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Domestic Men with Children how do you cope?

 
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Sounds like my life BEFORE my wife left and took all my money.

She would always cause drama with the kids and acream at me to "solve" things.

After years of this the kids hated me as if I was starting all the problems. I don't see the kids anymore.

My Ex, like many women and men to be fair, has no soul. She thinks only in terms of what she can get, what she can own. With regard to people, they are just a means to an end.

Read up on narcissism. I believe the narcissistic personalities are a result of todays societal trends. Be selfish, consume, use.

Now I am remarried to a real human being and happy. The kids are just like their mom, NPD, BPD selfish and unfeeling.....and me? I AM THE BAD GUY.

I used to dream of peace, of just being happy for more than a few minutes. Now I am happy, despite the constant attacks and lies from my Ex and the lack of my own children, through nonfault of my own...

Be careful. Known your enemy. Don't wait to get blindsided by your wife. Tell her counseling or lawyers. And get a great lawyer.

Dont let your Christian guilt prevent you from protecting yourself.
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


AGES OF YOU AND HER?

YOU "BOTH" MAY 'NEED' COUNSELING..WITH A 'MALE' COUNSELOR..THAT IS 'NOT' GAY! IS SHE ANYWHERE NEAR MENTAL-PAUSE? IM NOT A DR. BUT, I STRONGLY SUGGEST 'MEDICATION'.
NOT SURE FOR WHO OR WHOM...YET!? CAPS.
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Sounds like my life BEFORE my wife left and took all my money.

She would always cause drama with the kids and acream at me to "solve" things.

After years of this the kids hated me as if I was starting all the problems. I don't see the kids anymore.

My Ex, like many women and men to be fair, has no soul. She thinks only in terms of what she can get, what she can own. With regard to people, they are just a means to an end.

Read up on narcissism. I believe the narcissistic personalities are a result of todays societal trends. Be selfish, consume, use.

Now I am remarried to a real human being and happy. The kids are just like their mom, NPD, BPD selfish and unfeeling.....and me? I AM THE BAD GUY.

I used to dream of peace, of just being happy for more than a few minutes. Now I am happy, despite the constant attacks and lies from my Ex and the lack of my own children, through nonfault of my own...

Be careful. Known your enemy. Don't wait to get blindsided by your wife. Tell her counseling or lawyers. And get a great lawyer.

Dont let your Christian guilt prevent you from protecting yourself.
 Quoting: RickWilesDerp


WOW...BETTER ADVICE AND HELP FROM THIS GUY...BEEN 'THRU' DA WRINGGUH! THANKS.
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family life is chaos

all 12 and under

you're in the glory days bro

love it while it lasts

your quiet serenity comes when the nest is empty
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


Then you should have kept your pecker in your pants and become a monk.

It's called life dude. Deal with it.
 Quoting: ~Wisper~


100pts for telling it right.

If it's been like this all along, WHY MORE THAN 1 KID?

If it happened after time, find out the changing factor and remove/repair it.

Most nuts are nuts all along, if she was, even before kids, you chose that path.

Let me ask: does she have red hair?
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


AGES OF YOU AND HER?

YOU "BOTH" MAY 'NEED' COUNSELING..WITH A 'MALE' COUNSELOR..THAT IS 'NOT' GAY! IS SHE ANYWHERE NEAR MENTAL-PAUSE? IM NOT A DR. BUT, I STRONGLY SUGGEST 'MEDICATION'.
NOT SURE FOR WHO OR WHOM...YET!? CAPS.
 Quoting: muckuh

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Sounds like my life BEFORE my wife left and took all my money.

She would always cause drama with the kids and acream at me to "solve" things.

After years of this the kids hated me as if I was starting all the problems. I don't see the kids anymore.

My Ex, like many women and men to be fair, has no soul. She thinks only in terms of what she can get, what she can own. With regard to people, they are just a means to an end.

Read up on narcissism. I believe the narcissistic personalities are a result of todays societal trends. Be selfish, consume, use.

Now I am remarried to a real human being and happy. The kids are just like their mom, NPD, BPD selfish and unfeeling.....and me? I AM THE BAD GUY.

I used to dream of peace, of just being happy for more than a few minutes. Now I am happy, despite the constant attacks and lies from my Ex and the lack of my own children, through nonfault of my own...

Be careful. Known your enemy. Don't wait to get blindsided by your wife. Tell her counseling or lawyers. And get a great lawyer.

Dont let your Christian guilt prevent you from protecting yourself.
 Quoting: RickWilesDerp


WOW...BETTER ADVICE AND HELP FROM THIS GUY...BEEN 'THRU' DA WRINGGUH! THANKS.
 Quoting: muckuh


I could tell you so many stories of her miserable behavior, you have no idea. I nearly killed myself I was so depressed and devastated. Glad I didn't because life is better than ever. I hate to see guys going through the same thing. Especially when most men thinking they are taking the high road by letting their women use and destroy them.

Vengence is the Lords.
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First of all, I'm overwhelmed at how this thread has grown overnight and I'm sorry I wasn't around to contribute, but I was in the middle of it and it carried on into endless discussion until sleep.

Thank you all for the kind words, the harsh words, advice and support. I have not read anything that was not applicable from one angle or another whether harsh or kind. (Except for the response above out of left field.)

Someone asked what *my* deal was and maybe I'm the problem.

So here's my deal:

I am one big toe dipped into the Autism spectrum. Through nature or nurture I tend to be a very cool (Not Fonzie cool but borderline cold) individual. I am logical to a fault, somewhere between Sheldon Cooper and Spock.

I am also right 90% of the time, and that's a modest assessment.

I have a great difficulty understanding why people don't want to be correct when presented with the option to be so.

My wife thinks that I get something out of this behavior, like superiority complex or ego. I admit that I enjoy having insight and being correct. Why wouldn't I?

My wife does admit that often times I *do* have the right insight at the right time, more often than not. I do not know how to...the analogy that I used:

I'm a band who put out an album where 9 out of 10 tracks were successful singles.

I don't know if my next album is going to be the same, but I have no reason to suspect not, so I record my songs and I hope that people like them. What else can I do?

---

My deal, continued, according to her: I am stagnant, content with no change. I agree, I am too tired for change, I feel survival and keeping sane takes everything I have out of me.

I also know she is Jealous that the kids (and even the dog) seem to gravitate to me more, they like what I like, and they don't appreciate her.

---------

Our deal:

My wife feels that screen time is turning the kids into assholes. She's not wrong, but the whole screen time issue is complicated because it's 9/10ths of the kids socialization they get these days.

She's been trying to steer the ship into her only-child upbringing from the "Old country" from the 70's/80's it couldn't possibly be further away from today's reality.

So electronics have been a target for a long time and I think if it was up to her they'd be playing with wooden home-made toys all day and she feels arbitrary ways like "Watching Cartoon network is okay" I guess because maybe she watched cartoons as a kid sometimes.
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


Then you should have kept your pecker in your pants and become a monk.

It's called life dude. Deal with it.
 Quoting: ~Wisper~


100pts for telling it right.
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The boldness of the modern feminist increasingly knows no bounds. Back in a former life I used to have to slyly ask leading questions to groups of plied young ladies in order to learn their true nature. It was an arduous process that required calculation and cunning.

Now they're all like, "Getting married is grounds for divorce because you'd have to be a naive cuck loser to think the modern woman is capable of love."

This is a boring situation. I at least used to enjoy the process before.

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I dont know, but if you see her and her spine being lowered by a machine into a body,... Run!


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First of all, I'm overwhelmed at how this thread has grown overnight and I'm sorry I wasn't around to contribute, but I was in the middle of it and it carried on into endless discussion until sleep.

Thank you all for the kind words, the harsh words, advice and support. I have not read anything that was not applicable from one angle or another whether harsh or kind. (Except for the response above out of left field.)

Someone asked what *my* deal was and maybe I'm the problem.

So here's my deal:

I am one big toe dipped into the Autism spectrum. Through nature or nurture I tend to be a very cool (Not Fonzie cool but borderline cold) individual. I am logical to a fault, somewhere between Sheldon Cooper and Spock.

I am also right 90% of the time, and that's a modest assessment.

I have a great difficulty understanding why people don't want to be correct when presented with the option to be so.

My wife thinks that I get something out of this behavior, like superiority complex or ego. I admit that I enjoy having insight and being correct. Why wouldn't I?

My wife does admit that often times I *do* have the right insight at the right time, more often than not. I do not know how to...the analogy that I used:

I'm a band who put out an album where 9 out of 10 tracks were successful singles.

I don't know if my next album is going to be the same, but I have no reason to suspect not, so I record my songs and I hope that people like them. What else can I do?

---

My deal, continued, according to her: I am stagnant, content with no change. I agree, I am too tired for change, I feel survival and keeping sane takes everything I have out of me.

I also know she is Jealous that the kids (and even the dog) seem to gravitate to me more, they like what I like, and they don't appreciate her.

---------

Our deal:

My wife feels that screen time is turning the kids into assholes. She's not wrong, but the whole screen time issue is complicated because it's 9/10ths of the kids socialization they get these days.

She's been trying to steer the ship into her only-child upbringing from the "Old country" from the 70's/80's it couldn't possibly be further away from today's reality.

So electronics have been a target for a long time and I think if it was up to her they'd be playing with wooden home-made toys all day and she feels arbitrary ways like "Watching Cartoon network is okay" I guess because maybe she watched cartoons as a kid sometimes.
 Quoting: The_Meridian



Before my Ex cheated and left me, the kids gravitated toward me. Couldn't stand their mother and I thought that if anything happened they wouldn't view me as the aggressor. I didn't believe or foresee my Ex lying to my kids and using everything she could to make me look like the bad guy. I never thought she would become a liar, little did I know, she was a liar and their from the beginning.

Oh well. If you start divorce proceedings please get a lawyer that works with men first. Dont trust your wife, she seems to hate you and when you leave she will hate you infinitely more.
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Christian men are technically only supposed to leave in certain circumstances regardless of what they married. I'm not sure if OP is Christian but I certainly wasn't advocating for cavalier divorces as much as I was echoing the Pauline refrain of it's good to not marry if at all possible. Given the current state of the dating market and society at large, it is reasonable to expect the Christian dating scene is filled with women pretending to be this, that, or the other thing because Christian men are "easy marks" who should be gamed, because they deserve it, because they're easy marks who should be gamed.

If you must, and especially if you have assets, the prenup is mandatory now. If she leaves you because she's mad she signed the prenup she's no longer you're problem.

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How old is your wife? She might be going through peri-menopause.
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sounds like you are an introvert, i'll tell you something.

introverts still/need want family life, they just need some time alone TOO.

walks in nature are good for both introverts and extroverts, they tire out the kids, get them away from the screen, they give you fresh air and sunshine, and you just might want to hold hands with that beautiful lady of yours.
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sounds like you are an introvert, i'll tell you something.

introverts still/need want family life, they just need some time alone TOO.

walks in nature are good for both introverts and extroverts, they tire out the kids, get them away from the screen, they give you fresh air and sunshine, and you just might want to hold hands with that beautiful lady of yours.
 Quoting: Eilonwy


In the midst of constant chaos a normal person can be driven into introverted behaviors.

The alone time we seek is a survival mechanism.

When things got bad toward the end I jealously sought more and more time alone...until I found myself alone.

These relationship problems are so complex each person has their own agenda, personalities and weaknesses.

I thought i wanted to be alone. I didnt, I wanted peace, just a little peace.
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


AGES OF YOU AND HER?

YOU "BOTH" MAY 'NEED' COUNSELING..WITH A 'MALE' COUNSELOR..THAT IS 'NOT' GAY! IS SHE ANYWHERE NEAR MENTAL-PAUSE? IM NOT A DR. BUT, I STRONGLY SUGGEST 'MEDICATION'.
NOT SURE FOR WHO OR WHOM...YET!? CAPS.
 Quoting: muckuh

 Quoting: muckuh

muckuh
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


AGES OF YOU AND HER?

YOU "BOTH" MAY 'NEED' COUNSELING..WITH A 'MALE' COUNSELOR..THAT IS 'NOT' GAY! IS SHE ANYWHERE NEAR MENTAL-PAUSE? IM NOT A DR. BUT, I STRONGLY SUGGEST 'MEDICATION'.
NOT SURE FOR WHO OR WHOM...YET!? CAPS.
 Quoting: muckuh

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I'm 49 she's 50
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AGES OF YOU AND HER?

YOU "BOTH" MAY 'NEED' COUNSELING..WITH A 'MALE' COUNSELOR..THAT IS 'NOT' GAY! IS SHE ANYWHERE NEAR MENTAL-PAUSE? IM NOT A DR. BUT, I STRONGLY SUGGEST 'MEDICATION'.
NOT SURE FOR WHO OR WHOM...YET!? CAPS.
 Quoting: muckuh

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I'm 49 she's 50
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And your children are so young... I can see her frustration...
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Dude, it’s menopause. Is she on HRT? Has she had a hysterectomy? Is she bleeding for months?

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Dude, it’s menopause. Is she on HRT? Has she had a hysterectomy? Is she bleeding for months?
 Quoting: MoonSlice


She was at the Dr. not so long ago and the Dr. told her she had NOT begun menopause yet due to some test or another or both.

She's not missing any hormones and not on HRT or BC.
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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian


Then you should have kept your pecker in your pants and become a monk.

It's called life dude. Deal with it.
 Quoting: ~Wisper~


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Just say no to it all.

no no no no na nah no no no

and no

dating and marriage these days is like submerging oneself in molten lava for decades on end.

one last no

epiclol-8bit
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NICE! NO!

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I give my kids baths, lay down with them, read, say prayers and fall asleep with them.

Enjoy the few minutes you have with them.
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Divorce 1dunno1 sounds like you married a defective human
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shesright

Screw spending 1 hour a month fighting with someone you live with over crap you can't change.

You're living in hell dood, you need to bounce. I would've bounced after the first nonsensical fight.
 Quoting: NowIhavetothinkofaname


Fighting for an hour a month?

That's a really good marriage. One in a hundred these days.
 Quoting: Patagonians


I wouldn't put up with it. Why do you?

I want every man to question why they put up with constant angst from their wife?

A wife that obviously doesn't love them enough to show them that their man's mental health is more important than a badly written piece of real life relationship drama soap opera, for the purpose of providing a bad backdrop to their otherwise uninteresting lives?

Is pussy in middle aged life, really worth the hassle of juggling work with badly dramatized home life and the prospect of whining kids?

The ladies who believe in woman power are right!

It's your fault it's happening to you, IF you were really that unhappy you'd be out the door.

Men are suckers who don't have the balls to bounce and just sook to anyone who will listen to their whinging.

I think it's sad when your woman has bigger balls than you...
 Quoting: NowIhavetothinkofaname


My wife is an angel, she has to put up with my shit most of the time. I'm pretty difficult to deal with sometimes.

Enjoy your single life but let me tell you that growing old and dying alone is a huge fail at life.
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Hang in there.
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Married without kids. 7th year as of 2021. We both don't want kids. Being married is enough of a responsibility.

There are times I want out, however I know full well the grass isn't greener on the other side. I know I can't have my cake and eat it too. I love my wife and I'm grateful for what I have. That's about it. I wish all the patience and peace for people with kids.

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All I want is serenity and day after day it's chaos, mostly on account of my severely emotional wife.

She has to have blow-outs with children on a daily basis or she goes out of her way to misunderstand me so she can have a blow out with me.

I work six days a week, physical labor. The 3 kids are 12 and under. She expects us all to satisfy an imaginary ideal world in which she fantasizes and cannot handle it when we act like human beings.

How do you cope?

I have dreams of meditation, fasting and enlightenment but instead I have crying, yelling, shouting, and drama everywhere I look and I have to spend 1/2 my day advocating for children.
 Quoting: The_Meridian

Let's assume you are the smart parent for a moment. Sent her to work and you raise the children so they grow up to be as stable as possible. Barring that you should invest in a kit-car rather than a kit-family. Becoming a parent is like two adults agreeing they have no life worth living so they want to become an eternal slave to a child.





GLP