*trigger warning* love does not exist in nature except when turtles do it on page 7. good luck

There is nothing wrong with people that are incapable of loving others. They need validation and worship, only a few people have the ability to love them. It's a very rare type of love that people don't want to do, it's the mother teresa of love.

Humans connect love and sex because that has worked for the species. It takes years to raise a child to adulthood, and it's best to have two people sharing those duties. Because of that, they develop deep feelings for each other. If one parent died, there is still the other one (or the family unit) to help with the young.

For most animals, it takes just a few months to mostly mature, and they live off the land, so it is not critical to have the father in place. Some experts use that as evidence that love doesn't exist in the animal world. I, personally, don't believe that. Domesticated pets certainly love their owners. Horses form attachments to each other. Geese form attachments. Elephants form attachments...

You are so goddamn welcome.

turtle love, no human can top this.

FTW

Blah blah blah -- pass me the Molly and the Magnums, babe.;)

'People' incapable of Love are not 'people'they are automatons. The things we all must avoid at present as they get their vaxx's and turn into zombie things. I already wrote of the various types of love. I guess Agape escapes most because it it a toil. Nada lust involved. Hence nada takers on the journey towards it because most are bereft of it. Empty souls with holes to fill is not Agape.

Sorry, what?

I fuckin tuned out there for a tick.

MY statement stands.

But is it natural if people have to learn agape? These are learned behaviors.

I prefer to call the automatons demons. Lance, you believe people born by in vitro fertilization have souls since they are man made?

AGape doesn't need to be learned, it is the striving of Man/Woman towards God and vice versa. It is inate. Demons are those who mistake lust for love. Carnal desires, based on some sort of infancy issues, instead of wonder and awe at the Creation. Never confuse the Creation with the Creator.

It does stem from being undeveloped but usually shame is what makes them create this mask and forget who they are when they become these demons. Not even God can reach them. Does that make God limited with creation? Most people are born innocent, just the psychopaths are born with brain deformities. But they are also saying the other boarder line personality disorders could be organic as well. So maybe there is a medicine to make it go away but that that opens up a another can of worms with pharmaceuticals that a lot of people say go against God and it's totally unnatural to be poked with needles. God has not created the perfect creation,. are we even good enough to praise god for all these shitty people we have to live with, that god created?

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What is shame? shame (n.)
Old English scamu, sceomu "feeling of guilt or disgrace; confusion caused by shame; disgrace, dishonor, insult, loss of esteem or reputation; shameful circumstance, what brings disgrace; modesty; private parts," from Proto-Germanic *skamo (source also of Old Saxon skama, Old Norse skömm, Swedish skam, Old Frisian scome, Dutch schaamte, Old High German scama, German Scham). The best guess is that this is from PIE *skem-, from *kem- "to cover" (covering oneself being a common expression of shame).

How can anyone feel shame unless they done fucked up? Shame is not a victims retort. Ask Psychopath Machine on that one. The mask, the public vs private face, is a uniQuely Eastern European tradition from what I have seen.It served a purpose 'back then' but has no merit or standing today if you have left those places. The mask wearing brings about a feeling of deeking and dodging in and about in a culture. Never fully enmeshed, never fully exposed. Outsider. It is one thing to adopt the role (like myself) of the 'Grey Man'...it is another to hide behind a visage. One hides knowingly, the other hasn't the minerals to be whom he or she is.

I'm pretty sure I have my dad's shame pegged. It stemmed from being poor. He hates poor people and thinks cleaning is beneath him but his mother had to clean stuff while his dad was in jail. That was considered the lowest level job. But I told him housekeepers are paid well because only rich people can afford them. He loves to torture poor people too, he won't do this to someone he thinks is equal. He doesn't like to share either.

Chasity, you are a beautiful woman with a loving man. In fact we could safely say that you and yours are porn incarnate. Focus on you and yours, not a dusty and musty old man who has lost all pleasure in the world. In other words....'FUCK HIM'...you have your own lives to live. I don't wish my mother to perish, she's 72. But the Buddha (fuck me I'm ROCOR and I'm bringing up the Buddha) said you can not entertain enlightment until both your parents have perished. Let the old man go. He's been nothing but a stress and strain upon you 2 from...well. From a very long time ago. I'm not approaching this from a novice level knowing. I've been here a long time. I want nothing but the best for you and yours.

Let, your dad, go....just saying.

That is so thoughtful Lance but I am learning so much. He's 72 also and in super health, but my husband even tells me I should have let my sister and her husband kill him with food and no medicine.

I just have that agape ingrained in me. I can't help but love the untouchables and I do screw with him too. It's kinda fun when I can finally confuse him every now and then, keeps him on his toes. I told him that my mom was cheating on him LOLOLOLOL, she is hiding some man at her condo, I was talking about my dad going there in secret but I didn't tell him I knew she was his side chick. But still, I just wanted to make sure he doesn't go back and forth between her and I because all she wants is info about me. Gossiping witch, she's malignant and I can't even go near her, she's dangerous. She has murderer DNA, I do too but I'm not ashamed to admit it the way she is.

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Don't confuse Pragma with Agape. And....never get involved, in a boy and girl fight.

What truly determines right from wrong? Whatever does harm to the larger material world, regardless of how it feels to you. It might feel good to save money by dumping the toxins from your factory in the nearby stream, but it harms the larger picture. It harms others who drink the water, harms the earth that grows our food...
Love exists in the material realm the same way anything exists: molecules. There is a wonderful feeling when you breast feed that makes the mother and the child bond in a "feeling" of bliss. It's based on a hormone that is also experienced in the female orgasm, which is why women fall in love through sex. Men do not. It took me my whole life to understand this. Men only fall in love with the person who advantages their intentions..their career...their life.
Whatever you do to another you do to yourself. It doesn't take a very strong mushroom trip to grok that one. If you have sex with a woman just for fun, she might lie to you and say she is not attached, but that is a pure lie. We cannot help but become attached to whomever we have sex with. It's our hormones, our biology. We think we can trick you into falling in love with us and making a commitment by giving you a good orgasm. An orgasm for a man is like a good meal, not a life changing event as it is for a woman. So, fornication is a sin because you are lying to each other, and the woman's heart is going to be broken no matter what she says to you to the contrary. You are causing harm by breaking hearts. That's why it's a sin. It hurts.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you because in truth we are all part of ONE.

ps, the forbidden apple is duality, the knowledge of good and evil is duality. If you see the earth or another person as apart from you, then you will justify hurting them.
Duality is an illusion.

well your avatar wearing earphones that way will make some men think they love it making them horny ...

but after some 40 years when earphones reach the knees ...


love goes this way ....



real love does not matter they reach the feet...

I don't know what Pragma is, can you explain this to me please?

There's always boob jobs.

Unconditional Love is only from mother to children and not always.

Human "Love" is a commercial product.

Sometimes murder is mercy.

Maternal murder DNA isn't as rare as you think. Women give life and we can take it away. And we make better decisions than men who base murder on lust (7 deadly sins), usually.

The whole family ax murdered the dad after throwing sulfuric acid on him. Her mom was killed by the police a couple days later in jail and the story was that he was spending all the money on women and not taking care of the family. IDK how they all came up with this idea instead of just not letting him access the money. If even that's the reason, that's what the papers printed. It was gruesome.

Late romantic composer, Gustav Mahler, addressed these issues in his 3rd symphony. Is there a divine element in mankind? What is man's place in the natural world, and what separates him from the animal? Is there a divine creator? Is there an element of the divine in all of creation, even sometimes within the animal realm of living things? The final movement, "What Love Tells Me" titled by Mahler in written programs for earlier performances, is an affirmation that there is indeed a divine creator whose love transcends the base level of raw, animal survival instinct. One of Mahler's most optimistic works. very beautiful.

Most murders happen in households. Some cruelty inflicted on relatives is beyond measure. So the neglect of the family was probably the tip of the iceberg.

Fixed!!! Lol

Nope!!!! Saw that at a zoo once. Rather I heard it, glanced over and was traumatized for life!!!! I’m not watching that dang video!!!!