My husband is starting to get fat | |
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LittleMe
I don’t want flowers when I die… User ID: 73169500 United States 10/29/2020 03:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Now he's 211 pounds today. I made delicious soup and he ate it, plus 2 bagels with pate and another pint of kefir and a hamburger patty. Quoting: chasity https://imgur.com/a/5JVXCnK |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78682637 United States 10/29/2020 03:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like he is familiar with the treadmill. I recommend a daily cardio exercise regimen. Whatever he can do on there. The weight training is good too. Also he can still eat his crap, but just needs to eat less of it and exert some self control. Smaller portions. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79035915 United States 10/29/2020 04:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You gotta let him bend you over atleast twice a day.. 10 mins of fucking is like running for 2hrs.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76195662 It takes him 3-4 days to recover after a workout so it's not going to happen. There's your problem. That is not normal at all! Sure, it can be very normal ... depending on age. Once you get to 50, it takes a lot more than 1 day off for muscle recovery. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79035915 United States 10/29/2020 04:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There’s no magic to losing weight. You can calculate a given person’s BMR and actual calorie usage. The studies show you can cut that by 25% and not lose muscle ... so long as protein intake remains high. There was a professor who ate a diet of Twinkies (and some vitamins) and he lost weight. It’s all about calories in vs. calories burned. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79035915 That's how we roll and he knows this but he can't stop over eating. He doesn't binge, he just eats a fuckton of high calorie dense foods like bagels and cheese, chocolate cream spread, pate. I have a bunch of prepped grilled chicken and lots of other low calorie dense foods but he chooses that other crap instead. So, I started at around 237 and am down to 221 in 2 months, from 26% body fat down to 19%. My muscle mass has remained constant. I calculated that I need around 2300 calories per day (BMR is around 2100). So I cut that down to 1700 per day. I continue to work out and try to get at least 75-100 grams of protein per day. I've tried all kinds of fad diets before, like Intermittent Fasting, etc. ... which has great benefits, except if you don't cut calories you really won't lose that much weight. I've tried Atkins, and it works for a while but then stalls out, as the calories increase and the body adjusts. Then you crave carbs and fall off the wagon. There's just no substitute for cutting the calories. Cut them by no more than 25% below daily usage because the metabolism slows down and the body can start losing muscle. So, at the end of the day, he's got to want it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79035915 United States 10/29/2020 04:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There’s no magic to losing weight. You can calculate a given person’s BMR and actual calorie usage. The studies show you can cut that by 25% and not lose muscle ... so long as protein intake remains high. There was a professor who ate a diet of Twinkies (and some vitamins) and he lost weight. It’s all about calories in vs. calories burned. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79035915 That's how we roll and he knows this but he can't stop over eating. He doesn't binge, he just eats a fuckton of high calorie dense foods like bagels and cheese, chocolate cream spread, pate. I have a bunch of prepped grilled chicken and lots of other low calorie dense foods but he chooses that other crap instead. So, I started at around 237 and am down to 221 in 2 months, from 26% body fat down to 19%. My muscle mass has remained constant. I calculated that I need around 2300 calories per day (BMR is around 2100). So I cut that down to 1700 per day. I continue to work out and try to get at least 75-100 grams of protein per day. I've tried all kinds of fad diets before, like Intermittent Fasting, etc. ... which has great benefits, except if you don't cut calories you really won't lose that much weight. I've tried Atkins, and it works for a while but then stalls out, as the calories increase and the body adjusts. Then you crave carbs and fall off the wagon. There's just no substitute for cutting the calories. Cut them by no more than 25% below daily usage because the metabolism slows down and the body can start losing muscle. So, at the end of the day, he's got to want it. When you're on a calorie ration, you start making better decisions too. I get 1700 per day, so I look at a can of pop or some candy bar or suites, and think, "hell, no, I'm not going to waste that many calories on this shit." It's also good to allow yourself a cheat day once per week. Psychologically, it helps to know that you don't have to do it forever, "I just have to make it til Sunday, you think. I can do it for two more days." But if there's no cheat day, the thought of doing that forever can be daunting. It's easier to do it in 6-day stretches rather than forever. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1298243 Netherlands 10/29/2020 04:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You gotta let him bend you over atleast twice a day.. 10 mins of fucking is like running for 2hrs.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76195662 It takes him 3-4 days to recover after a workout so it's not going to happen. There's your problem. That is not normal at all! Sure, it can be very normal ... depending on age. Once you get to 50, it takes a lot more than 1 day off for muscle recovery. havent you read any of this thread or something?? THEY DO HEAVY HEAVY MUSCLE TRAINING.. 10-30 mins of sex even roughstuff shouldn,t put you out of business for 4 days.. no that shit is testosterone level stuff. (the little guys restocking the shelves) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 50811052 United States 10/29/2020 04:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hes probably tired of having sex with you and bored with life. He has nothing left so he doesn't care if he gets fat. Try spicing things up and wearing some sexy lingerie and enticing him. That is if you're not overweight yourself. If you are lose weight and then do what I said and he will lose weight. |
Red John
User ID: 58754812 Canada 10/29/2020 05:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: chasity I still respect my husband's fat ass. I give him till 215 pounds to start fasting. He can't fit into his clothes anymore, he just bought some medium pj pants and I had to return them. He's in total denial about his size. The other day I saw my husband and made me feel sad... he lost so many pounds... he looked like a teenager, very skinny, even my oldest son is heavier than him. What? How is he losing weight? One word: divorce. when did that happen? oh hai! |
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chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/30/2020 07:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Carbs Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72608367 Cut the Carbs. 60-100grams of carbs max a day. Weight will fall off. Also, no sugar. I don't believe that. Once I started consuming between 150-200 grams of carbs a day my metabolism soared through the roof and I've been cutting on a high carb low fat diet. grass fed sardines |
chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/30/2020 07:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Mountain Biking. Best fun with your clothes on and its addictive and completely great for your heart and soul! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77070246 The most addicting part is walking your mountain bike after getting ANOTHER flat tire. we love biking! He has a road bike, I like mountain or hybrid bikes, I'm going to get a new one soon. grass fed sardines |
chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/30/2020 07:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One more thing. If he drinks pop have him try cutting that out completely. For me, that helps a lot with my appetite. Quoting: Anonymous Alien He drinks mostly water, tea and seltzer water. He's not a soda pop drinker. Did you drink diet or regular? I like a diet pepsi every now and then. grass fed sardines |
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User ID: 77547432 Canada 10/30/2020 08:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That seems about right! If you are not busy weaving your own magick, you are trapped in anothers spell. “It’s time you realized that you have something in you more powerful and miraculous than the things that affect you and make you dance like a puppet.” – Marcus Aurelius |
Weyoun
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chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/30/2020 11:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sure, it can be very normal ... depending on age. Once you get to 50, it takes a lot more than 1 day off for muscle recovery. havent you read any of this thread or something?? THEY DO HEAVY HEAVY MUSCLE TRAINING.. 10-30 mins of sex even roughstuff shouldn,t put you out of business for 4 days.. no that shit is testosterone level stuff. (the little guys restocking the shelves) We are in our late 40's and doing Mike Mentzer training to failure. It takes 3-4 days to recover usually by day 3 we are onto our next muscle group. Yesterday I told him lets do it light but we still did it to failure and I'll know tomorrow how bad I feel. Right now it's just basic soreness, nothing uncomfortable or requiring a naproxon. I'll still do cardio today but he won't. He wants to do legs today, I did legs, shoulders and traps yesterday, he just did traps and shoulders. The worst part is the hunger on the days off, he eats the same everyday no matter what, I usually eat lighter on the days off. [link to xboomfitness.com (secure)] Last Edited by By Owner Req on 10/30/2020 11:19 AM grass fed sardines |
chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/30/2020 11:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: LittleMe The other day I saw my husband and made me feel sad... he lost so many pounds... he looked like a teenager, very skinny, even my oldest son is heavier than him. What? How is he losing weight? One word: divorce. when did that happen? I know right, IDK what to say. Those of us that know Little Me on a personal level saw this coming. It's not a fun thing to experience, in fact I think it's very sad and horrible our friend is going through this. grass fed sardines |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78682637 United States 10/30/2020 11:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One more thing. If he drinks pop have him try cutting that out completely. For me, that helps a lot with my appetite. Quoting: Anonymous Alien He drinks mostly water, tea and seltzer water. He's not a soda pop drinker. Did you drink diet or regular? I like a diet pepsi every now and then. Either. Diet pop is no better. I think it might even be worse. |
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chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/30/2020 12:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How about you tell him to run? Run as far and fast as he can away from your shallow arse. Quoting: StormyNights I think you are confused. My husband is an ugly and short mofo. He was broke af when I imported him to the USA too. Wanting him to be in his best health is not shallow. The fact that you are not able to see past those blinders is even more telling about your personality. So fuck off limpdick. grass fed sardines |
chasity
(OP) User ID: 77360012 United States 10/30/2020 12:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One more thing. If he drinks pop have him try cutting that out completely. For me, that helps a lot with my appetite. Quoting: Anonymous Alien He drinks mostly water, tea and seltzer water. He's not a soda pop drinker. Did you drink diet or regular? I like a diet pepsi every now and then. Either. Diet pop is no better. I think it might even be worse. I don't have any issues with it but like I said I only drink it occasionally and I was never a soda pop drinker in my whole life so that could be why I can tolerate it. It will drop my blood sugar if I drink it when I'm hungry, that's the only bad thing I ever got from it but I just stuffed my pie hole with a bunch of bread and felt better lol. Last Edited by By Owner Req on 10/30/2020 12:34 PM grass fed sardines |
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