There is a way to avoid forced reincarnation. One has to become enlighted while in physical body, it is important to gain knowledge of as how things work here... Religion is created by Demiurge, so being religious wont help.. In fact, it will only assist you to be fooled into yet another incarnation after you cross over. By simply understanding and seeing the reality in physical world helps a lot. Question everything, trust no one but your own intuition. Finally, saying NO to reincarnation helps a lot too, as nobody up there, no counselor of any order is capable to force anybody to come back here. They persuade rather than force. An educated person will say 'no thank you, I'll pass', but those who know nothing who really those 'counselors' are will see them as saints and wont question their authority. And, of course will agree to be pushed into yet another reincarnation. Usually the 'couselors' will make tons of promises, like what you will learn on earth, what you will get, how exciting the whole experience will be... Beware of all that, as that is only possible on lower astral and those 'holy men' are in reality devils who lie to you and cheat you. Resist the reincarnation with your whole soul and simply refuse to be send back. become a free spirit here, before you pass away, and you will find yourself in a place that you will be free too. If you cross over fearing authority of any kind, you will get into place just like that. Remember; you create your own hell, or heaven. Do not give away your spiritual power.