To my understanding, having children does not forfeit one's right to 'ascend" (don't like that term, as it implies too much new age disinformation, in my opinion) - it is imperative that each reincarnated soul obtain the advanced gnosis (knowledge/knowing) of what this enslaved experience is and has been for millenia. Every soul has an opportunity (to become enlightened enough to free themselves) or the decision by indecision (to continue to reincarnate into repeated physical incarnations).
One's soul is not "forced" to reincarnate, though is difficult. The law of free will (especially for the soul) is still intact. The adage 'Lack of knowledge of the law is not a defense' is analagous here. For the overwhelming majority, their souls' lack of knowledge, coupled with the trickery (metaphorically pushing the soul into the white light) makes it virtually impossible to escape the reincarnation/recycling process.
The matrix holes of the grid (specifically finding them and willfully insisting on exiting) is the manner in which one may escape to end the process.
HI. YOU SEEM LIKE A VERY GOOD PERSON WHO HAS FIGURED SOME THINGS OUT BUT IS VERY INCORRECT ON OTHERS. NO KNOWLEDGE IS EVER GAINED IN THIS MATRIX. ALL HUMANS ARE BRUTALLY SUBJECTED TO MEMORY ERASE DURING THE PROCESS RIGHT BEFORE REINCARNATION.
THERE ARE NO "OPPORTUNITIES" OR "DECISIONS". THE "LAW OF FREE WILL" DOES NOT EXIST IN THIS MATRIX. ALL DECEASED HUMANS ARE SUBJECTED TO MEMORY ERASE AND FORCED REINCARNATION.
THE GOAL IS TO WAKE UP AND FULLY INFORM HUMANITY. A RESISTANCE FORCE MUST GROW AND REMOVE THE SATANIST ARCHON HIERACHY FROM CONTROL.