Well, with my last bf (dated 2 men in 6 years), I prayed for God to send me an answer for his troubles were too great for me. I wanted an answer which would give him a gift to move on..and God sent someone to me, that I gave his ph# to, and encouraged the two of them to spend time together. They did and I was off to pray for my answer from God next. RS was a direct answer from God. Didn't make relationship troubles disappear, just made our trouble-compatibility work out alright. Maybe you can try that? Pray to find someone who would be better for your wife, set them up and then easily let her go.