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LittleMe
I don’t want flowers when I die… User ID: 73169500 United States 10/28/2020 06:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you do the shopping and cooking? Are you helping in that area? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79113477 Yeah, I made him a meat pie today for lunch. He was patting his belly not long ago saying he is still full. He drank about a pint of kefir with it. https://imgur.com/a/WdbE0jr That looks delicious... yummy! I love kefir! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79163869 10/28/2020 06:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He's not like blubbery out of shape fat, you can still tell he's a body builder but his muscles are making his fat protrude so he looks shapely now, with a super big ass. He keeps complaining to me about it too, this morning he was like, 210. I was like stop eating the eurocrem, I pulled out the container and half of it is gone and we just got it on Saturday. He said he only ate half a serving size, it's more like half the container. I told him he had to do some cardio today if he wants to eat lunch so he did an hour on the treadmill, it's not helping. Any suggestions on how to get him to lose this fat? Quoting: chasity It's your cooking |
Don Draper from Nantucket
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77670960 United States 10/28/2020 06:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He's not like blubbery out of shape fat, you can still tell he's a body builder but his muscles are making his fat protrude so he looks shapely now, with a super big ass. He keeps complaining to me about it too, this morning he was like, 210. I was like stop eating the eurocrem, I pulled out the container and half of it is gone and we just got it on Saturday. He said he only ate half a serving size, it's more like half the container. I told him he had to do some cardio today if he wants to eat lunch so he did an hour on the treadmill, it's not helping. Any suggestions on how to get him to lose this fat? Quoting: chasity Trenbolone. Or more cardio and less food . As a bodybuilder myself I’m currently bulking ( 240 ) and my wife hats it too She likes me at 200 ripped for the tit |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79301740 United Kingdom 10/28/2020 06:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | wait you expected results after one session of tredmill.. lady do you understand how human body works.. he didn't put this wait in one day or one week. he will have go on a calorie deficit and if he is true to it, based on the deficit he is abto mantain he will show results in about one to two months.. its really math.. one hour of cardio, I imagine at his weight is around 500-700 calories.. that equates to 0.15 lbs, 3500 carlorie deficit is about one lb of weight loss Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74378200 He thinks lifting weights is all he has to do. We have some heavy workouts a few days a week together. Even I don't feel like doing cardio after it but I still do it. I think his metabolism slowed down, I don't think weights are enough for him anymore. He knows he needs to be calorie deficit, we all all the proper foods at home but he keeps eating the kids food, they are super skinny and need a lot of fat because the carbs aren't cutting it for them. You might consider switching to Serge Nubret’s old school workout routine which uses lighter weights, higher reps, shorter rest times between exercises and an hour of abs exercises so that the workouts double as weightlifting and cardio. This is the routine that won Nubret many elite bodybuilding competitions, including 2nd place to Arnold in the Mr. Olympia. Working with lighter weights leaves you less sore. And spreading out shorter workout sessions throughout the week doesn't tie up an entire day or two with super long workouts and major recovery. ----- "Because it is a low weight routine, low rest periods are vital for success. One minute rest periods MAX – aiming for rest periods of 30 seconds. Serge Nubret would do situps every single morning, seven days a week for one hour straight – working up to 2,000 sit-ups per day. Serge would lift weights 6 days a week and he would hit each muscle group twice per week." [link to www.castironstrength.com (secure)] |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79380926 United Kingdom 10/28/2020 06:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be careful what you wish for OP. He drops the pounds,he might drop you for a younger,less shallow alternative. Ever thought he might have been comfortable growing old gracefully.Until you called him a fat c**t. Not everyone is self infatuated narcissist. My experience is women in the real world prefer Men to look like Men. Muscle bound Dudes rarely get the attention they desperately desire.Women dont want to be fighting a Dude for the Mirror,or be worrying about him shagging her friends. |
DarkStalker74
User ID: 22067365 United States 10/28/2020 06:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No to be snarky... but isn't maintaining beauty standards typically a woman's responsibility? If he treats you well and he's a good provider, he should be able to weight 400lbs and your opinion of him shouldn't change one bit. Women today are 100x more superficial and shallow than men are... sorry, but it's true. This is why life on this planet sucks so bad right now. There aren't many women around that are worth being a better person for. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76720150 United States 10/28/2020 06:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He's not like blubbery out of shape fat, you can still tell he's a body builder but his muscles are making his fat protrude so he looks shapely now, with a super big ass. He keeps complaining to me about it too, this morning he was like, 210. I was like stop eating the eurocrem, I pulled out the container and half of it is gone and we just got it on Saturday. He said he only ate half a serving size, it's more like half the container. I told him he had to do some cardio today if he wants to eat lunch so he did an hour on the treadmill, it's not helping. Any suggestions on how to get him to lose this fat? Quoting: chasity Do you believe an hour on the treadmill today would change anything? Lol |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79301740 United Kingdom 10/28/2020 07:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No to be snarky... but isn't maintaining beauty standards typically a woman's responsibility? Quoting: DarkStalker74 If he treats you well and he's a good provider, he should be able to weight 400lbs and your opinion of him shouldn't change one bit. Women today are 100x more superficial and shallow than men are... sorry, but it's true. This is why life on this planet sucks so bad right now. There aren't many women around that are worth being a better person for. This is a recipe for divorce city. Any man who is incapable of running 2 full miles is a chump. |
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LittleMe
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78580158 United States 10/28/2020 07:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He's not like blubbery out of shape fat, you can still tell he's a body builder but his muscles are making his fat protrude so he looks shapely now, with a super big ass. He keeps complaining to me about it too, this morning he was like, 210. I was like stop eating the eurocrem, I pulled out the container and half of it is gone and we just got it on Saturday. He said he only ate half a serving size, it's more like half the container. I told him he had to do some cardio today if he wants to eat lunch so he did an hour on the treadmill, it's not helping. Any suggestions on how to get him to lose this fat? Quoting: chasity If he divorces you he would probably lose about 200 pounds. |
Naunet
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page8844 User ID: 72511948 United States 10/28/2020 08:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No to be snarky... but isn't maintaining beauty standards typically a woman's responsibility? Quoting: DarkStalker74 If he treats you well and he's a good provider, he should be able to weight 400lbs and your opinion of him shouldn't change one bit. Women today are 100x more superficial and shallow than men are... sorry, but it's true. This is why life on this planet sucks so bad right now. There aren't many women around that are worth being a better person for. Goes both ways I could let myself go but I am to vain for that, lol. If one spouse stays in shape so should the other, unless unable to medically. Just my opinion. |
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chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/29/2020 06:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | wait you expected results after one session of tredmill.. lady do you understand how human body works.. he didn't put this wait in one day or one week. he will have go on a calorie deficit and if he is true to it, based on the deficit he is abto mantain he will show results in about one to two months.. its really math.. one hour of cardio, I imagine at his weight is around 500-700 calories.. that equates to 0.15 lbs, 3500 carlorie deficit is about one lb of weight loss Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74378200 He thinks lifting weights is all he has to do. We have some heavy workouts a few days a week together. Even I don't feel like doing cardio after it but I still do it. I think his metabolism slowed down, I don't think weights are enough for him anymore. He knows he needs to be calorie deficit, we all all the proper foods at home but he keeps eating the kids food, they are super skinny and need a lot of fat because the carbs aren't cutting it for them. You might consider switching to Serge Nubret’s old school workout routine which uses lighter weights, higher reps, shorter rest times between exercises and an hour of abs exercises so that the workouts double as weightlifting and cardio. This is the routine that won Nubret many elite bodybuilding competitions, including 2nd place to Arnold in the Mr. Olympia. Working with lighter weights leaves you less sore. And spreading out shorter workout sessions throughout the week doesn't tie up an entire day or two with super long workouts and major recovery. ----- "Because it is a low weight routine, low rest periods are vital for success. One minute rest periods MAX – aiming for rest periods of 30 seconds. Serge Nubret would do situps every single morning, seven days a week for one hour straight – working up to 2,000 sit-ups per day. Serge would lift weights 6 days a week and he would hit each muscle group twice per week." [link to www.castironstrength.com (secure)] He believes in the system (can't remember his name) where you work out till you can't anymore with the heaviest you can go once or twice a month. I like your idea better. I was hitting each group twice a week doing splits 4 days and then my husband started hanging out at home all the time now he wants to do his crazy workouts with me. grass fed sardines |
chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/29/2020 06:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He's not like blubbery out of shape fat, you can still tell he's a body builder but his muscles are making his fat protrude so he looks shapely now, with a super big ass. He keeps complaining to me about it too, this morning he was like, 210. I was like stop eating the eurocrem, I pulled out the container and half of it is gone and we just got it on Saturday. He said he only ate half a serving size, it's more like half the container. I told him he had to do some cardio today if he wants to eat lunch so he did an hour on the treadmill, it's not helping. Any suggestions on how to get him to lose this fat? Quoting: chasity Do you believe an hour on the treadmill today would change anything? Lol What other cardio do you suggest, running so he can lose muscle? lol He bought a new bike a few months ago and only rode it twice. He goes 30 miles when he does ride it. Last Edited by By Owner Req on 10/29/2020 06:38 AM grass fed sardines |
chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/29/2020 06:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i feel sorry for OP. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79322861 i love my hubby any way i can get him, skinny, fat, or in between. i dont care as long as i can be beside him. going on 24 years and hes still cute as ever. a bit more grey but its still him, funny, charming, modest. I want my husband to live long and be healthy. We have only been together for 16 years, we got a late start and I want a lot more quality time with him and being overweight can cut a life short. Maybe you have a good life insurance policy on your husband, I don't. Mine is way more valuable alive and healthy, not fat and sick. grass fed sardines |
AdHomPhenom
User ID: 79138027 Japan 10/29/2020 06:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You gotta let him bend you over atleast twice a day.. 10 mins of fucking is like running for 2hrs.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76195662 It takes him 3-4 days to recover after a workout so it's not going to happen. There's your problem. That is not normal at all! It is if he’s lifting heavy The Ad hominem Phenomenon |
chasity
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chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/29/2020 06:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You gotta let him bend you over atleast twice a day.. 10 mins of fucking is like running for 2hrs.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76195662 It takes him 3-4 days to recover after a workout so it's not going to happen. There's your problem. That is not normal at all! It is if he’s lifting heavy grass fed sardines |
the deplorable ar-15 nut
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bestanee
User ID: 79174980 United States 10/29/2020 06:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He's not like blubbery out of shape fat, you can still tell he's a body builder but his muscles are making his fat protrude so he looks shapely now, with a super big ass. He keeps complaining to me about it too, this morning he was like, 210. I was like stop eating the eurocrem, I pulled out the container and half of it is gone and we just got it on Saturday. He said he only ate half a serving size, it's more like half the container. I told him he had to do some cardio today if he wants to eat lunch so he did an hour on the treadmill, it's not helping. Any suggestions on how to get him to lose this fat? Quoting: chasity Keep loving him and lead by exampl...something is off so help him recalibrate |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79322861 United States 10/29/2020 06:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i feel sorry for OP. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79322861 i love my hubby any way i can get him, skinny, fat, or in between. i dont care as long as i can be beside him. going on 24 years and hes still cute as ever. a bit more grey but its still him, funny, charming, modest. I want my husband to live long and be healthy. We have only been together for 16 years, we got a late start and I want a lot more quality time with him and being overweight can cut a life short. Maybe you have a good life insurance policy on your husband, I don't. Mine is way more valuable alive and healthy, not fat and sick. there you go again talking about money.. money and looks is all that seems to be important to you. i hope that changes before its too late. you keep on putting him down and he WILL take the weight off..YOU. and the next woman will be even prettier and wont care if he put on extra pounds.imagine that! i still feel bad for you OP. but at least you will have a four page thread to figure out where you went wrong when hes gone. good luck with everything. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 29279489 United States 10/29/2020 06:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Make sure he doesn't eat anything with high fructose corn syrup in it(or any kind of fructose/corn syrup/light corn syrup). No beer, limit bread intake(estrogen compounds, and estrogen mimickers cause weight retention). Intermitten fasting can help as well. Also having set times for eating that the body can adjust to helps. Drink red wine with really fatty foods, and make sure to cycle vitamin c(to prevent dependence). |
chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/29/2020 06:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i feel sorry for OP. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79322861 i love my hubby any way i can get him, skinny, fat, or in between. i dont care as long as i can be beside him. going on 24 years and hes still cute as ever. a bit more grey but its still him, funny, charming, modest. I want my husband to live long and be healthy. We have only been together for 16 years, we got a late start and I want a lot more quality time with him and being overweight can cut a life short. Maybe you have a good life insurance policy on your husband, I don't. Mine is way more valuable alive and healthy, not fat and sick. there you go again talking about money.. money and looks is all that seems to be important to you. i hope that changes before its too late. you keep on putting him down and he WILL take the weight off..YOU. and the next woman will be even prettier and wont care if he put on extra pounds.imagine that! i still feel bad for you OP. but at least you will have a four page thread to figure out where you went wrong when hes gone. good luck with everything. Thanks tardette! grass fed sardines |