Life isnt fair.
Its like you listen to the rules and play the game fairly and you get no where. What do I mean by this? Ive followed what my sisters told me, what their friends told me, what my aunts and cousins told me, and I get absolutely no where. If I had a nickel for everytime I heard, youre very sweet but I see you as a friend, I would be richer than elon musk.
I dont get it.
They call me to talk to me about their stress, hopes, and dreams at 2-3am in the morning and Im always there to pick up the phone to listen, but its like they overlook how great of a boyfriend I can be. Ive been told, I wish I couldnt connect with my boyfriend the way I connect with you.
Personality doesnt mean shit. Its really all about looks. Ive helped a woman pay her $175 traffic ticket thinking it would get me in good with her, but she only hangs out with me when shes hungry. Of course I pay cause Im a gentleman and also a dumb fuck. I know its sad.
It just occured to me just now. If a woman has the hots for you for whatever reason. You could pretty much get away with anything as long as youre not a serial rapist, or murderer, they dont give a fuck about what job you have, how you act, they like you for some reason and because that it causes them to have a chemical reaction that distorts their brain.
I was never able to induce that chemical reaction on any woman.
They all use me as an emotional dumpster.
Iam in the Bro-friend gang for life.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72722368 You are your own problem. Take responsibility for yourself. Make your own decisions. Stop being a doormat for women's drama. Focus on improving yourself. Find something you're passionate about. Stop listening to the problems of the womenn in your life, because they aren't really in your life, you're in their life as the low testosterone, soy boy, gay bff that they own.
Fuck your gentleman status, because women don't give a shit about that in the way you think they do. Don't take advice from women on how to get women, they aren't being truthful with you or themselves when they give you that advice.
Be a man in a world of gender neutrality. Go to the gym. Do the things you enjoy. When you find something you're passionate about go full steam ahead. You will find yourself immersed in the topic and it will pour out of you and women will sense it and drink it up.
Blow off the fake friend females in your life. A man worth having to a desirable women has better things to do because he has interests and passions that compel him forward.
As you describe yourself, you are nothing as I describe. You are not desirable because you are trying to be what you think others want you to be. You need to become who you choose to be, and if others don't like you for it fuck em, the right ones will come to you, andnd if not you'll find yourself waking up to a life full of time spent doing thingd you like, doing things that add value to your life. Stop being a low testosterone soy boy door mat.
Be a man.
