Some people will blame that change on feminism. I don't think that change has anything to do with feminism.

Feminism means nothing when it comes to getting a date. Getting a date used to involve work for both people (outside of blind dates). That's why I think when you look back to pre-Internet explosion love songs women were writing and recording songs that expressed a lot appreciation for men, and they put a lot of emphasis on proving that they would be good partners and explaining why they believed the relationship would succeed. The reason all of that is in old women's love songs is because it is a manifestation of the effort women had to exert to get the dates they wanted in those days.

Now they just turn on their phone and find a list of guys to choose from in their dating apps. No effort whatsoever is necessary for a woman to get good dates now. That goes for all age groups who are dating these days. It's a big reason why not just 90s-type women are extinct but women of the types of all previous generations are extinct in all age groups. I am sure there are a few exceptions here and there like someone who refuses to use the Internet.

For the women posting in this thread, "I am a 90s woman and still here." If you rely on the Internet for dates, I would bet you think of your dates like trash and put out as little effort in dating as that mentality would dictate. That wasn't even possible in the 90s and previously. Women could not afford to act think or act that way simply because getting a good date took effort, so each one had to be cherished.

TLDR: Feminism didn't change dating. Technology did.