Not all women are like this

But don't let me interfere with this deluded circlejerk of imaginary male oppression

For those who really want to succeed in this dating cesspool:

1. Don't look for women who promote themselves, those are the ones who get around (that's why they promote themselves duh)

2. Don't rely on social media to scout for females, there are many decent females who don't have a social media presence, don't be lazy, get out in the real world and meet real people not the ones actively seeking hookups by promoting online

3. Aside from looks, also consider intelligence, self-esteem, and morals, these are also important and last longer

4. Fix yourself up, be well-groomed, hygienic, clean-looking, fit, strong, and work on your career success (women want stability and you need money to date)

5. Cultivate a real zest for life, a positive mindset, seek some drama, color; the life force/desire to live is attractive, that's what's attractive about jocks and cheerleaders and what you people tend to lack in your miserable circles

6. Remove all negative and false programming in your life (like porn, incel ideologies, etc) and understand the true nature of reality, not what the programmers want you to see, being aware of what's real and what is manufactured to keep you controlled is the first step at changing your life for the better

The incel/UBERQUEER mentality is like the class nerd pouting about not being able to bang the cheerleader

Be aware of your value in the current order, and LOVE YOURSELF for what you are, then date someone who is approximately equal to your value

Finding a mate is primarily a stepping stone to settling down and having a family, producing good and strong offspring through which you can leave your worldly legacy with someone you can trust and depend on through the hard times

Mate selection involves some competition in the beginning stages but this is not what it's primarily about, keep your eye on the end goal and stop chasing the unattainable

To be a productive member of society (and humanity) if you aren't being a Boyan Slat or some kind you have to produce a strong family with healthy/balanced children, so work on finding a mate with this goal in mind instead of obsessing about girls out of your league