating rivers" What location are the rivers? Water borne pathogens come to mind on this one |
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User ID: 76933812 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) Really sad, I would be devastated if were my relative. I hope you and your family can find peace. ![]() All great truths begin as Blasphemies. G.B.S. GLP is like a diamond mine of information, in the sense that you have to shovel mountains of crap to find the diamonds, but it's still worth the pain. |
My Foolish Daydream
User ID: 73398970 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:07 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) I'm so sorry. That's horrifying and heart breaking. And the not knowing is just the kick in the gut your family didn't need. Sorry for your loss :c Quoting: My Foolish Daydream you have a terrible sense of humor What are you talking about? There is nothing funny about this. That you picked up any humor says more about you than me. It's just a bad day, not a bad life. If you run, I will run, until my last breath. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 72630093 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) [link to healthblog.uofmhealth.org (secure)] A widowmaker is an informal term for a heart attack that involves 100 percent blockage in the left anterior descending (LAD) artery, says Stanley Chetcuti, M.D., an interventional cardiologist at the University of Michigan Frankel Cardiovascular Center. As heart attacks go, a widowmaker can be particularly lethal because of the location and extent of the blockage. “The LAD is a very important blood vessel,” Chetcuti says. “It supplies a significant amount of blood flow to the heart muscle — so there can be big consequences when that territory is jeopardized.” Sorry OP :( |
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I just don't give a fuck User ID: 60052792 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:21 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) Sorry for your loss, RW. My Dad lost his sister under the same circumstances years ago. Peace be with you and your family. If I'd known I was going to live this long, I would have taken better care of myself.---Grandpa Rednecks, hillbillies, and cowboys will save the nation---me I dreamed I was drinkin', woke up and I was "we put our faith in maniacs"- Lemmy Kilmister |
DaKine
User ID: 78779227 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:32 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) I am so sorry for your loss, truly heartbreaking. I am confused about the autopsy though. I was under the impression the next of kin can request an autopsy? I am not sure about the financial responsibility of that though. Best wishes for you and your family. ![]() |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77047719 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) Sunday night after my wife’s annual family reunion my brother in law returned home around 2 pm. He had mentioned not feeling good and said he felt pressure in his upper stomach, almost chest area. He said it felt like he had to burp, or called it gas bubbles. He laid down for a bit before packing up his stuff. Once he arrived home he took a shower and fell asleep until 730. Quoting: Rorschach Watchmen After his significant other returned home they ate some Thai food and around 9pm he started complaining again about his stomach pressure, he attempted to throw up because he thought that would relieve the pressure. He couldn’t, so he laid down and was saying he was hot then cold and having hot flashes. We spent all week in the sun floating rivers and having good times with the fam so I guess he didn’t think much of it. He laid down saying he was tired again and they both fell asleep. His sig other woke up around 12 midnight yesterday early morning to my brother in law making slight movements and groaning, she attempted to wake him up and flipped the light to see Adam having a seizure. She called for his roommate to dial 911. Operator instructed them to attempt CPR while paramedics were on the way. The paramedics arrived and attempted full life saving measures, defibrillation, for 30 mins. Here is where I’m racking my brain and trying to figure their out. The doctor at the hospital told them after 30 mins of life saving that he was too young to call at the scene, keep attempting defib and bring him in. In total he was worked on for 72 mins however they never once found a pulse. My brothers heart never started again. He was 39 After the call to us at 1am we woke up and headed into town, by the time we reached the on ramp the chaplain called us and told us Adam had just passed. We couldn’t understand what happened. We got to the hospital, sat with the body until the dr came in and told us this: “We worked on Adam for 72 mins. We were unable to find a pulse again and called him at the hospital. We have no idea what he died of so we call these unexplained deaths. Most likely the medical examiner won’t ask for an autopsy as well, especially at his age” Especially at his age! So he’s young enough to be brought in and worked on for 72 mins, burns all over my brothers chest from defib, but too old for an autopsy to find out why my brother just went to sleep and never woke up? My wife is shattered, her only full blooded sibling gone at 39. The unknowns are weighing so heavy on my soul right now, this is such a tragedy. Do your own private autopsy. Dont let them take the body. Get his cell phone statement check the call . Maybe he didn't drink enough water at tye lake and had heat stroke |
Blue Fairy User ID: 44333138 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) Sorry for this sudden and heartbreaking loss. The family should demand an autopsy but it sounds to me like an Aortic Aneurysm. [link to veryhealthy.life (secure)] Prayers for you and your family. ![]() |
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Rorschach Watchmen
(OP) User ID: 77105561 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) I am so sorry for your loss, truly heartbreaking. Quoting: DaKine I am confused about the autopsy though. I was under the impression the next of kin can request an autopsy? I am not sure about the financial responsibility of that though. Best wishes for you and your family. ![]() We can request the autopsy, was we were quoted at 10k from the county med examiner. They won’t do one because he didn’t die under suspicious circumstances they said. I guess “unexplained” death is not suspicious to them. It’s bewildering “When you’re dead you’re dead, but you’re not quite so dead if you contribute something” -John Dunsworth |
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(OP) User ID: 77105561 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) Sunday night after my wife’s annual family reunion my brother in law returned home around 2 pm. He had mentioned not feeling good and said he felt pressure in his upper stomach, almost chest area. He said it felt like he had to burp, or called it gas bubbles. He laid down for a bit before packing up his stuff. Once he arrived home he took a shower and fell asleep until 730. Quoting: Rorschach Watchmen After his significant other returned home they ate some Thai food and around 9pm he started complaining again about his stomach pressure, he attempted to throw up because he thought that would relieve the pressure. He couldn’t, so he laid down and was saying he was hot then cold and having hot flashes. We spent all week in the sun floating rivers and having good times with the fam so I guess he didn’t think much of it. He laid down saying he was tired again and they both fell asleep. His sig other woke up around 12 midnight yesterday early morning to my brother in law making slight movements and groaning, she attempted to wake him up and flipped the light to see Adam having a seizure. She called for his roommate to dial 911. Operator instructed them to attempt CPR while paramedics were on the way. The paramedics arrived and attempted full life saving measures, defibrillation, for 30 mins. Here is where I’m racking my brain and trying to figure their out. The doctor at the hospital told them after 30 mins of life saving that he was too young to call at the scene, keep attempting defib and bring him in. In total he was worked on for 72 mins however they never once found a pulse. My brothers heart never started again. He was 39 After the call to us at 1am we woke up and headed into town, by the time we reached the on ramp the chaplain called us and told us Adam had just passed. We couldn’t understand what happened. We got to the hospital, sat with the body until the dr came in and told us this: “We worked on Adam for 72 mins. We were unable to find a pulse again and called him at the hospital. We have no idea what he died of so we call these unexplained deaths. Most likely the medical examiner won’t ask for an autopsy as well, especially at his age” Especially at his age! So he’s young enough to be brought in and worked on for 72 mins, burns all over my brothers chest from defib, but too old for an autopsy to find out why my brother just went to sleep and never woke up? My wife is shattered, her only full blooded sibling gone at 39. The unknowns are weighing so heavy on my soul right now, this is such a tragedy. Do your own private autopsy. Dont let them take the body. Get his cell phone statement check the call . Maybe he didn't drink enough water at tye lake and had heat stroke The family, his mother and father being, have decided not to. Ultimately it’s not my place to force them to do one. I know if it was my son, I would sell my left kidney to find the cause. It’s pops is a simple man, very good man, but simple. He seems to believe Adams bucket list was full, he touched so many lives here he was such a great person, so it was just his time to go with god. I’m more practical, but everyone grieve different “When you’re dead you’re dead, but you’re not quite so dead if you contribute something” -John Dunsworth |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77202560 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) Sorry for your loss. :( I agree with the poster above me, some kind of anuerysm? [link to www.mayoclinic.org (secure)] ? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75648309 ![]() 08/18/2020 11:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) Sounds exactly like a (WidowMaker) heart attack. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72630093 [link to healthblog.uofmhealth.org (secure)] A widowmaker is an informal term for a heart attack that involves 100 percent blockage in the left anterior descending (LAD) artery, says Stanley Chetcuti, M.D., an interventional cardiologist at the University of Michigan Frankel Cardiovascular Center. As heart attacks go, a widowmaker can be particularly lethal because of the location and extent of the blockage. “The LAD is a very important blood vessel,” Chetcuti says. “It supplies a significant amount of blood flow to the heart muscle — so there can be big consequences when that territory is jeopardized.” Sorry OP :( Had a heart attack LONG AGO. It was the supposed "widowmaker". Brought that up to the doc who put the stent in and he said that was BALONEY. ANY artery that clogs up can be a "WIDOWMAKER". But I recognize those symptoms. When they do the autopsy they'll be able right quick to tell you what happened. Don't let them slide on this though. |
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User ID: 23559667 ![]() 08/18/2020 12:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) I am so sorry for your loss, truly heartbreaking. Quoting: DaKine I am confused about the autopsy though. I was under the impression the next of kin can request an autopsy? I am not sure about the financial responsibility of that though. Best wishes for you and your family. ![]() We can request the autopsy, was we were quoted at 10k from the county med examiner. They won’t do one because he didn’t die under suspicious circumstances they said. I guess “unexplained” death is not suspicious to them. It’s bewildering It would cost that much to get the autopsy? That's insane. You would think because he was so young they would want the autopsy because it's not typical. I'm sorry for your loss. ![]() "Unless it's mad, passionate, extraordinary love, it's a waste of your time. There are too many mediocre things in life. Love shouldn't be one of them.” ~Dreams for an Insomniac~ "Started with a spark, now we're on fire." [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
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User ID: 76388104 ![]() 08/18/2020 12:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Re: The unexplained death of my brother in law (updated: county took possession over the body today) He had all the symptoms of a heart attack. My dad had the same symptoms at 50. We took him to the ER even though he didn't want to go. Diagnosis: Myocardial Infarction. He was admitted to the hospital. He lived. Last September, my 39 year old cousin wasn't feeling well at work (he owned a business). Went home. His father-in-law was supposed to meet him in his apartment lobby a few hours later. When my cousin didn't show up, his father-in-law asked if they would let him into the apartment. They did. My 39 year old cousin was slumped over his desk. Deceased. They diagnosed it as a heart attack. He smoked, was stressed over his business, and had a bad habit of drinking energy drinks. |
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