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Domestic Men with Children how do you cope?

 
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Just say no to it all.

no no no no na nah no no no

and no

dating and marriage these days is like submerging oneself in molten lava for decades on end.

one last no

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better to burn alive with someone

than to burn alive alone
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You seem like you're really desperate to have a relationship. That's a obvious sign you shouldn't be in one.

Think about that.
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Just say no to it all.

no no no no na nah no no no

and no

dating and marriage these days is like submerging oneself in molten lava for decades on end.

one last no

epiclol-8bit
 Quoting: iSwear


better to burn alive with someone

than to burn alive alone
 Quoting: Red John


You seem like you're really desperate to have a relationship. That's a obvious sign you shouldn't be in one.

Think about that.
 Quoting: NowIhavetothinkofaname


now you're attacking me with
assumptions, accusations, judgement, and condemnation

goaway
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Just say no to it all.

no no no no na nah no no no

and no

dating and marriage these days is like submerging oneself in molten lava for decades on end.

one last no

epiclol-8bit
 Quoting: iSwear


better to burn alive with someone

than to burn alive alone
 Quoting: Red John


You seem like you're really desperate to have a relationship. That's a obvious sign you shouldn't be in one.

Think about that.
 Quoting: NowIhavetothinkofaname


now you're attacking me with
assumptions, accusations, judgement, and condemnation

goaway
 Quoting: Red John


They are not attacking you, they are confused by your avatar and don't know whether to be repulsed or to whack off. This is GuLP!
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better to burn alive with someone

than to burn alive alone
 Quoting: Red John


You seem like you're really desperate to have a relationship. That's a obvious sign you shouldn't be in one.

Think about that.
 Quoting: NowIhavetothinkofaname


now you're attacking me with
assumptions, accusations, judgement, and condemnation

goaway
 Quoting: Red John


They are not attacking you, they are confused by your avatar and don't know whether to be repulsed or to whack off. This is GuLP!
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I've been attacked directly by this poster in other threads
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How do I cope with a severely emotional wife? Well I did not marry a severely emotional wife in the first place, lol.

I married someone who I share values with, who isn't superficial and who is mentally stable.
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It was so better when we were tribes and communities, the kids would run around together, mums and wives would help each other and look after the men as a whole. So much happiness, not the way it is now. Commercialization has almost destroyed our lives. Quit your job and stay at home with the kids and make her work. Cheers.
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Compartmentalize your emotions. You bust ass all day to come home to a house in disorder when all you want is peace. You have to find it somewhere. Give each kid 15 minutes and the wife 30 to calm them all down. Be the family whisperer...

If you can't find serenity in your own house that will be the death of you spiritually. You'll dread going home and will try to find solace somewhere else.
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don' t have kids.
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It was so better when we were tribes and communities, the kids would run around together, mums and wives would help each other and look after the men as a whole. So much happiness, not the way it is now. Commercialization has almost destroyed our lives. Quit your job and stay at home with the kids and make her work. Cheers.
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It's not the commercialization.

It's fear. Fear of the other people. Fear of covid. Fear of anything different.

It's permeating every strata of society and making us paranoid.
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They have a support forum here.

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The most peaceful time I spend is when I'm with my ducklings.

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The most peaceful time I spend is when I'm with my ducklings.

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Then you should have kept your pecker in your pants and become a monk.

It's called life dude. Deal with it.
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Not to mention that the guy gets on nearly every thread about faith in Christ and poo-poos the faithful.

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Wow if true very well put. I hope the best for your family.

It sounds like you described a god 20 years of my life. Advocating was just the beginning it got worse. It became defending the children and finally protecting the children.

Cope? If your situation does not improve coping will turn into how did you all survive. How was you able to save yourself and the kids. And stay alive with sanity intact.

I pray your just venting not every situations the same.

I would suggest counseling if it's that bad. If the other refuses or in some cases goes along but tries to turn therapist against you or get them to chose sides or favor. I suggest you get a very strong separation plan in place.

Document record if you have to any verbal abuse or blow ups that take place. Crappy thing to do I know but wish I had.

If she's anything that I'm hoping is not. You have a very ruff ride ahead.

The kids are of the utmost importance. Yes they need they're Mother but not if they are put beneath her and targets of abuse of any kind. It's hard to do because naturally they love her no matter how they're treated.

But miserable suffering existence in not in any ones best interest Ever.
 Quoting: BasiliusValentinus


It sounds like she is. Unfortunately OP there is no cure or ever changing her.

Coping, your children are not going to be able to cope. If there is a way you can keep them away from her as long as you can like with aunts granny's do that. Try to keep her contact with them minimal. Does she have a favorite out of the 3?
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian



Well, I have no answers for you, and in some ways have similar experiences.

My wife is the same, she seems to want to find an issue I think so she can blow out.

Personally, as always, I blame social media for many issues. My wife sits all day on her phone (ok she keeps the house, but I mean always has her phone on her and spends hours on FB) watching this youtube crap of families posting their perfect days, its fake and staged and bs, but I think this is the issue (partly).

What they actually want to do is post perfect pictures on Instagram etc etc and actually running a family like our mothers did is not part of the plan.


Before I was married with children, if asked which is the stronger sex, I would have said without hesitation women, as (according to lore and Hollywood) they always pickup the slack whilst all men do is lie around watching sport and drinking beer all day.

But now I am married with children, I have the opposite opinion.

Women are emotional and unstable, always everything is too much and they need to take a FB break, or flip out and go off somewhere or hand over tasks to husband.

Ok fine.

But man still have to work a full time job, do all his normal chores on house/garden/etc, do kids bath etc every night, kids playing all weekend while wife takes a deserved fb break, and then still pickup all the slack during the week from the can't handle it all women.

Notice nowhere in there is there any downtime for the man; nor does the opposite apply, we cannot hand over our tasks to them; we cannot flip out or anything as kids need a parent and things need to be kept running, thus in the end men are actually by far the stronger sex.

When I watched "The Road" I thought that scene when the mom looses her sh*t and just walks out into the snow was super unrealistic.

But now I can totally imagine my wife doing that. In fact I am very concerned now how she will handle the collapse, I hope when internet is down and FB gone she will stabilize, otherwise it will be a tough ride.




It was so better when we were tribes and communities, the kids would run around together, mums and wives would help each other and look after the men as a whole. So much happiness, not the way it is now. Commercialization has almost destroyed our lives. Quit your job and stay at home with the kids and make her work. Cheers.
 Quoting: Anonymous Legend


I actually have to come agree with this. Our society has moved away from this for "progress" but honestly I am not really sure that we have won (well I know we have not), as I don't think it has truly resulted in happiness like you said.

Not that historical villages didn't have suffering, but just because there was trouble in past does not make our civilization a win.

I sometimes feel the issue lies with us men actually, we have somehow not been taught how to be "manly" in the sense of a firm leader of our family, able to "control" our women (which sounds bad, but I mean it in the sense of lead with respect etc, I am not talking about 1950's wife or muslim dominance kind of thing)

But again, I think the natural order has been destroyed (deliberately) by our society, and as a result, no one is happy as no-one can find a balance or order.


I personally have stated this many times, and will keep saying it, I think the best thing that can happen to humanity is some form of massive catastrophe totally breaking the current social order.

As I believe (and history shows) our natural tendency is to live in supportive tribes as you say, when the dust settles we will revert to this state again based on survival instinct, and for a time at any rate, things will be right in the world again.
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Re: Domestic Men with Children how do you cope?
All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


I can actually relate a lot with this...

My 2.5 year old daughter has developed a horrible sleep cycle. It is generally long days as she gets up early and doesn't nap the entire day! Lately, she'll fall out at maybe 10-11PM and then wake back up at 3-4AM --- it's horrible!

I feel like I don't get any sleep. I was working a full-time job but there's just too much chaos and at the moment, I don't HAVE to work but I'm on a cash burn and doing side work to keep some income so as not to burn through cash.

Regardless, it is very tiresome and the only thing I can say is try to keep breathing, stress causes us to hold our breath, bottle things up and that's never good for chaos.

I wish you the best and I wish I had a better answer but I do not...
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Wow Op. You described mine to a T.
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Children can be a handful, perhaps if you talk to her during a quiet hour and suggest to set aside aside an hour a day for prayer and try to entice to kids too.
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The only way to control a harpy is to make yourself look better, have more money and keep it stashed, and have your own female friends that you could bang if you wanted. She sees you as an unwanted shlub and isn’t attracted to you and probably has no accountability for anything. Typical woman.
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


Your mistake was marrying a psychobitch, then procreating with her.

Lay in the bed your made yourself and quit whining like a little pussy.
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children and wife mature you into a real person at 100 times the pace of meditation and etc.

raising kids is over before you know it. enjoy every minute, you will miss them with all your heart when it is done

you might want to leave a copy of "men are from mars, women are from venus" around. this helped me understand my husband, and even though hubs didn't read it, I think the things I told him about it helped him understand me.

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The most peaceful time I spend is when I'm with my ducklings.

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i know you loved those ducks...thats when it all startd going south

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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


Then you should have kept your pecker in your pants and become a monk.

It's called life dude. Deal with it.
 Quoting: ~Wisper~


"My wife is unreasonable and goes out of her way to make me miserable."

"It's your fault because you're an idiot for getting married."

Because that's precisely what every man in this situation needs to hear, from a woman no less. We get it ladies. You induce misery and we're stupid for putting up with you. The message is loud and clear and well-received. Thanks for being clear about it.

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The most peaceful time I spend is when I'm with my ducklings.

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tony soprano.?..

i know you loved those ducks...thats when it all startd going south
 Quoting: Grove Street


lol

Didn’t even think about that.

“Ducklings” are my offspring. 15 & 12 now and the most consternation happens nowadays when my daughter protests about having to watch Star Trek. And then I catch her getting wrapped up in an episode. chuckle

Of course there’s no Mother Goose here. Hence the peace. I’m so glad the bitch is gone.

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Just say no to it all.

no no no no na nah no no no

and no

dating and marriage these days is like submerging oneself in molten lava for decades on end.

one last no

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I agree with the poster anonymous one above that if you have no family or friends to hang out with, be happy with, rely on in emergencies and swap babysitting with... that isn't easy or traditional. A level of stress can build up just from that.
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I give my kids baths, lay down with them, read, say prayers and fall asleep with them.

Enjoy the few minutes you have with them.
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


i hear you, i also have dreams of advanced yoga practice, meditation and study of occult philosophy. but my reality is living paycheck to paycheck and draging 5 other people threw choas wife and 4 kids, age 2,4,1,and 12
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Not to mention that the guy gets on nearly every thread about faith in Christ and poo-poos the faithful.

You get what you deserve, dude.
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I believe in Christ 100%, maybe just not the same way you do.

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