Asking for more prayers for me again. My pain and vertigo are not too bad today. What I really need is prayers for my court hearing tomorrow. Going in for the TRO hearing tomorrow at 8:30am local time. I am a little anxious and nervous at the same time. As most of you know wife filed for divorce and has been throwing some serious allegations against me that include sexual abuse against the kids and her. I have never done anything like that ever.
I just want this to go smoothly and she actually has to start paying her fair share of this all. I have been stuck paying mortgage, her car, insurance, and utilities by myself. She has not contributed to any of it.
Thanks for reading this.
I have included everyone in my prayers.
Quoting: LunaticCC Prayers said !
Here is a condensed version of what I went through:
My 1st husband, who I had married as a very stupid teenager, accused me of being an alcoholic and a drug user, which I am neither now, or ever have been. He put me through an awful lot, stalked me, didn't pay child support, harassed me to the max, caused me to lose my job by stalking me at work and threatening other employees and their spouses.
In addition, he would haul me to court every couple of months with drummed up garbage, and would lose every time. He thought it was fun to harass me through the court system. He wanted nothing to do with my kids, until I got married to Roy.That is when it ramped up a bit.
The worst was when he went on disability, and I started to get a small s.s. check for the 2 younger kids. He called me up and demanded the checks. FTR, he was in arrears for child support $48,000. Of course I refused to hand over the checks to him. He told me if I didn't hand the checks over, he was going to take the kids away from me.
Well, he filed for custody, and the real battle began. A Guardian Ad Litem was assigned to the case. My house was spotless, the kids were on the honor roll, they were into sports, they had a stable home, no drug use, no alcoholics, etc.Still, he wouldn't give up. OTOH, the kids turned him in to CPS for a nasty house. Roaches, lice, animal feces, it was like hoarders. He was forced to clean it up, and temporarily was banned from visitation.
His lawyer told him to drop the case, as there was no way he was ever going to get the kids. Up until the day before he died, he was on the phone with his lawyer, trying to get the kids for the checks, and his lawyer still trying to get him to drop it.
This is just a brief tidbit of what I went through.If it wasn't for my Faith, I never would have been able to withstand the constant turmoil I was put through for years, until my ex died suddenly.
You will make it through this, my Friend ! Have Faith, and let God take control !
