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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78310900 United States 09/21/2020 05:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You are ahead of the game. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74661623 Soon, everybody will be asking YOU for advice. I've isolated myself from the sheep but it's painful. It's hard trying to make it without becoming a slave to the system The problem is that you have to understand how the system works in order to avoid becoming a slave. Those people were right - you need some kind of viable skills (trade) to get you going. Once you have experience you can start your own company. Or, you can get enough education on certain subjects to be able to invent some new item that has a market. But you have to know how to source materials and how to sell it. You still need knowledge, in other words. If it were that easy for a person to make it big without an education, training, job training/experience we all would be doing it. |
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User ID: 79369369 United States 09/21/2020 05:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I barely have any family or good relationships. I honestly don't know what to do. I don't even have a "trade" and people keep telling me I can't make it without one. What should I do to help me survive this ordeal? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33549620 Go to trade school. Period. Either that, or get ready to work in the oil field. It pays well, and you can get ahead, once the US opens back up, the demand will be great. I believe in science NOT religion. Giving me bad karma for that, is anti-religious (you're passing judgement) I am just a man. Of no significance. Who found religion to be full of lies, and wrong doing, conflicted teachings I understand microwave communications. I do not stand for the NWO, it sucks. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16429300 United Kingdom 09/21/2020 05:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He was just a painter. He worked hard and got some contracts to paint schools and so on, because he could work fast. Just get up early, work hard most days and choose a trade that people NEED. |
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User ID: 76388104 United States 09/21/2020 06:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know an Irishman who came to London in the 50’s with nothing. He now owns 120 houses around south London. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16429300 He was just a painter. He worked hard and got some contracts to paint schools and so on, because he could work fast. Just get up early, work hard most days and choose a trade that people NEED. We had a family friend who did the same. He started out as a painter. When I met him, he was around 60 years old and married to a family friend. By then, he owned over 100 houses. His wife said she was tired of the bookkeeping and collecting rent from occupants. They didn't need the money from all those renters anymore. lol You would have never known they were so wealthy! Last Edited by nutmeg on 09/21/2020 06:07 PM |
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User ID: 76388104 United States 09/21/2020 06:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You are ahead of the game. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74661623 Soon, everybody will be asking YOU for advice. I've isolated myself from the sheep but it's painful. It's hard trying to make it without becoming a slave to the system What do you mean, "A slave to the system?" You are where you are thinking like that! What do you expect, people to work hard and hand you the money they've earned? Last Edited by nutmeg on 09/21/2020 06:17 PM |
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T-Man
Entitled title User ID: 78270630 Netherlands 09/21/2020 06:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I barely have any family or good relationships. I honestly don't know what to do. I don't even have a "trade" and people keep telling me I can't make it without one. What should I do to help me survive this ordeal? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33549620 youll be aight. i was in the exact same boat. if you start low in some job and stay there youll rise up eventually. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77003261 United States 09/21/2020 06:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I barely have any family or good relationships. I honestly don't know what to do. I don't even have a "trade" and people keep telling me I can't make it without one. What should I do to help me survive this ordeal? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33549620 CDL LOCAL PUBLIC WORKS SECTOR THEY WILL PAY FOR IT THEN GO YOUR OWN WATY CUASE CITY INFASTURCTURE FAILING TRUCK LOADING CLASS B IS LIKE DURG DEALING 1.5 ton on a sacle 1.3 on truck 1.1 on their scale who pays for 4? its take money to make money it doesnt sound nice but if your smart and rive safe roll1 up and think about it |
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Gemini Rising
User ID: 78633984 United States 09/21/2020 06:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Stay busy. The anxiety and depression are time-consuming. If you keep yourself occupied externally, you will find that the internal conflicts quiet down. Someone suggested CDL, that is a great idea. Commercial Drivers License... learn to drive the big rigs and see the country. You have nothing tying you to one place, so this would be ideal. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78349802 United States 09/21/2020 06:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You are ahead of the game. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74661623 Soon, everybody will be asking YOU for advice. I've isolated myself from the sheep but it's painful. It's hard trying to make it without becoming a slave to the system It's OK. Those that think they are making it are the worst off. They are making it because of their networking skills (friends in higher places) and their fucking luck. I've watched this go on for years with blue pillars (reference to the second post in the thread). It's usually just dumb fucking luck. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77933158 United States 09/21/2020 06:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | go to a subreddit called "theredpill" and man yourself up. Work out, clean up your diet, get some good habits, and get a job that pays at least $18/hour in an area with a good cost of living. Self discipline and long term goal setting will get you to shine above the rest of the unwashed masses. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78215030 ^^^^^ This And fucking shave and stop eating soy and wearing mama jeans for Christ’s sake. |
AggregateThreat
User ID: 78092574 United States 09/21/2020 06:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Stay out of college, stay away from all the snake oil IT certifications, because it is getting crowded, I know I've been in IT for a long time. Certifications are basically ignored, people that do the hiring want to know what you can build or fix. Military, I did it, I do not regret it If you don't have any major health issues I say military. If you're physically lazy, Air Force or Navy as it pays the same as USMC and Army, and you're much more likely to make it through boot camp. As long as you're not a Fk-up they will treat you good. And if economic or civil unrest SHTF, that is where you want to be, hands down. If you are in decent physical shape, and you want a high-speed type of job, USMC or Army have a bazillion kick-ass options. I think Army might still have a 2 year sign up, USMC had a 3 year grunt option back in the day. I did 6 years, got out with GI Bill kicked ass in engineering school, graduated with zero debt. The discipline that the USMC instilled in me is now part of my DNA, you can spend that discipline like cash, anytime you need something. Walk straight into recruiters office tomorrow start asking questions, don't delay, as you're getting older every day. If military is not for you, then trades. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16429300 United Kingdom 09/21/2020 07:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’ve got to the top of the game as a cameraman and I have no house and no pension. Total waste of time. I love my job but I’m worth fuck all. Be a plumber or something non-glamorous. As we say in England: Where there’s muck, there’s brass. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77952124 United States 09/21/2020 07:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I barely have any family or good relationships. I honestly don't know what to do. I don't even have a "trade" and people keep telling me I can't make it without one. What should I do to help me survive this ordeal? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33549620 Learn a trade ..Union plumbing hvac electrical 4 years journeyman |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76498371 United States 09/21/2020 07:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I barely have any family or good relationships. I honestly don't know what to do. I don't even have a "trade" and people keep telling me I can't make it without one. What should I do to help me survive this ordeal? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33549620 oh hi ..well... so now you have a friend...mentor..guide. at this point, 26...take the opportunities that come your way if they are in line with your goals...l know, you don't have any..but yes you do....you know what you want from this life by knowing what you don't want from it... l am empath...YOU are an artist....shall l continue friend. |
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A Tree, A Flower, And A River
User ID: 78068491 United States 09/21/2020 07:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Start by registering. Stop being an AC. The more I know, the crazier I appear to be. "THE ONLY WAY TO DEAL WITH AN UNFREE WORLD IS TO BECOME SO ABSOLUTELY FREE THAT YOUR VERY EXISTENCE IS AN ACT OF REBELLION" -ALBERT CAMUS No brains, no pain. The Difference Between Stupidity and Genius Is That Genius Has Its Limits |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77780470 Canada 09/21/2020 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | First, you need to take a real inventory of your talents, skills, education, etc. That might mean specialized career testing and mentoring from a local college. Take the time to really identify a good fit career-wise. A good academic advisor can help. Where you start may not be where you end, so you just need to take the first step and get your foot in the door at a good company. Generally, the larger the company, the higher the pay, the more financially rewarding, and the more possible career options. Think big. No one is going to hand you a successful career on a silver platter, so have a good work ethic and show initiative. Secondly, set goals. Brainstorm a list in each category, setting some realistic time frames, and putting in place action plans to move forward. You should have career, financial, social, education, health, spiritual, and family goals. Whatever your religious beliefs, if any, I would encourage you to get involved in your local church, etc. Take the time to develop your faith, whatever path that is. My last piece of advice is to really be disciplined about your time and schedule. Read and study about time management. And pray.. a lot. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79306137 United States 09/21/2020 08:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I barely have any family or good relationships. I honestly don't know what to do. I don't even have a "trade" and people keep telling me I can't make it without one. What should I do to help me survive this ordeal? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33549620 Join the navy, learn welding or car repair, and make yourself valuable. |
Anonymous User ID: 58698843 United States 09/21/2020 08:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Invest in yourself. Learn to meditate, develop good habits, learn a skill, develop relative mastery of something. No amount of good energy is ever wasted. If you want to travel the world like I have, being 7 your elder, yoga for body and mind may be good to get in touch with. It makes the 26,000 miles more comprehensible... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78723084 United States 09/21/2020 08:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I barely have any family or good relationships. I honestly don't know what to do. I don't even have a "trade" and people keep telling me I can't make it without one. What should I do to help me survive this ordeal? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 33549620 A) dump your 'friends'. You've lost sight long ago. B) don't take advise from your parents. they obviously didn't put you on a path. C) Suck it up buttercup. Go to a trade school like automotive or Heating and A/C. D) get a dog and if you can manage that for a year, then consider a girl friend. Ie. pull your head from your ass and focus. |