Husband had some normal depression after job loss. My Mother in law has always been very controlling. She is a former dean of school near DC.
She inserted herself and made my husband go see a therapist she selected.
This was 4 years ago.
He went from being a good and strong man to a very scary and angry person since seeing this therapist.
I researched her and begged him to stop seeing her as she is an atheist humanist liberal.
He said since his Mother was paying for the therapist he might as well keep going.
Anyway, I looked her up again recently since he has gotten worse and now wants a divorce and says he hates me (I am a loving trad wife so this hurts a lot)
Her father's obituary is now first result.
Her father was a founder of the CIA's shrink unit.
Apparently shrink under 5 presidents.
Surreal.
His last work on this Earth was to write an anti Trump book.
I told my husband this and he's not remotely concerned.
Anyone reading this can figure out who I'm talking about and his shrink daughter with a bit of sleuthing.
I now am faced with a husband who acts hell bent on ruining me and since I knew him for years BEFORE "therapy", this all seems like it hinges on 4 years with this woman "shrinking" him.
What chills me no end is that all the happy times together are gone from his memory.
Instead I'm subjected to nonstop mental torture no matter how hard I try to cook, clean, and be super nice.

Should I be scared? Now that I found that obit, things make more sense. He acts brainwashed. Did I also mention my husband is very handsome and the shrink acts flirty with him even though she's 25 years older than him?