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Sigma Doka
User ID: 80825928 United Kingdom 10/08/2021 07:23 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am happy, even in my misery. For my troubles have kept me company in every way possible until I have let them go. How could I embrace such a need for change any other way? I'll watch the bird fly with one loose feather which will drop and the air will cleanse it of everything burdened. I actually had 1 legged bird pal. Chappie. You are a spy from the future lol Take care Poolio |
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Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/08/2021 07:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Good morning. Quoting: Louis in Richmond Yesterday was horrible in my home as usual, I pray for a better day today. At least she left me alone and stayed upstairs so I had the first full night's sleep in months without her constantly waking me to keep me from getting proper rest. I pray Para has a good day with tests. Hey Louis, good friends make bad days better. She's got us, you've got us, we've got us. When I read your words about "her" I can't imagine what it would feel like to read negative things about me. RS was terribly upset when I wrote bad things about him. I hope your wife, W.I.F.E., doesn't read about herself here. Oh fuck, ffs, it's Friday. I might need a molly. fedex one thru the aether for my mental meditations are failing....j/k [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] I wish I knew what to think or how to help her. She already believes everyone here hates her. When she asks if I write about her, I simply tell her that if I do I only write the truth. I wish I had never met her. It would have been better for me and she could have revelled in her anger undisturbed by someone that actually cared about her. Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/08/2021 07:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're obviously miserable, why not just divorce her? Quoting: NowIhavetothinkofaname Sell the house or any property you two own together and pay her alimony to get rid of her. Sure it will cost you a lot, but divorce is expensive because it's worth it. You know you'll regain your positive peace of mind and who knows you might even not just make yourself happy, but her too! She's probably being mean to you so you'll divorce her and she'll be able to tell her friends and new leading man that you were an awful husband who didn't deserve her. Both of you want to be free, so that is what you should want for the two of you. It may well come to that. She has mental issues and I feel obligated to maintain her. I'll die soon enough. I can't sell the house as I'm still in a battle with my bank and their mortgage processor over its ownership. I already paid over $250K USD in a divorce thirty years ago, I cannot do that again; I've still not recovered from that. It seems some evil is drawn to me as a moth to flame, only in this case it wishes to extinguish the light. I will not allow it to prevail, yet I know it is costing me my health. Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80073096 United States 10/08/2021 07:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wish I knew what to think or how to help her. Quoting: Louis in Richmond She already believes everyone here hates her. When she asks if I write about her, I simply tell her that if I do I only write the truth. I wish I had never met her. It would have been better for me and she could have revelled in her anger undisturbed by someone that actually cared about her. Well, with my last bf (dated 2 men in 6 years), I prayed for God to send me an answer for his troubles were too great for me. I wanted an answer which would give him a gift to move on..and God sent someone to me, that I gave his ph# to, and encouraged the two of them to spend time together. They did and I was off to pray for my answer from God next. RS was a direct answer from God. Didn't make relationship troubles disappear, just made our trouble-compatibility work out alright. Maybe you can try that? Pray to find someone who would be better for your wife, set them up and then easily let her go. |
Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/08/2021 07:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I wish I knew what to think or how to help her. Quoting: Louis in Richmond She already believes everyone here hates her. When she asks if I write about her, I simply tell her that if I do I only write the truth. I wish I had never met her. It would have been better for me and she could have revelled in her anger undisturbed by someone that actually cared about her. Well, with my last bf (dated 2 men in 6 years), I prayed for God to send me an answer for his troubles were too great for me. I wanted an answer which would give him a gift to move on..and God sent someone to me, that I gave his ph# to, and encouraged the two of them to spend time together. They did and I was off to pray for my answer from God next. RS was a direct answer from God. Didn't make relationship troubles disappear, just made our trouble-compatibility work out alright. Maybe you can try that? Pray to find someone who would be better for your wife, set them up and then easily let her go. I know prayer works. Perhaps I need to just pray for her to find someone else and leave me alone. Or I just need to pray for an answer. Thank you all for caring and tolerating my not keeping my trouble to myself. Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80073096 United States 10/08/2021 08:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know prayer works. Perhaps I need to just pray for her to find someone else and leave me alone. Quoting: Louis in Richmond Or I just need to pray for an answer. Thank you all for caring and tolerating my not keeping my trouble to myself. Yes. I'd tell her you are praying for her to find someone she wants to love. (with a sweet mannerism) She can probably hear your kindness above any instruction. |
NowIhavetothinkofaname
User ID: 75958742 Australia 10/08/2021 08:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're obviously miserable, why not just divorce her? Quoting: NowIhavetothinkofaname Sell the house or any property you two own together and pay her alimony to get rid of her. Sure it will cost you a lot, but divorce is expensive because it's worth it. You know you'll regain your positive peace of mind and who knows you might even not just make yourself happy, but her too! She's probably being mean to you so you'll divorce her and she'll be able to tell her friends and new leading man that you were an awful husband who didn't deserve her. Both of you want to be free, so that is what you should want for the two of you. It may well come to that. She has mental issues and I feel obligated to maintain her. I'll die soon enough. I can't sell the house as I'm still in a battle with my bank and their mortgage processor over its ownership. I already paid over $250K USD in a divorce thirty years ago, I cannot do that again; I've still not recovered from that. It seems some evil is drawn to me as a moth to flame, only in this case it wishes to extinguish the light. I will not allow it to prevail, yet I know it is costing me my health. I get your wife has mental issues but so do you. You're obviously mildly depressed about your living situation and I'm sure you realize that. A divorce means you get to live the rest of your life in whatever capacity you can. Your wife will be looked after by whoever she can afford to have care for her and the same goes for you. Just take your name off the deed of the house and tell the bank it belongs to her now, it's what she wants. She'll get it in the divorce and if you die before she does, she'll get the house anyway. Don't think of the divorce as freeing your wife only, it also frees you. You could remote work from a trailer by the sea in Mexico or SE Asia. You realize things have to change and what has to happen but you're still hesitant. That's the only reason why you have cause for complaint, not your wife, not her friends, not the bank issue. I don't understand why you'd spend another day being miserable when you could just say, "It's over, thanks for the memories." NowIhavetothinkofanameohnoithurts It's all bull! Nevertheless, the ruler is not truly wise who cannot discern evils before they develop themselves, and this is a faculty given to few. Niccolo Machiavelli Karma is funny, people who kick dogs usually get bitten. If someone doesn't add value to your life, then that someone shouldn't be a part of it. You can always trust people to do whatever is in their own interests. It is certain wastelands will be brought under cultivation. |
Paranoiaaaaa
(OP) Butters User ID: 80690473 United States 10/08/2021 09:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Great tunes Para! Quoting: Louis in Richmond I need to be off to sleep as I awaken at 5:30 AM to be at work before 6:00 AM. Be safe, be well, heal, we all love you. I was truly fucked up last night! I rarely sit & watch videos like that. "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you." - Fox Mulder - The X-Files "Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans." - John Lennon |
Paranoiaaaaa
(OP) Butters User ID: 80690473 United States 10/08/2021 09:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | https://imgur.com/qXNRph5 Jus a beans on toast. Think it might be better with parmesan instead of cheddar. Keep meaning to buy worchester sauce. Even if you add too much. You add a bit of butter to the beans. Interesting. I am allergic to legumes, all of them. But your bread looks tasty. I bought some marked down rye yesterday. I could smell it thru the plastic wrapping. something tells me that rye is gonna make me stink too. My past few days have been terribly difficult. I'm on the back side of plantar My SIL has that. Wearing soft bedroom slippers in the house is the only thing that helped him. I'm sorry about your friend's loss, but even more sorry that it has opened old wound for you. RS will understand you were just hurting. "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you." - Fox Mulder - The X-Files "Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans." - John Lennon |
Paranoiaaaaa
(OP) Butters User ID: 80690473 United States 10/08/2021 09:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | oatmeal with lil butter and muesli sprinkled on top plus some almonds. Quoting: waycation rye bread with ham and cheese. breakfast! It's must be rye bread day. I'm almost off my special diet so perhaps I'll get me a loaf. I love to make cheese sandwiches with butter on soft rye. I want a roast beef sandwich perhaps tonight...on rye! "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you." - Fox Mulder - The X-Files "Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans." - John Lennon |
Sigma Doka
User ID: 80825928 United Kingdom 10/08/2021 02:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Will make something maybe more bling. When all ingredients are used. A Spicy Boursin Kiev https://imgur.com/nH2YqWJ Last Edited by SEEO on 10/08/2021 02:06 PM |
Sigma Doka
User ID: 80825928 United Kingdom 10/08/2021 02:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hard to plate up on posh plates. Its just a quarter of a boursin. With nearly as much butter on flattened chicken. You can also then freeze. Defrost. Unwrap. Dry with a paper towel. Rewrap. Then freeze for about 40 min before adding crumbs. Fried and baked. Seasoned with salt and chilli flakes. To keep you interested. Better than a bad steak. https://imgur.com/0a4zd8Y |
Simple27
User ID: 77738211 United States 10/08/2021 02:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Will make something maybe more bling. When all ingredients are used. Quoting: Sigma Doka A Spicy Boursin Kiev https://imgur.com/nH2YqWJ ~*Ride the Wave*~ |
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Sigma Doka
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Paranoiaaaaa
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Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/08/2021 06:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I get your wife has mental issues but so do you. You're obviously mildly depressed about your living situation and I'm sure you realize that. Quoting: NowIhavetothinkofaname A divorce means you get to live the rest of your life in whatever capacity you can. Your wife will be looked after by whoever she can afford to have care for her and the same goes for you. Just take your name off the deed of the house and tell the bank it belongs to her now, it's what she wants. She'll get it in the divorce and if you die before she does, she'll get the house anyway. Don't think of the divorce as freeing your wife only, it also frees you. You could remote work from a trailer by the sea in Mexico or SE Asia. You realize things have to change and what has to happen but you're still hesitant. That's the only reason why you have cause for complaint, not your wife, not her friends, not the bank issue. I don't understand why you'd spend another day being miserable when you could just say, "It's over, thanks for the memories." You are correct. I do suffer from depression from this relationship. I feel I've an obligation to not abandon her despite being miserable. I'm neither unwanted nor unpopular. My doctor's FNP called after their office closed and talked perhaps five minutes about a prescription for a CGM monitor that I sent her an email asking for her to change, and about twenty more minutes about what I'm doing this weekend, what she's doing, how she needs to work Monday, and to have a beer and think of her while I'm off. Then how much she's looking forward to seeing me when I next stop by their office to get a new DMV form for a handicapped tag for the truck so she can show me the new air purification system they have added to their office. But I just have old fashioned values and can't be unfaithful or desertive. And yes, I realize I would be very happy with a different, professional, and educated women in my life. I guess I'm just an idiot and until I come to the realization that any change must come from me I must abide my present situation. Until then, I'll not post of it. Thank you for giving me that measure of clarity which I lacked. Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Paranoiaaaaa
(OP) Butters User ID: 80927577 United States 10/08/2021 07:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I get your wife has mental issues but so do you. You're obviously mildly depressed about your living situation and I'm sure you realize that. Quoting: NowIhavetothinkofaname A divorce means you get to live the rest of your life in whatever capacity you can. Your wife will be looked after by whoever she can afford to have care for her and the same goes for you. Just take your name off the deed of the house and tell the bank it belongs to her now, it's what she wants. She'll get it in the divorce and if you die before she does, she'll get the house anyway. Don't think of the divorce as freeing your wife only, it also frees you. You could remote work from a trailer by the sea in Mexico or SE Asia. You realize things have to change and what has to happen but you're still hesitant. That's the only reason why you have cause for complaint, not your wife, not her friends, not the bank issue. I don't understand why you'd spend another day being miserable when you could just say, "It's over, thanks for the memories." You are correct. I do suffer from depression from this relationship. I feel I've an obligation to not abandon her despite being miserable. I'm neither unwanted nor unpopular. My doctor's FNP called after their office closed and talked perhaps five minutes about a prescription for a CGM monitor that I sent her an email asking for her to change, and about twenty more minutes about what I'm doing this weekend, what she's doing, how she needs to work Monday, and to have a beer and think of her while I'm off. Then how much she's looking forward to seeing me when I next stop by their office to get a new DMV form for a handicapped tag for the truck so she can show me the new air purification system they have added to their office. But I just have old fashioned values and can't be unfaithful or desertive. And yes, I realize I would be very happy with a different, professional, and educated women in my life. I guess I'm just an idiot and until I come to the realization that any change must come from me I must abide my present situation. Until then, I'll not post of it. Thank you for giving me that measure of clarity which I lacked. You are trying to be the good guy. You believe in old fashioned values. If it makes you feel better to post, please do so. Or you always have my phone number. Texts or calls from you are always welcome! "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you." - Fox Mulder - The X-Files "Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans." - John Lennon |
Paranoiaaaaa
(OP) Butters User ID: 80690473 United States 10/08/2021 11:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dupe Last Edited by Paranoiaaaaa on 10/08/2021 11:53 PM "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you." - Fox Mulder - The X-Files "Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans." - John Lennon |
Paranoiaaaaa
(OP) Butters User ID: 80690473 United States 10/08/2021 11:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Roast beef, mushrooms, mozzarella & provolone on French bread. No rye in 2 stores. WTF is that about? Quoting: Paranoiaaaaa https://imgur.com/31P3zeb Mr had corned beef, sweet ham, mozzarella, provolone, & pepperjack. https://imgur.com/4ppgJyT It's not a great pic, but I did this once on my diet & liked it a lot. It just maple syrup mixed into the nuts & air fried for about 3 minutes. https://imgur.com/qquXPl7 "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you." - Fox Mulder - The X-Files "Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans." - John Lennon |
Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/08/2021 11:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Excellent repast! I had steak, smashed 'taters, and French cut green beans for dinner. I didn't think of taking a picture as it was not my creation. Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/09/2021 01:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay, it has been seven hours since dinner and I want a midnight snack! Here is 1:30 AM General Tso's Chicken with the translated from the Mandarin by Pool, 'Passed Gastly Sauce', and ovenated tempura chickens on top. I realized I don't need to worry if Mrs. doesn't like the smell of my favorite foods--there is a perfectly good pickup truck in the driveway she can sleep in!! https://imgur.com/JTvxLvf [link to imgur.com (secure)] Last Edited by Louis in Richmond on 10/09/2021 01:25 AM Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/09/2021 01:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Having prepared my rice mixture and freezing it last weekend make this a twenty minute meal! Winning all around! Unless you're a self-important tyrant whose subject realized you have no power but what is given unto you! [Kinda like the Branch Covidians and their mask and injection fetish!] She has no power over me. Sleep tight in your 'pickup truck of pain'. Last Edited by Louis in Richmond on 10/09/2021 01:44 AM Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/09/2021 04:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We all have wings, but some of us don't know why... [link to youtu.be (secure)] Last Edited by Louis in Richmond on 10/09/2021 09:45 AM Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/09/2021 04:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to youtu.be (secure)] Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/09/2021 04:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to youtu.be (secure)] Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/09/2021 04:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to youtu.be (secure)] Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80073096 United States 10/09/2021 05:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | to the perfectly good pickup truck and a permanently open heart to change...the funeral is today, there's gonna be an overabundant amount of crying and wailing. I don't know if I'll make it on my feet. But by the Grace of God go I. This whole week this album has been my comfort zone. |
Louis in Richmond
That is my arm now; broken for 7 months User ID: 74334538 United States 10/09/2021 05:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | to the perfectly good pickup truck and a permanently open heart to change...the funeral is today, there's gonna be an overabundant amount of crying and wailing. I don't know if I'll make it on my feet. But by the Grace of God go I. This whole week this album has been my comfort zone. Quoting: pool What funeral?!?!? or Am I missing the point? Until your military service has required you neutralize enemy combatants and invaders in the defense of your country, don't presume to tell us that have defended you that you don't support every shot we fired to eliminate that enemy. |