My husband is starting to get fat

Warriors know when it is time to take on 'fat'. The samurai were not skinny, lean men. You need a layer of fat to take on a knife/sword. If someone cuts you open a layer of fat is like a layer of armour. It barely bleeds and protects you. The same goes with all warrior cultures which is why the movies like 300 are complete and utter bullshit. Perfect muscles means 'easily killed'.

Maybe your husbands instincts to gain a layer of fat are perfectly suitable for this time right now. If there is going to be a battle. You might as well have an additional layer on you. The same way that Indian women will suddenly increase in size if a 'hungry winter' is coming. You either doubt your hsubands instincts and want a model of your beliefs on how tones should look, or you trust human instinct.

I'll just look at the rowan tree. The rowan trees are fully seeded up ths year as are the holly. Why? Why more seed/fruit this year? The trees know it is going to be cold and they will be feeding more birds then normal. Just like the mast years for nut trees. Around about every 7 years the oaks and hickory will produce more nuts, why? Those trees know the coming weather.

His weight goes up and down. He's good in the 190's. He said this is normal for body builders to bulk in the winter but he's not a pro, he's a fucking truck driver that has barely worked all year.

We snuggle a lot, we do everything together when he's not working, like fun stuff and stuff that needs to get done. We work out together. I have some low calorie bread but he wants the bagels instead.

He's always been messy and I keep telling him that being messy is a mental illness and he knows that so I help him get things organized but he won't maintain it.

It's exactly the opposite.

Most highly intelligent/high-IQ people are naturally "messy". Messy does not equal unclean/dirty, it just means that they don't obsess over everything being in a it's "perfect pre-ordained spot" all the time. Subconsciously, their mind views ADHD level neatness as a waste of time and thought cycles.

I've worked and socialized with dozens of high IQ people over the last 30+ years and roughly 90% of them were very "messy" people.

No thank you, since I have resolved my childhood issues I'm not hypersexualized anymore.

I want my husband to live long and be healthy. We have only been together for 16 years, we got a late start and I want a lot more quality time with him and being overweight can cut a life short.

Maybe you have a good life insurance policy on your husband, I don't. Mine is way more valuable alive and healthy, not fat and sick.

You could try a fun hobby with him like larp(foam sword) fighting. Just because we age, doesn't mean people should stop engaging in play.

Okay, let me know if you know anyone who has not gotten their issues resolved yet.

Have a nice day.

Don’t you really mean more quality time with his wallet? You just don’t want that gravy train to stop. It is obvious you couldn’t care less about him as a person. Do you even work?

I don't work. I'm the type of woman that a man wants to take care of. It's been like this my whole life, it pisses other women off for some reason.

Don’t you really mean more quality time with his wallet? You just don’t want that gravy train to stop. It is obvious you couldn’t care less about him as a person. Do you even work?

Well, ask him about it. That is my position. And I have seen it before and it is going to be a bad winter. So try not to treat every year as the same year. Every year is different. At the end of winter if he still has a fat ass ask him why!?

Fasting also reverses the aging process by rebuilding new stem cells.

Meth

Hey chasity

Many of today’s foods have estrogen/ testosterone blockers. Furthermore the chemical called cortisol which is produced when stressed blocks testosterone.

I will give a more detailed explanation later, but if u looked in my fridge it’s almost empty. I try and eat fresh food ie organic fruits and veggies
Soft boiled/ lightly cooked eggs steak hemp seeds chia seeds yada yada

I’m still learning about stuff that is bad for u. Did u know flax seeds are vicious testosterone blockers? A lot of so called “health bars” are loaded with what is essentially poison..

I think you are on to something Lance. I'll ask him if he can see the shadow his ass is casting. We can determine how bad the winter will be like this.

Sounds to me like you just need to be laid by a real man like me, I would nail you like a jackhammer and make you come begging back for more.

shut up man whore!

shut up man whore!

He's not like blubbery out of shape fat, you can still tell he's a body builder but his muscles are making his fat protrude so he looks shapely now, with a super big ass. He keeps complaining to me about it too, this morning he was like, 210. I was like stop eating the eurocrem, I pulled out the container and half of it is gone and we just got it on Saturday. He said he only ate half a serving size, it's more like half the container. I told him he had to do some cardio today if he wants to eat lunch so he did an hour on the treadmill, it's not helping. Any suggestions on how to get him to lose this fat?

I'll give you the antithesis to fasting...

let him work out. smart die-hard weightlifting, bodybuilding twice a day 30 min. session each. Will take him about 4 month to a full transformation...he will not loose weight but transform fat. Will be able to change without fasting at all...intensive workout is extremely effective if done the right way. He will need to work out twice a day....he's going to enjoy it more than that fasting thing since he's a bodybuilder...

intensive short workout is the key for someone who enjoys eating...

also, he will be able to do most of the workout at home with minimal equipment...he will know what is needed....

Now he's 211 pounds today. I made delicious soup and he ate it, plus 2 bagels with pate and another pint of kefir and a hamburger patty.
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