Anyone here just choose to remain single their whole life ? Are you content ? | |
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The Hidden Hand
User ID: 69560159 United States 01/22/2021 07:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you exist ? Quoting: Seekingtruthandhonor Lol I feel like an anomaly I really would be fine going the rest of my life without a girlfriend or wife I don’t really want kids although after having Covid it made me think maybe I do want a wife and kids But now that I’m not dead i think back to before that and realize yes no I don’t want a wife or kids lol I am 34 in a week. I can see myself go the rest of my life being single . I don’t even find woman to be appealing. I’m not gay. I just don’t need sex like most people . I find sex to be disgusting . Even kissing is gross. Do you realize it’s just swapping saliva ? Gross. I would take both of my ex girlfriends back in a second though. But that’s not gonna happen. Really don’t feel like putting my love out there again. Yep. Women are evil. I only use them for about 15 mins and it's back to business as usual. |
P.L.U.R.
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Hamlet's Mill
User ID: 65946294 United States 01/22/2021 07:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ten year "Hands"Solo here. On 1-10 Contentment scale with 0 being sucisuck, 10 being kissbliss: 4 decades rotationally partnered: chaotic 9-0 1 decade solo: steady 7-8 Steady, as She goes... Last Edited by TerraFirma's Esoterrorist on 01/22/2021 07:25 PM "Keep a weather eye to the chart on high and go home another way" –James Taylor Never Die Young |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79582512 United States 01/22/2021 07:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That’s incredibly powerful. You are here to see the ending. Look at it as a responsibility to live your best life in honor of the particular DNA string that preceded you, as it all ends now with you. Very empowering...like being around when last living Dinosaur died off. Don’t forget to turn the lights out. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79653701 United Kingdom 01/22/2021 07:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | From what I’ve studied, celibates can escape the lower realms (as long as they’re not masturbsting), but would still end up in Limbo for some time, and can thereafter attain at least Elemental Buddhahood Quoting: Asuralikeproduction I am awakened/self-realized/enlightened, whatever you want to call it. Therefore, I can tell you one thing very clearly: There is no technique and no strategy in the person. It doesn't matter if you meditate like a maniac or masturbate instead, because the point is to realize that you are not that masturbator. There is no path in the ego to the self. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79965679 United States 01/22/2021 07:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | That’s incredibly powerful. You are here to see the ending. Look at it as a responsibility to live your best life in honor of the particular DNA string that preceded you, as it all ends now with you. Very empowering...like being around when last living Dinosaur died off. Don’t forget to turn the lights out. people talking about their "line" like they are some blue blooded royalty. you have no line. no one remembers the world before you and no one will remember the one after either. |
Seekingtruthandhonor
(OP) User ID: 8661537 United States 01/22/2021 09:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah, I'm good with being single. I even considered becoming a monk at one point by taking a retreat to a monastery. Quoting: GLP Effect What kind of monk? In my studies and learning there’s many kinds of monk. Like Benedictine for example I will dwell in you. And you in me. And I will walk with my people . -GOD |
Seekingtruthandhonor
(OP) User ID: 8661537 United States 01/22/2021 09:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well here goes- I’m a 38 year old female (yes, we exist here on GLP despite common belief here). I fell in love hard with my high school sweetheart, we moved away from home, but both to the same city, different colleges, but lived together and created our own paths and careers in life until we finally married at 27. Ex-Hubby came from $ and a cushy background, I was your normal middle class, work my way through college. My job in college was bartending, so boyfriend and all his friends loved it, because they could get drunk as a skunk at my bar, and I’d drive all the friends home at the end of the night, I was the cool girlfriend. Fast forward, we get married after being together 10 years (we were both in high school and college in a big metropolitan city), career driven, large group of friends, life seemed perfect. We were successful, owned 4 properties and had a healthy 6 digit bank account by the time we got married, we had a good life... so I thought. 4 years into marriage, I find out about the barley legal mistress and our bank accounts being drained. Everything I felt we worked so hard on, all gone in the blink of an eye. To say that I don’t trust anyone, nor will ever let another “man” anywhere near what I have earned and rebuilt for myself in the last 6 years is an understatement. I’d rather be alone and happy, than drained of everything and embarrassed for being a blind fool. And no, I’m not a bitter woman, I have retained all the friends we had, because no one could believe what he did, and disowned him as a friend. I’ll take good friends, personal security, and a good single life any day over a crappy marriage based on dishonesty. So, OP, you’re not wrong to be wary, you’re smart. But also, I’d love kicks you in the ass, don’t avoid it, just know what signs to look out for Quoting: Anonymous Coward 41286941 Sorry you had to experience that. Must have been super traumatic. Just know God loves you greatly . I will dwell in you. And you in me. And I will walk with my people . -GOD |
Seekingtruthandhonor
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(OP) User ID: 8661537 United States 01/22/2021 09:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yep. After 30s you realize there’s no way I’m having kids now. unless you win the lotto and pay for nanny Quoting: Over watch My uncle got married at 41 and first kid at 43. So there is hope for those in their 30s who still want that kind of life It just isn’t for me I’m fine with that It’s very freeing to reAlize I don’t need anyone to be happy within I will dwell in you. And you in me. And I will walk with my people . -GOD |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76578904 Australia 01/22/2021 10:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | no only are TPTB thinning the herd world wide/// where men/women have less sex or no sex and produce no kids. it's a worldwide condition -perhaps with exception of a few moslem countries |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79925584 United States 01/22/2021 10:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, and there's plenty like us. If organized religion wasn't corrupt as fuck and I was the spiritual type I'd definitely look into becoming some sort of religious figure since the desire for people, relationships and sex isn't there. When I was growing up I thought that's the type of people who became monks and priests, the desireless, not damn perverts wanting to nail up kids. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79519830 I always had a pure view on religion growing up But now I see the horrors It’s truly vile what organized religion has become And there are some good souls who bear amazing fruit but it’s mostly a den of liars and thieves . Almost all religions . |
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