Prayers said !!! I understand, as when my mother passed away 3 1/2 years ago, everything was a total mess.Over a year after she died, more bills and assets were found. It took a good 2 years to get everything in order. Family(vultures) showing up from out of state caused a ruckus, also.

OTOH, when my husband Roy passed away from cancer 2 years ago, everything went very smoothly. We didn't have much of anything for anyone to squabble about.I made sure the grandkids all got something special to remember their grandpa. Our youngest child, who was still living at home when her Dad died, got her Dad's gold cross and chain that I had bought him a long time ago.

I was prepared for a problem from his daughter from his first marriage, who's god is money. She didn't even bother to call her Dad during the months Roy suffered with the cancer, until it took him. She never called and didn't go to the funeral, either. I am still appalled over this.