also - if there is an ultimate source, then it must have always existed - it could not be 'birthed' - or else that means there was something before him. So he has already had all eternity to work this problem out. So I am skeptical of the ultimate creator (I don't mean the demiurge!)- I am skeptical of his intentions. Maybe love is just a myth even going to the very heart of hearts of all reality. Maybe it is just a survival computation arising out of our need to survive