I just have to ask you OP not being rude, honestly...do you regret starting this thread?

Majority think like me, very serious and major trust issue.
Or were you looking for more sympathetic views from your fellow glpers?

I am curious as to how you feel now?
I mean maybe you were looking for support and there are others in this thread in a very similar situation.
But it seams to me very strong lines in the sand for the majority.

I do feel bad for you, I mean none of us wants to find out our partner has done something like this, but if it does happen we also must respect ourselves and react. Or simply accept it and give in.

I would not want to be in your position.
My stance is very clear to my partner, you take it. I walk without hesitation. I would expect him to do the same to me. But we have an agreement and promised to never get the jab. God help him if he took it and didn't tell me right away. I would feel like I was contaminated and would actually hate him with all that I am due to the betrayal.

Wishing you peace and safety in this unpredictable times.